what???? oh man...it better be a nice addition

I'm going to step out on a limb here. I may piss off some. In my 53 years of being here on earth, this is what I've learned.

There are some out there that know what they want. They have the same problem you and I have. Finding it. What they want is a partner. A best friend. Someone that accepts them just like they are. Someone that will love them forever.

But here is the catch. For every one that knows what they want, ten thousand have no earthly idea. Some have been married, more than once. Have kids and the whole lot. And still have no idea. Some of them will say, " I'll know it when I see it," If you could paint it bright red with a huge flag saying "I'm it." They still wouldn't know. And that's just the way it is.

I know, It gets frustrating sifting through all the waste of time and effort. But in the end, hopefully, all your time will be rewarded. It's just a chance you take.

Makes me think, cable tv, 500 channels and still can't find something to watch. Same way with online dating, lots of sites, ton of folks and still can't find someone to date.

Want does this woman want
Nothing I have what I need and want

most women i know just want a decent man, someone they know will support them in their decisions, but also someone who will accept and value her support as well.

there isn't any magic formula of one thing a man can do or say to attract a women...

the only thing a man can do is strive to be the best possible version of himself , if you consistently try to improve yourself, guaranteed the women in your life will notice, and most likely by doing this you'll be able to attract a higher-caliber of women who were most likely out-of-your-league before....

U will never know... Until the ladies knew what actually are lacking..,. Till then be patient

I will say, as usual, treat every woman as an individual.

Well well well OP, to make life easier for you I've replied to your original post, my suggestion would be to to read it back and imagine it was a woman who posted it, and this woman was looking for a guy.
I think what I'm trying to say is swings and roundabouts. Most human beings are really nice people, it sounds to me like you don't trust yourself, let alone anyone else.

No it's "Girls just want to have funds" you forgot the ds.

No it's "Girls just want to have funds" you forgot the ds.

Hello Dear,
How are you doing? My name is Fred and am new in South Africa. You are a
beautiful lady and i would love to know you better. I am calm, Nice and fun
to be with. i await your response.
thanks.

Hello Dear,
How are you doing? My name is Fred and am new in South Africa. You are a
beautiful lady and i would love to know you better. I am calm, Nice and fun
to be with. i await your response.
thanks.

Hello Dear,
How are you doing? My name is Fred and am new in South Africa. You are a
beautiful lady and i would love to know you better. I am calm, Nice and fun
to be with. i await your response.
thanks.

Wow You serve any cheese with this whine?

Are you kidding; so many Bazillion women in the world and you think I can tell you what they want? Can you tell me what men want? I doubt it.

I can tell you what I want. And I will be glad to do that with anyone who I see as a good candidate before I expect him to commit to me.

And it is pretty much exactly what I have wanted since I was sixteen years old. It hasn't changed and I seriously doubt it will. So all that garbage about "some women perogiti9ve " does not apply to me but I am not going to try and explain why it probably doesn't apply to most women.

One thing I will say is the whole "I am all this and a bag of chips so you should be falling out to be my spouse sermon, as I am pretty sure you define it, would be a good reason to run the other direction.

I do not want to be a trophy, a concubine on demand, a baby machine so you can prove your manhood, a housewife , a cook and dishwasher, a maid, aid attendant, a purse, or the pet wrangler. I don't want to be the person you expect to clean up your messes and I sure am not going to run interference for you with your family, boss , or obnoxious friends. I am not your student, your whipping post, or your excuse for being anything less than what you should be.

I am not going to be your disciple and you don't get to dictate to me my relationship with my God. Who I respect but I do not fear.

If you are the one then I do want to be your playmate, best friend, your one and only mate and you mine, and lover by choice. I want to your equal partner, your tandem homemaker, parent of your children, bread winner, and family protector/provider. I want to encourage you and support your dreams and career as my own as you will mine. I want to be with you in good times and hard and I expect you to be there for me. I want to get old together and hold you heart and your hand until death us do part.

What do girls want? I can't speak for all the girls but I definitely want it all. I want a tall, dark and handsome man to be my best friend for life, loving husband to me and a caring father to our kids. I want a nice home to take care of and a hungry husband who comes home to eat the wonderful meal I have prepared for dinner then eat me for dessert.

Is it so hard to find guys on this site who are honest?! I had some many guys "claiming" to be in the U.S. army and tries to scam some money from me. It's ridiculous.

What do I want? What I really, really want? I just want someone decent to talk to, come home to and go to bed with. I hope it's not true that all the good guys are taken...or gay.

All the good guys are out playing Call of Duty on their XBOX One hoping that a hot chick will find their nerdy selves hawt!

For some reason, this innocent statement clicks a switch in my dirty mind.

I had a chick like that once & it was infinite bliss....until i woke up

Sounds good. If it were only real.

You're the second bloke I've seen mention CoD on here within a few days...
You telling me there's a new one?
I wanna know... always loved CoD, maybe I should invest in another mouse and keyboard and play again.
Dammit ... I wanna play NOW!!