I'm new to this site. A buddy of mine told me about it. How is everyone doing?

I am not a guy .
But I like the site just fine
Welcome to Mingle
Best wishes in your search

I'm new to this site. A buddy of mine told me about it. Anyone have bad experience on this site?

Ok. Thanks

It's a good site. It's only fault that I have with it, It's covered up with scammers. The people who own/run the site allow anyone to use any picture they want. So you will find lots of people using stolen pictures of porn stars. Be careful. Most every one of these that I've encountered are scammers. You can just about bet you are not talking to a woman. Most are men using these pictures. And most have asked me for money. Just be careful.

Charles, I like you and rarely do I have to disagree so strongly as I am here



All sites are covered with scammers.. Paid or not. It is up to us to be as smart out here as we are in the real world.



This isn't quite true, Yes people steal pictures all the time and if you just right click them and do a google image search or run them through tineye it will come up 9 out of 10 times. This site doesn't allow anyone to use just anything. If you know someone is using a fake picture click the report button on said profile and Admin takes them off.. There was a time that avatars were allowed not anymore or it is fading out...haven't you realized how many old timers don't have pictures up anymore?




When you met someone in person do you immediately trust them? I don't and I am a pretty trusting person..One of the reasons that is stressed NOT TO GO OFF SITE is to be safe...That is why it is always said never ever send money to anyone.. And if they are kept on site then the site can do something about it.

I know you have stated you are a Mod on a different site and I am willing to be with all your precautions that some slip through and when they are found out they are deleted immediately.

You have to approach anything with an open cautious mind. Period.

I have to question how do you know that they are mostly Men? do you finally get the truth out of them? I am really curious on this statement. I am not trying to bash or trash you at all like I said I like you as a forumuser I don't know you personally and have never exchanged a personal message with you.

Welcome :-)

(I imported one from Texas!)

Yup , totally ! Scammers hi e all the time , I just say if she's too good to be true , it's a scammer !

Sofia , your hot , your real , I'm real wanna chat ?

Sitka, What I'm telling him is the truth. The reason I know It's the truth is because I've dealt with most of the ones I'm talking about already on the site that I moderate on. We no longer have this problem because, well, I'll put it simply. Our servers have never forgotten these faces. Our database is full of these fakes. So when someone tries to post a fake picture it's caught right then. It's kicked out. Some do slip through. But the ones that slip through are usually caught within 7 hrs. Scammers and fakes have very little shelf life where I moderate.


And the thing about the pictures of female porn stars really being men. It's the truth. Do some reading up on it, We figured this out a long time ago. It's common knowledge across the internet. You should be able to find plenty to read about it. They are either Russian, Nigerian or China.


So far, Just me, I have reported many that I know are fake. Most of them are still here. When I reported them I also included a link to more than one scammer report site. These sites are places where known scammers are reported. They have pictures and emails that these known scammers write. When I report one and I notice that the profile is still up several days later. I can help but wonder how many were getting scammed. By letting a known and proven scammer profile stay up, It makes one wonder if the people who own and run the site care about the people using the site.

Now, I mean no disrespect to anyone. All I know is, Where I moderate scammers are dealt with quickly. The quicker they are dealt with the less subs you lose.

One last thing. Right now I have 85 scammer emails sitting in my inbox. Three weeks ago I had 100. And I'm just one guy. How many others out there are getting more or less the same thing?

You are right when you say we have to be smart out here. But the fact of the matter is, Lots of people get taken every day on dating sites and lots of other places. But just because we are suppose to be smart, doesn't release any owners of a site from the responsibility of policing its site.

^^^ tried to PM but can't your filers are set to high

I appreciate the look out man!

A lot of bs scammers...but their everywhere....

Scammers were everywhere not only in Nigerian, Russian or China, so be smart out.

Scammers everywhere.
You can chat with someone but you have to be persistent.
Overall good site, it's free after all, and better cant find for that money. :)

I just had a scammer write me. Lol

It's good :D.
When you think that nobody will see you, here comes one scammer to show you that somebody care, ahahaha :D

See the come out from everywhere

John love the new pic my friend..

thanks my dear friend

I have not had 1 date from this site, so I guess it's not very good.