Topic: The Worst Break Up
JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Thu 10/18/07 11:57 AM
OH, lets just go with the worst 2..lol

First one I was 19 and with a guy whom I thought I was in love with. He broke up with me on THANKSGIVING, which was also the anniversary of my sister's passing... to top that off he made sure I knew what a wh0re he heard I was (I've never actually cheated on a single person, thought about it and came close once with the last guy I dated, but never actually did it.)

The last horrible one was about a year ago. I was with this guy for 3 years. He was a raging alcoholic/druggie and an abuser. He'd hit me twice by then, and emotionally abused me for the last 2 1/2 of the 3 years we were together. I'd finally had enough of the bullsh!t and told him I was done. It took a good 4 times of breaking it off for it to stick... had been extremely messy and abusive the last 2 months. He kept calling me all kinds of things that just were unimaginable. the last time he hit me like he thought he was fighting a man. I hit him back and told him to get his a$$ down the road. He, thankfully doesnt' have my new number. I PRAY no one ever gives it to him, I just heard from him about 2 months ago before I moved here. He was still trying to get me back.

joshyfox's photo
Thu 10/18/07 12:02 PM
I never have had an official relationship before, but I have been hurt once or twice. The worst one was earlier this year:

I was talking with a young lady online for a while and it actually was getting kinda close and seeming like it might be ready to actually go to a Boyfriend/ girlfriend kinda thing. I admit I grew attached to this young woman, so when she suddenly disappeared, deleting me from her myspace, her messenger, deactivated her JSH account and blocked any way for me to reach her... Well I was a bit hurt.

lilwabbit's photo
Thu 10/18/07 12:06 PM
he knocks on my door, points to a girl sitting in his car and says im leaving you for her then leftgrumble noway

joshyfox's photo
Thu 10/18/07 12:08 PM
Ouch... Did you tackle then punch him?

I would

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Thu 10/18/07 12:10 PM
I think I might have gone a little Miranda Lambert on his ass.. soaked that car in Kerosene and light the b!tch with a match

lilwabbit's photo
Thu 10/18/07 12:13 PM
i decided i wasnt that into him anyway....did go psyco when his reply when i told him i was pregnant was "what are you telling me for?"

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Thu 10/18/07 12:16 PM
Take the advice of a country break up song! The one I mentioned before...

"Kerosene"

I'm waitin' on the sun to set cause yesterday aint over yet
I started smoking cigarettes there's nothing else to do I guess
Dusty roads aint made for walking, spinning tires aint made for stoppin'
I'm giving up on love cause love's given up on me

I gave it everything I had and everything I got was bad
Life aint hard but it's too long to live it like some country song
Trade the truth in for a lie, cheating really aint a crime
I'm giving up on love cause love's given up on me

Forget your high society, I'm soakin' it in Kerosene
Light 'em up and watch them burn, teach them what they need to learn HA!
Dirty hands aint made for shakin', aint a rule that aint worth breakin'
Well I'm giving up on love cause love's given up on me

Now I don't hate the one who left
You can't hate someone who's dead
He's out there holding on to someone, I'm holding up my smoking gun
I'll find somewhere to lay my blame the day she changes her last name
Well I'm giving up on love cause love's given up on me
Well I'm giving up on love HEY love's given up on me

lilwabbit's photo
Thu 10/18/07 12:18 PM
ive heard that one. he dumped her 3 weeks later and ditched town 2 weeks after my son was born.


my son's now 4 and never met him

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Thu 10/18/07 12:20 PM
I figured you had, lol, i just love the psychoticness of it...lol

lilwabbit's photo
Thu 10/18/07 12:21 PM
i do have that in mind for a different guydevil devil only it involves ajax....devil

joshyfox's photo
Thu 10/18/07 12:23 PM
Really? I would've gone for something from the BAZOOKA family! laugh

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Thu 10/18/07 12:25 PM
I've had that in mind for a few of them...

damn, my ex's better be glad I'm not really that psycho...

lilwabbit's photo
Thu 10/18/07 12:26 PM
put ajax in a styrofoam ball and drop it in a can of gasoline and see what happensdevil devil devil devil

AIMmonaforutonv's photo
Fri 10/26/07 11:05 PM
I got tired of my ex-fiance being a bum. He said he was going to quit his job one day so I told him to pack his things and move out and he threw a fit refusing, so when he went outside to smoke a cig I locked him out (yeah pretty *****y), he broke into the house and found it completely okay to push me around and get physical. Guess he didn't like me telling him I was done with his games and bullcrap lol.

Wiitard's photo
Sat 10/27/07 01:37 AM
my worst break up was when my ex started going out with my friends

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Sat 10/27/07 01:49 AM
jeez no offence anyone, you have some very sad story's here but I honestly think that reading these things isnt good for your emotional health, esp if you've just had a break up.


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Sat 10/27/07 02:23 AM
My darling ex, the father of my child that gave me hell when we were a couple and he claims I gave him hell too which means we are even bigsmile and now he my close and best mate.

The funny thing is we moved in together on April 1 (Fools day) and 8 years later on April 1 (Fools day) we split up for good. Earlier that morning my ex brought out the "Once Were Warriors" bigsmile bigsmile side of me and I pinned his dwunken a-ss to the wall with all my mates and siblings waiting for their turn too. What did he do, he scurried off like a scared wabbit! Yea, silly bugger he shouldn't make a coconut mad mad mad especially beyond mad...our eyes will pop out and would swallow ya whole bigsmile bigsmile so better he keep runningbigsmile bigsmile

Yes, in the end my realationship with ex was a joke haha but our child is no joke at all. She is the best that came out of both of us and to remind each other that we are good people and just not meant to be together as a couple. We proved that we can be civil, kind, supportive, loving of each other no matter what and blessed to be parents to our beautiful child.

Other past ex's...never had a probs, when the feeling is not completely met, you cry then move on. No tantrums, only make ya look sillysmooched

anouk's photo
Sat 10/27/07 02:56 AM
drinker CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAPdrinker
ENCORE! BRAVO!!
EXACTLY!!
your child must very lucky!flowerforyou

anouk's photo
Sat 10/27/07 02:56 AM
BE luckyblushing hehe

littlewriter's photo
Sat 10/27/07 03:03 AM
worst break up.... my ex was ill, he had to go to a hospital quite far away for a few months. i got a letter and poem from him in the post, extremely sad and upsetting, saying he just needed to concentrate on himself and getting better. he wouldn't even talk to me. i cried for ever it seemed! thats the only time i've ever been broken up with, but i thought it was pretty bad! only time i've had my heart broken - once was enough!brokenheart