Topic: Do Men Really READ the profiles ???

there is nothing to laught at actually
if you 2 have not understood that it was an answer to the thread subject, it is you to be laughed at. Because simply users get in to the thread to post about the topic subject.

this was trolling.
did not like it.

It's my pleasure, being laughed at, something that happens to me 'rare' in life..Thank you, all the same.


As for the reason I laughed, well, it had nothing to do with 'you'. I was laughing at the manner in which 'he' stated that 'spinning' and 'not understanding' part. I found that response, very natural and expressive.


Have a Good Day!

you have a good day too.

Thank you (and I'm welcome).

A better question is why do real men not send messages...other than an occasional message to another poster on the Forums, I almost never send out messages...WHY...Because I do read the profiles and find so few who do things I like or are so calloused in their profiles I see no need to try to meet them. Just being honest-only one date on Mingle in many years on this site! I am dating now and not available and did find her on the Forums of another site. Good Luck to all!!

since the time i have created my account, today, for the 1st time i added a male to my friends list
and THEN he asked about my age
after visiting my profile 10 times and sending the req, still had no idea about my profile
for god's sake !! what is wrong with all these men??!!

personally, i always read profiles and more often than not send a quick hello just to acknowledge them, unless there is something on their profiles which makes sending a message a pointless exercise.
the problem i've found is that most of the women on here, don't even bother acknowledging those who do read the profiles and send them messages, even if it's just a thanks, but no thanks.

i suppose it works both ways,with both sexes,people aren't going to send messages if those people can't even be polite enough to at least acknowledge them!

I do read profiles, when I see something to talk about I message... Even though half of them do not give me the time of day. The real question is do any of you vixens respond..

Do most women even fill in their profile. While running through the match section most female profiles were not even filled in so how can we read them?

Appears you are getting smarter...no friends on your profile now

AHHAAHAHAHHAHAHA, +1

The "vixens" respond when one gives them motivation to do so.
Some guys believe that they give motivation when they really don't.

I read them, Only problem is I sometimes get confused from reading so many.. On the dating sites(Is this a dating site) so If I contact them I try to find something In their Profile to start the discussion.. something we have in common.. I could just say HI, or whats up but that is not original and so common.. I feel it helps when choosing someone and helps me to SEEM normal...

I have changed the info portion of my profile 3 or more times.. I have almost nothing on there at the moment.. When I did have a written blurb, I would say 1 out of 40 might reference something from it in an email to me.
I still get lots of matches, views and emails either way..

Do people read that stuff......NO...............just the cliff notes. Verision...look if your tryn get yourself some....yea..but you cant really get to some one of a few sentences...

A lot of men live in man caves. They are visually oriented. They have short attention spans, etc. Dont expect too much of most men. Dont expect too much from most women, either. Just a fact of life. There are some conscious folks out there tho. Most people are just running on thier genetic programming. Semi-zombies.

i did NOT say "for the 1st time i added a person to friends list"
i said "for the 1st time i added a MALE to my friends list"
the friends list can be invisible to others like mine is and you cannot see it.
you should get smarter to get the main point