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..ok..I guess it's not all about looks..
I suppose if she lets me see her boobies right off the bat.. then I guess we can continue talking..lol..wink |
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I've dated enough guys I wasn't attracted too and I felt no passion. It didn't go anywhere. Why should I go on a date with a man I'm not attracted to? Life is short. I don't want to be with someone who thinks I'm unattractive.
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for me it's really two things. first it's a sense of their wit, preferably humorous. Most often I read someones profile based off of a one-liner they posted that made me laugh. second is when I get the sense that the other person is true to and comfortable with themselves and not 'putting on a show' it's obvious they are who they are with a 'take it or leave it' attitude, they are happy with themselves generally. But lacking an inflated ego at the same-time I like this answer :) |
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Apart from the obvious!! Someone's picture appeals to you. So we crossed that bridge. Now what makes you get in touch with one attractive person and not with another? -Is it their words (literally), - Is it the general feel of their text? - Is it something they say they do? - Are it similarities?? (in interests, personality etc) REASON I ASK ... I find my interest peaks when I read that someone is very much like me. But I don't think this means someone is a suitable partner at all, more a very suitable friend. So ... what makes you contact one attractive person and not the other? Picture is out of the question for me. I find out earlier in my stay here that there are people adept, who are good at stealing pictures to represent themselves. So after something happened last august, no, I never check pictures again. If physical appearance matters to me that much anyway, then I should have stick to real dates in the real world, than try to know someone better through the forum. What makes u get in touch? On my first week here, I sent my first mingle poem - to 2 guys, 1 unemployed in his profile & the other cool in his blurb. I still dont know at that time how mingle works & what is suppose to be an online dating 
After that, I can only remember 4 times that I get in touch with a man first and 3 of those are not because I am interested with them: -1 is the male administrator back then when I broke a rule in the board. -1 to say stop & give him a clue what to check so he can distance himself. -1 because of mingle songs issues -1 when I added someone as a mingle friend. No matter how attracted I am to a man in the forum and how his posts stimulates my mind and imagination, part of me always rebels that I will be the first to get in touch. Part of me always says, it should be the man who will make the first move. Then my filters will remind me. Filters are one of the best things here in Mingle. They protect u and never failed u. So what made me add a man as a mingle friend? Because that is the best that I can do, when I am interested in getting to know that person. His view on things that matters to me. His principles & how he handles other people around him, which will tell me if he is compatible with me or not. For me the biggest turn off are those that are too literal. Those who could not be even bothered to think, what could this mean? Compatibility is important to me. But the most important thing for me is if I understand his takes & he understood my takes. Right now, I am content getting to know someone through his posts in the forum. It encourages me to express more myself in the board. ... I find my interest peaks when I read that someone is very much like me. But I don't think this means someone is a suitable partner at all, more a very suitable friend. ^^^^ I agree with this. there are just posts from someone that interest me & makes me feel alive, there are just posts from other people that makes me smile and wish I can hang out with them in person. |
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