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advised the social worker that he made the threat to me of calling social services and left it in their hands. He was being real nice to me recently, even brought me some sarma. It was yummy. So thoughtful. I thought he had changed but I don't think so now. He was just playing me. I have to just be smart about things from now on. I think his tearful apology was just more playing me. I think he was drunk when he called me. Sad for him..he's just not happy. I used to think it was me but we broke up about 4 years ago and he still has these violent outburst. At the end of the day I don't think he would harm a flea. Abusive people are cyclical. Like the Jew Lady said: Discarding D-bags, throwing them away when they are peaking in their careers - not a good idea. Ship to shore. Sending SOS to Jaigi. I don't understand your message. Is there a secret code for me to translate it. 
Sending you love. 
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have no fear tulip the reduced food assistance just means you need to buy more fish fixins to go with all the fish you're gonna catch laying on the bank resting up
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Tulip you are simply amazing lady..
I read this and so admire your strength. Well I am all set up in the cottage for the next month Sitting here watching the wind, rain, and fog drifting by my windows Still sending warm thoughts and prayers your way |
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have no fear tulip the reduced food assistance just means you need to buy more fish fixins to go with all the fish you're gonna catch laying on the bank resting up
Where's my fishin' pole!! |
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Tulip you are simply amazing lady.. I read this and so admire your strength. Well I am all set up in the cottage for the next month Sitting here watching the wind, rain, and fog drifting by my windows Still sending warm thoughts and prayers your way Awesome Sitka! That sounds like a dream. You enjoy!!! Thanks always!!
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Today's happening.
See girl, it's hard being a woman My Aunt asked me to drive them around in their car. They are in their late 80s. The car is 2015 toyota Corolla hatch back. Ok I spent over an hour getting ready Straighten my hair make up on nails done chose my clothes wisely.Sunday best. You never know when you are going to see someone up town and in a flash car. This is what the results broke a nail It rained so my hair went into ringlets and boffy And to top it off I was going into the supermarket looking like that something the cat dragged in. I saw a guy in had a crush on, looked at me, smiled and said hi. Oh my could this day get any worse? blushing Never saw anyone before the rain. It's been sunny ever since. Hollywood is a liar rofl rofl rofl You have to laugh Moral of this don't bother to make an effort. Trackies and sneakers are just fine |
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Today's happening. See girl, it's hard being a woman My Aunt asked me to drive them around in their car. They are in their late 80s. The car is 2015 toyota Corolla hatch back. Ok I spent over an hour getting ready Straighten my hair make up on nails done chose my clothes wisely.Sunday best. You never know when you are going to see someone up town and in a flash car. This is what the results broke a nail It rained so my hair went into ringlets and boffy And to top it off I was going into the supermarket looking like that something the cat dragged in. I saw a guy in had a crush on, looked at me, smiled and said hi. Oh my could this day get any worse? blushing Never saw anyone before the rain. It's been sunny ever since. Hollywood is a liar rofl rofl rofl You have to laugh Moral of this don't bother to make an effort. Trackies and sneakers are just fine That is hilarious!!!!!
Yeah, one day I might food shop in my pajamas, just for sh!ts & giggles. 
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Today's happening. See girl, it's hard being a woman My Aunt asked me to drive them around in their car. They are in their late 80s. The car is 2015 toyota Corolla hatch back. Ok I spent over an hour getting ready Straighten my hair make up on nails done chose my clothes wisely.Sunday best. You never know when you are going to see someone up town and in a flash car. This is what the results broke a nail It rained so my hair went into ringlets and boffy And to top it off I was going into the supermarket looking like that something the cat dragged in. I saw a guy in had a crush on, looked at me, smiled and said hi. Oh my could this day get any worse? blushing Never saw anyone before the rain. It's been sunny ever since. Hollywood is a liar rofl rofl rofl You have to laugh Moral of this don't bother to make an effort. Trackies and sneakers are just fine That is hilarious!!!!!
Yeah, one day I might food shop in my pajamas, just for sh!ts & giggles.
I have seen that happen many times 
Never would I do it
But I dare you to. Even going into wallmark you would be better dressed. I have seen some OH MY GOSH pictures. I couldn't believe it. Where's pride in some of them? |
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I do not understand jai guys post either. I am sure he means well.
Self-Pity I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself. D H Lawrence My philosophy too. 
You know Tul, I am glad you have shared your struggles with douche-bags. We all have them in our backgrounds and we keep fending off their head games and toxicity. That is life ((sigh)). Nothing like a good rant to let fellow Minglers know where you are at. Keep strong baby. You are doing great. 
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Today's happening. See girl, it's hard being a woman My Aunt asked me to drive them around in their car. They are in their late 80s. The car is 2015 toyota Corolla hatch back. Ok I spent over an hour getting ready Straighten my hair make up on nails done chose my clothes wisely.Sunday best. You never know when you are going to see someone up town and in a flash car. This is what the results broke a nail It rained so my hair went into ringlets and boffy And to top it off I was going into the supermarket looking like that something the cat dragged in. I saw a guy in had a crush on, looked at me, smiled and said hi. Oh my could this day get any worse? blushing Never saw anyone before the rain. It's been sunny ever since. Hollywood is a liar rofl rofl rofl You have to laugh Moral of this don't bother to make an effort. Trackies and sneakers are just fine That is hilarious!!!!!
Yeah, one day I might food shop in my pajamas, just for sh!ts & giggles.
I have seen that happen many times
Never would I do it
But I dare you to. Even going into wallmark you would be better dressed. I have seen some OH MY GOSH pictures. I couldn't believe it. Where's pride in some of them? Those pics are very entertaining! If I ever did it, I'd have to get some funny pajamas! |
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I do not understand jai guys post either. I am sure he means well. Self-Pity I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself. D H Lawrence My philosophy too.
You know Tul, I am glad you have shared your struggles with douche-bags. We all have them in our backgrounds and we keep fending off their head games and toxicity. That is life ((sigh)). Nothing like a good rant to let fellow Minglers know where you are at. Keep strong baby. You are doing great.
Yes, Jai has a good sense of humor. That pic is beautiful and the quote more so! As far as my exfiance goes, I just wanted to be friends. He'll be in my life directly for another 10 years or so. But I really don't trust him now. He needs to take things out on his girlfriend and not me !!!
Thanks for kind thoughts!!
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Today's happening. See girl, it's hard being a woman My Aunt asked me to drive them around in their car. They are in their late 80s. The car is 2015 toyota Corolla hatch back. Ok I spent over an hour getting ready Straighten my hair make up on nails done chose my clothes wisely.Sunday best. You never know when you are going to see someone up town and in a flash car. This is what the results broke a nail It rained so my hair went into ringlets and boffy And to top it off I was going into the supermarket looking like that something the cat dragged in. I saw a guy in had a crush on, looked at me, smiled and said hi. Oh my could this day get any worse? blushing Never saw anyone before the rain. It's been sunny ever since. Hollywood is a liar rofl rofl rofl You have to laugh Moral of this don't bother to make an effort. Trackies and sneakers are just fine That is hilarious!!!!!
Yeah, one day I might food shop in my pajamas, just for sh!ts & giggles.
I have seen that happen many times
Never would I do it
But I dare you to. Even going into wallmark you would be better dressed. I have seen some OH MY GOSH pictures. I couldn't believe it. Where's pride in some of them? Those pics are very entertaining! If I ever did it, I'd have to get some funny pajamas! It has to be animal onesie. I would do it outside NZ only because no one will know me. I would wear a sheep one.
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Today's happening. See girl, it's hard being a woman My Aunt asked me to drive them around in their car. They are in their late 80s. The car is 2015 toyota Corolla hatch back. Ok I spent over an hour getting ready Straighten my hair make up on nails done chose my clothes wisely.Sunday best. You never know when you are going to see someone up town and in a flash car. This is what the results broke a nail It rained so my hair went into ringlets and boffy And to top it off I was going into the supermarket looking like that something the cat dragged in. I saw a guy in had a crush on, looked at me, smiled and said hi. Oh my could this day get any worse? blushing Never saw anyone before the rain. It's been sunny ever since. Hollywood is a liar rofl rofl rofl You have to laugh Moral of this don't bother to make an effort. Trackies and sneakers are just fine That is hilarious!!!!!
Yeah, one day I might food shop in my pajamas, just for sh!ts & giggles.
I have seen that happen many times
Never would I do it
But I dare you to. Even going into wallmark you would be better dressed. I have seen some OH MY GOSH pictures. I couldn't believe it. Where's pride in some of them? Those pics are very entertaining! If I ever did it, I'd have to get some funny pajamas! It has to be animal onesie. I would do it outside NZ only because no one will know me. I would wear a sheep one.
I was thinking exactly the same, except rubber duckies.
Great minds think alike!
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I love it
I was also thinking a sheep' tail with ears. I saw them and thought they were cute. I did see a wonder woman. lol |
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I love it I was also thinking a sheep' tail with ears. I saw them and thought they were cute. I did see a wonder woman. lol Those would be hilarious!!! |
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so how is mingles' very own flower child today?
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so how is mingles' very own flower child today? Feeling great and very happy. Not getting the chemo this month is rejuvenating. I think I'm gonna be able to pack on some weight this month. Thanks for asking!
How are you these days? |
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Today's happening. See girl, it's hard being a woman My Aunt asked me to drive them around in their car. They are in their late 80s. The car is 2015 toyota Corolla hatch back. Ok I spent over an hour getting ready Straighten my hair make up on nails done chose my clothes wisely.Sunday best. You never know when you are going to see someone up town and in a flash car. This is what the results broke a nail It rained so my hair went into ringlets and boffy And to top it off I was going into the supermarket looking like that something the cat dragged in. I saw a guy in had a crush on, looked at me, smiled and said hi. Oh my could this day get any worse? blushing Never saw anyone before the rain. It's been sunny ever since. Hollywood is a liar rofl rofl rofl You have to laugh Moral of this don't bother to make an effort. Trackies and sneakers are just fine My God.. I laughed so hard over this one... OH Annie... Next time you get to see him make sure you are to the nines and do a quick smile and breeze by him..
Miss Tulip How are you today feeling a bit stronger I hope, sometimes taking a bit of time off can be healing in alot of ways. I hope you got the food assistances taken care of. That still makes me so mad when I see good people getting the run around The people that live next door to me won't get married because they will loose to much money.. They have 5 kids, yep she is on state aid, plus native benefits and he is a North Slope worker bringing about 95- 150K a year... |
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Today's happening. See girl, it's hard being a woman My Aunt asked me to drive them around in their car. They are in their late 80s. The car is 2015 toyota Corolla hatch back. Ok I spent over an hour getting ready Straighten my hair make up on nails done chose my clothes wisely.Sunday best. You never know when you are going to see someone up town and in a flash car. This is what the results broke a nail It rained so my hair went into ringlets and boffy And to top it off I was going into the supermarket looking like that something the cat dragged in. I saw a guy in had a crush on, looked at me, smiled and said hi. Oh my could this day get any worse? blushing Never saw anyone before the rain. It's been sunny ever since. Hollywood is a liar rofl rofl rofl You have to laugh Moral of this don't bother to make an effort. Trackies and sneakers are just fine My God.. I laughed so hard over this one... OH Annie... Next time you get to see him make sure you are to the nines and do a quick smile and breeze by him..
Miss Tulip How are you today feeling a bit stronger I hope, sometimes taking a bit of time off can be healing in alot of ways. I hope you got the food assistances taken care of. That still makes me so mad when I see good people getting the run around The people that live next door to me won't get married because they will loose to much money.. They have 5 kids, yep she is on state aid, plus native benefits and he is a North Slope worker bringing about 95- 150K a year... I'm sitting here about to watch the gators play. But, I had to report my daughter moved back home so they count her part time income. Not that it's a huge amount but it reduced my food assistance from $490 to $186. Thankfully, I always stock up when it's good so I can survive when it's bad. I have 2 pantries stocked up as well as 2 freezers. So I just budget a weekly amount of $ and only buy the specials. Yesterday I got 2 gallons of milk for 2.50 each. Awesome!!! It's just temporary. I just want to get better & get back to work & buy my own food. But I'm thankful for any assistance, really.
Thanks for always talking with me here.
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Edited by
JaiGi
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Sun 10/04/15 06:58 PM
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advised the social worker that he made the threat to me of calling social services and left it in their hands. He was being real nice to me recently, even brought me some sarma. It was yummy. So thoughtful. I thought he had changed but I don't think so now. He was just playing me. I have to just be smart about things from now on. I think his tearful apology was just more playing me. I think he was drunk when he called me. Sad for him..he's just not happy. I used to think it was me but we broke up about 4 years ago and he still has these violent outburst. At the end of the day I don't think he would harm a flea. Abusive people are cyclical. Like the Jew Lady said: Discarding D-bags, throwing them away when they are peaking in their careers - not a good idea. Ship to shore. Sending SOS to Jaigi. I don't understand your message. Is there a secret code for me to translate it.
Sending you love. The Jew Lady: in my case was my Mother-In-Law. While the divorce proceedings were on, she asked me if I would pay my daughter's college fees. I said yes. Peak Career years: At some point the industry needs these 'drifters' with their cumulative years of work experiences; generally occurring during mid forties to early fifties. The Long Term Target: So here was a target set by my In Law that ricocheted around at the back of my brain. So when my daughter joined college, I was informed & I left my low paying job for Saudi Arabia & those tax free riyals. Today my girl is a graduate and although she or her mom don't communicate; we reverted back to type;haha; I feel ok. Of course as an Indian my marriage was 'arranged' so In-Laws do meddle in our lives. There's one pin-prick I would like to see removed and that is why men have these 'outbursts', what triggers them; cause isn't it true that women willfully search and press their hot buttons. Ok, it's another topic, but i think it's from these cyclic incidences that the drifter in a man is born and life after divorce actually 'worsens' his situation. He may think he's liberated but there's that father factor in him that flays him for the rest of his life. If we were to look beyond child maintenance or the visitations which practically mean nothing at all (just the state's superficial decree) and give him a target for his child; and out of the blue he behaves like a Steve McQueen. After all you saw that something when you married him. Why discard him now? Knowing the tough situation that you are in and the many complications my 'homilies' may not apply. But i still feel that grandparents can build bridges for their grandchildren like: hah! 
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