there are profiles with no photos or pop singer photos etc. those fake ones are randomly messaging. i call them "hunters". they should be followedd up too.

lol
same here

i tell them right off the bat
im not dating anyone my
own kids age....

I THINK NOT!!!!!

To be fair, I've found that some women are also guilty of this

I have to be honest, I had to go look at your profile after you made the comment about twenty one year olds sending you messages. to be completely fair and honest your main picture does NOT show your age. When I first saw it in the forums here, I thought you were early to mid twenties. Then after seeing you comment, I figured ok she has aged well and she is in her late twenties.

however, I do not go off just the one picture, I went ahead and looked through all of them you have posted and can see why you would be frustrated (I would be too). It's obvious these boys are not reading anything other than their first glance. I myself refuse to even consider contacting a person unless they have SOMETHING written in the "about me" space AND they have filled out several of the basic questions (smoking, kids, etc)

I get five to ten spams per week and it gets VERY FRUSTRATING to realize they meet NONE of my interests (outside of suposedly having a killer body lol). I would much rather find someone with an average body and an intelligent personality that is fun to be around than barbie.

Thank you for your nice comments, i am honoured and i have to say that you made my day well :)

i totally aggree with you. Someone serious would check the "about me" part, also the forum posts - which i think are the best sources to get an idea about someone. the same way, person should be giving some idea about himself/herself too. An empty profile is disrespectful in my opinion. The same way, not trying to get an idea about me but just messaging is the same way disrespectful.

i even try to read the posts and check the profiles of some females here, the ones writing in the forums. If i am making some conversations here, i want to know who they are, if they are the kinds that i will get on well with or the ones that i have to keep away from. I mean this "respect" i am pronouncing is not only male-female relationship, it is valid for the friendships as well.



ps: on profiles i do not know from where to read the person's forum posts. i know here on the forum pages it is just under the person's profile photo. but on a visitor's profile i cannot find them. i would be grateful if someone helped me.

If the womans photo includes a pet , baby,or small grandkids- I don't bother. We want to see you the person ! And post pics that show your entire body. Sorry, but averag weight is NOT 50 to 100 lbs. overweight.

lol

that was really staright forward and very clearly expressed. i really laughed loudly :DDDD

It was definitely my pleasure to do so ;-)

:)

they are still writing "where are you from?"
unbelievable !!
hard to keep calm sometimes :/
easy tiger..

rrraawwwrrrrrr!!!!!!

I ALWAYS read profiles. I understand its not the be all and end all of everything but at the very least, it is a slight litmus test regarding a man's ability to express himself which is super important to me ...But I suspect that many of the men here dont attach that much weight to the intelligence and personality of a woman. The goodly gentlemen of the chat forum are all exempted from that aspersion ofcourse!

If anyone paid attention to mine, I’d read their. I know they don’t pay attention, and that my filters don’t work (if they are using the app.) because I mostly only get messages from California, or other countries. Mostly from men in their twenties.

I must say that I try to read all of it. That said I will say that half of what you see here isn't real. Posers and thieves are rampant in here. Love can be found here.
Now Is there really a plethora young woman wanting to date and old fellow, Or all those hunky young men befriending the older woman it's kinda sad.

I have two lines profile, most of them don't take the time to read it, sometimes I doubt that they can read. lol

profile ? oh were suppose to read it lol

I’ve had that same thought.

I'm not sure I get enough looks to even GET my profile read! Lol

VioletTigress wrote: I wish we could fix all those guys up with the 20- and 30-something (years old) women who've been clicking "Like" on me.
I've never really found that to be flattering, and now it's tiresome. The ones that really tick me off are the ones who use a location name that the state they're supposedly in doesn't have, but my state does. I've reported some, but it's kind of like Whack-a-Mole.

I signed in after a couple of weeks away, and there were 46 new "Matches."