I find myself saying the sweetest simplest things to beautiful women and they are lost in the sauce as to what in the hell I said. Also I feel like I get treated like a big deal for a short time then the gud luck wears off. People think I will never committ. I just want a sexy woman to be my girl friend like many other women have.

I have sworn off Aquariums.

Well, typically Aquarians are very free spirits and said to not really commit and / or make the other party wonder if they really did.
So maybe just go through past relationships and analyze your behaviour and see if there's stuff you can improve for a future one. Take into account what ex partners have told you they missed and see if you can do something about those things without really compromising yourself.

There are other signs that work well with Aquarians, so it's also a matter of simply finding the right partner. Here you can look back and see where you went wrong in the past. Do you tend to feel attracted to people who are X Y Z and later on find out they aren't really a good match after all? Then you may find you best go for A B or C even though they seem less appealing to begin with.

You can learn a lot about yourself, your behaviour etc. from 'analyzing' past relationships and flings, and from what these ppl told you.
You can also ask friends, but do tell them they have to be really honest and not tell you what they think you want to hear.