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Topic: Romance and getting things heated
SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 10/28/15 08:09 AM

Sounds like two conversations going on here. One is how to treat a woman, so she becomes more romantic, and the other is how to get a BJ from a woman. I find a woman becomes more romantic, when she isn't pressed into a sexual encounter and that you have built a caring and comforting relationship with them. Then the romance will come.

For just expecting a bj after you started the oral first, then sounds like you have a woman that is a taker and not a giver.

Wait a minute, this is getting interesting now ... LOL
You are saying that when a man pleases a woman orally, it is mandatory for her to return the favour? Wow ... So much for romance, excitement and spontaneity!
Blokes like that immediately end up in my bad books. Love, romance, sex isn't quid pro quo.
Giving should be from the heart, with pleasure. Not because you want something for yourself. That's not love, that's using someone.

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Wed 10/28/15 08:38 AM
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Tell it like it is CrystalFairy
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livingsingle15's photo
Wed 10/28/15 08:53 AM
Too me, that's what it seemed from the OP, that he expected the favor returned. I think it should all be mutual and from the heart and not expected.

thickcutbacon's photo
Wed 10/28/15 12:20 PM
I'm not saying that but sometimes it would be nice for her to do so. I treat her nice and want a future but I don't think once in a while she can go down without making a big deal out of it.

thickcutbacon's photo
Wed 10/28/15 12:22 PM
I agree totally relationships have to be fair

thickcutbacon's photo
Wed 10/28/15 12:24 PM
You should be sticking up for me I guess your relationship is perfect you don't have nothing wrong

TMommy's photo
Wed 10/28/15 12:26 PM
to give something only to expect something in return by means of goods or services is known as a transaction

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Wed 10/28/15 12:29 PM

to give something only to expect something in return by means of goods or services is known as a transaction


I agree...kind of turns into this:


Annierooroo's photo
Wed 10/28/15 12:34 PM

I definitely get the slow cooker hot, but why can't she do the same for me! Selfish and I don't mind if it's a couple of times I don't get what I want, but I always have to do it for her. What about me?


If she is not doing the same back to then she is not the one for you.
You deserve someone that is going to feel the same about you

Don't rush into it.
She might be the type of girl that wants to wait a while.

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Wed 10/28/15 01:04 PM


to give something only to expect something in return by means of goods or services is known as a transaction


I agree...kind of turns into this:


Is that fish for seed? If so, I'd say that's a very applicable pic for this thread laugh

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Wed 10/28/15 01:05 PM
OMG...I didn't think of it that way slaphead

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 10/28/15 02:22 PM



to give something only to expect something in return by means of goods or services is known as a transaction


I agree...kind of turns into this:


Is that fish for seed? If so, I'd say that's a very applicable pic for this thread laugh

OMG Rebel ... !!!
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 10/28/15 02:27 PM

I'm not saying that but sometimes it would be nice for her to do so. I treat her nice and want a future but I don't think once in a while she can go down without making a big deal out of it.


You keep repeating yourself, so I'm gonna do the same thing:

You can do all the things, but that doesn't mean there is an emotional connection.
Like I said, women sense when a guy only wants to take, only wants sex. Holding open a door, paying for dinner or saying the right words or other "nice" things are meaningless when their only goal is to get a BJ and/or sex.
Maybe treat women as human beings and be respectful, genuine. And if you can't muster that, go see a prozzy. Then you can have all you want.
And if you do want a meaningful connection, sorry to say, you got to do some serious working on your attitude problem.

Goofball73's photo
Wed 10/28/15 02:27 PM

Why does it sometimes feel romance is a chore? Why don't females don't like kissing and other things


I've never met a woman who didn't like to kiss. Actually know a dude who thinks French kissing is nasty.....and I don't get that. I'm not saying go all crazy with the tongue and all....I'm just saying that good kissing should never be ignored.....be it from a male or female.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 10/28/15 03:11 PM
Believe me, I had 2 husbands who did not kiss.
Ever.
For no apparent reason.
It is awful.

thickcutbacon's photo
Wed 10/28/15 04:55 PM
No I didn't but good point! I ask her to do it and she gets fussy sometimes and eventually she does. It's just not worth it so I had to leave her. I didn't want to be a big problem anymore.

thickcutbacon's photo
Wed 10/28/15 04:56 PM
I no what you mean sweetie!

thickcutbacon's photo
Wed 10/28/15 05:06 PM
See that's the whole thing I do treat woman well and with respect. I tell them what I like and we talk about what each other's likes and dislikes are. For instance she like the back door sex I'm not really into that but I'll do it if she wants. So we talk about things and then it's like she doesn't like it so I get mad

thickcutbacon's photo
Wed 10/28/15 05:07 PM
See that's the whole thing I do treat woman well and with respect. I tell them what I like and we talk about what each other's likes and dislikes are. For instance she like the back door sex I'm not really into that but I'll do it if she wants. So we talk about things and then it's like she doesn't like it so I get mad

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