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Topic: How do I find a lesbian experience without offending a lesbi
TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Sun 09/27/15 04:13 PM
Well, that was just a sexual fantasy. I'm not curious about what sex with a lesbian is like anymore. Why did that sound like I was ticking it off my bucket list?

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Sun 09/27/15 04:25 PM
I'm sure they'll enjoy that Probably not, but I probably will. hehehe I think many men fantasize that actually hehe

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Sun 09/27/15 05:00 PM
Edited for off-topic targeting of other members. soufie Site Moderator

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Sun 09/27/15 05:06 PM
Much obliged Soufie

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sun 09/27/15 05:10 PM
Considering your Home of Record and the prevailing problems that kind of encounter could create for you I would be VERY careful and be so absolutely sure that is what you want that it would be well past the idea of an experiment. Because it would be giving someone more power over me than I would ever risk. And I live in a city where it hardly gets a second look. But your community and your family might take it very badly. Especially since you would not have a clue about the background of your potential partner in all likelihood. What if you contract and STD? The GLBT people I know would not be flattered by your curiosity and I doubt they would want to volunteer to be part of the experiment. Generally even GLBT people are PEOPLE first not just their sexual preference.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sun 09/27/15 05:28 PM
Considering your Home of Record and the prevailing problems that kind of encounter could create for you I would be VERY careful and be so absolutely sure that is what you want that it would be well past the idea of an experiment. Because it would be giving someone more power over me than I would ever risk. And I live in a city where it hardly gets a second look. But your community and your family might take it very badly. Especially since you would not have a clue about the background of your potential partner in all likelihood. What if you contract and STD? The GLBT people I know would not be flattered by your curiosity and I doubt they would want to volunteer to be part of the experiment. Generally even GLBT people are PEOPLE first not just their sexual preference. Pretty spot on

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Sun 09/27/15 06:00 PM
Ok But if I were lesbian,I think I would find it offensive to be kind of "experimented on". I am not a lesbian,so am I not playing with people if I just wanna feel their **** and kinda see what it feels like?Really? Lesbians like "virgin" territory. I doubt you'd offend any of them, by admitting that you wanna try out for their team.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sun 09/27/15 06:06 PM
I am, I suppose,straight,But I really want to experience lesbian sex.Like,really.How do I do this,or even ask for it,without being offensive? 7 shots each and let the tequila do the rest!

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Sun 09/27/15 06:16 PM
Lesbians like "virgin" territory. I doubt you'd offend any of them, by admitting that you wanna try out for their team. spot on

LovablePeter Joined Fri 03/20/15 Posts: 192	Sun 09/27/15 06:19 PM
Ok But if I were lesbian,I think I would find it offensive to be kind of "experimented on". I am not a lesbian,so am I not playing with people if I just wanna feel their **** and kinda see what it feels like?Really? Lesbians like "virgin" territory. I doubt you'd offend any of them, by admitting that you wanna try out for their team.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Sun 09/27/15 06:20 PM
Op why don't you hook up with ais69 for a blind date & post the video of how it all went down

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Sun 09/27/15 06:23 PM
Op why don't you hook up with ais69 for a blind date & post the video of how it all went down Hehe Romeo Romeo tho art the Romeo Naughty naughty boy! Lemme give u some spanking

kiranhoti Joined Tue 09/15/15 Posts: 20	Mon 09/28/15 12:59 AM
Have you experienced it?

leannemh Joined Sat 07/26/14 Posts: 1	Mon 09/28/15 01:37 AM
I am with a man and I really love him but want to be with a woman so that is really hard to find. He is happy for me to go for it and is keen to watch but has no interest in being with the lady We are both in our 50s so it is so hard to find anyone just to enjoy. We have been very honest with people and I think that is all you can do. I watched him with a man and the guy found that very sexy. It really was stimulating for all of us. I have been with a girl once. Don't give up looking just be honest and tell them you want to see how it feels. I made the girl *** and we both had fun. We found the guy on Locanto you are good looking just be honest and don't let rejection stop you. Girls can be very intimate and loving.

fierceyhobit Joined Sun 09/27/15 Posts: 2	Mon 09/28/15 01:54 AM
I am, I suppose,straight,But I really want to experience lesbian sex.Like,really.How do I do this,or even ask for it,without being offensive? OK so I'm lesbian..a few of us would frown at it been used as an experiment ,but a few of us would jump at d tot of laying a straight chic son to sat especially if she's a hot number....so if you keen on having that experience..hit a gay/lesbian club or pub..and get itself acquainted with em...u will most def find a few hitting on u dat way u don't feel like u offending no one

PandorasBoxofTricks Joined Sun 09/27/15 Posts: 3	Mon 09/28/15 03:43 AM
Hey there, Roro :) Firstly - if they were 'offended' - are they really the sort of person you'd be interested in talking to, or getting to know, anyway? I doubt it. You don't need that sort of intimidating bs in your life, gf - only someone who makes you feel comfortable and great in your skin, and about who you are. Never forget that. I hope this helps - and that you find who you are looking for :) ~Pan

PandorasBoxofTricks Joined Sun 09/27/15 Posts: 3	Mon 09/28/15 03:46 AM
P.S who knew so many MEN on here were LESBIANS.... Ahem. Hahaha

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Mon 09/28/15 04:25 AM
I am with a man and I really love him but want to be with a woman so that is really hard to find. He is happy for me to go for it and is keen to watch but has no interest in being with the lady We are both in our 50s so it is so hard to find anyone just to enjoy. We have been very honest with people and I think that is all you can do. I watched him with a man and the guy found that very sexy. It really was stimulating for all of us. I have been with a girl once. Don't give up looking just be honest and tell them you want to see how it feels. I made the girl *** and we both had fun. We found the guy on Locanto you are good looking just be honest and don't let rejection stop you. Girls can be very intimate and loving. Tqsm for sharing ur story with us

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Mon 09/28/15 04:26 AM
P.S who knew so many MEN on here were LESBIANS.... Ahem. Hahaha I did

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Mon 09/28/15 04:27 AM
Hey there, Roro :) Firstly - if they were 'offended' - are they really the sort of person you'd be interested in talking to, or getting to know, anyway? I doubt it. You don't need that sort of intimidating bs in your life, gf - only someone who makes you feel comfortable and great in your skin, and about who you are. Never forget that. I hope this helps - and that you find who you are looking for :) ~Pan What a wonderful advice