I am with a man and I really love him but want to be with a woman so that is really hard to find. He is happy for me to go for it and is keen to watch but has no interest in being with the lady We are both in our 50s so it is so hard to find anyone just to enjoy. We have been very honest with people and I think that is all you can do. I watched him with a man and the guy found that very sexy. It really was stimulating for all of us. I have been with a girl once. Don't give up looking just be honest and tell them you want to see how it feels. I made the girl *** and we both had fun. We found the guy on Locanto you are good looking just be honest and don't let rejection stop you. Girls can be very intimate and loving.