I nudge with a kick in the bum those who I recognize, those whom I am not able to send a message too due to their criteria, those who do not respond and I got this for you too

(I have one other reason but for now I'll keep that one a secret)

Anyone else who uses the kick in the bum nudge? Feel free to share ...

You charge a buck, if only I had a nickel for every time ...

If I was six months younger, it would be Nancy!

nope...never used it

Never used it.

I was only kick once, but someone I never messaged. And I blocked him.

I don't do nudges. They serve no purpose other than to annoy.

A kick in the butt usually gets my message across but sometimes I have to take it to the next level!

I think the kick in the butt is rude one guy kept doing it he said it was to get my attention
I told him if he disrespect me again he was going to be sorry.
I knew where he lived.
Don't worry we are still mates and sometimes hang out. Lol

for some reason I get a lot of these...

Sometimes it is necessary and even mandatory to snap someone into reality!!

I have never sent that kind of a nudge, but I think it's probably used more as a gentle rebuke, than a real boot up the khyber.

http://mingle2.com/topic/445824

No one.

Use your words.

If you can't use your words then leave them alone, unless they aren't leaving you alone then use acceptable force.

Nudging, poking, kicking in the bum (as used in the OP) is for truly cowardly children that can't accept a passive "no" and need someone else to make them the center of the universe and force them to justify their decisions.

"You dare not let me contact you?! You dare not talk to me?! You dare not give me attention?! I demand an explanation! And I will constantly bug you in order to get what I want! It's all about me! I'm not causing you any physical harm, and I personally find it okay for me to nudge you, so you should not have a problem with me passive aggressively trying to force you to interact with me.

And, oh, it's just one little nudge, no big deal, so you are not allowed to see it as a big deal either, even if you receive 1,000 nudges in total in an hour. Since I'm not the one doing the thousand nudges, just my one, is good for you and you should be happy about it and make sure to respond to me as though I just gave you a gift."

Nudges, pokes, kicks, whatever should be removed.
They just contribute to the race to the bottom of online interaction.

I am not sure I have ever used the 'Nudge' feature,
maybe with a couple of friends.

It's a tool..use it if you need it.

I'm sure if there was a middle finger nudge, I would have received a few ;)

The site should add "head slap" to the repertoire of nudges.

Never sent one
Never received one.
Go on,I dare you !!!

There is only two nudges I would ever use if they were available:

1)the swirly
2)the wet willie

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