Here i am

Its not easy to trust cos some are just looking for fun and lots are not using there real photos!!

If ppl actually use there mouth and get back to actually wanting to get to know someone .and actually take there time . Have real conversation and be there selves. Let the heart ❤ do it job and stop forcing everything. We might just the one..

So much catfishing on this site! They post one picture and are engineers, or consultants and some don't answer most of the profile questions. Beware of spammers!

So much catfishing on this site! They post one picture and are engineers, or consultants and some don't answer most of the profile questions. Beware of spammers!

And they don't even provide tartar sauce.

Well...yes because few are willing to put in the time/effort to get to know someone. Many fear BEING known even more...sincerity is soo erotic..lol. And connecting shareing.?
Mutual G-spot satisfaction...
Cheers

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You are so right about people not using their own photos.

Oh brilliant. Now there's going to be a thousand men posting here, claiming to be "real and genuine". This question leaves you open to such things, and makes you look vulnerable. Can you trust that?

I'm new here but I'm not new to the dating sight scene. I'm also married. However, I feel underappreciated in all that I do for my wife on all fronts. Genuine and sincere covers a vast array of issues. From the start I've been upfront about myself such as my life, my goals, my likes and dislikes. Recently I've learned that she has held quite a bit back about herself during the last 3 years we dated. Now that the papers have been signed, sealed and filed she has gradually given up the facade she built around herself. People tend to hide their true selves and play the part that others they are interested in want to see. Most often they know that there are some issues about themselves that make them unappealing to potentual intrests. Rather than work on themselves during the time they are single, they opt to decive the other into believing that they are compatible. Thats not being genuine at all. Many people, I'm sure, are here for reasons other than finding a mate that would love them unconditionally, respect them and appreciate them. Unfortunately they just want to get laid, find someone loaded who will pay their bills or spend money on them or to be a insta-dad. I always keep it 100% about myself and others. Not stating your true intentions only hurts yourself and makes it harder for the one you've disappointed to have a open heart and trust others more deserving of their affection.

Because no one wants to get to know each other. Plus to many judgements made before they even get to know each other! To much sex on everyone's mind.

Because no one wants to get to know each other. Plus to many judgements made before they even get to know each other! To much sex on everyone's mind.

I actually don't think it is all that hard I have met some wonderful men and women from this site.
I do believe one thing that works is be real... and take your time.

I have been out here many years and one of the things I see so many times from so many is they are in a big hurry.

Take time. Heck if "your" Match is out here then stop and smell the flowers. Who knows what great friendships you will acquire along the way

Many of the people who used to date site for their own joy.. They thought all of the people here just wants sex..
Which is not right because it must be a place which you can link up with others and maybe find your soul mate

I totally agree with you people come with different interests,money,sex bla bla!Personally i believe relationship is a process that needs to be built.About knowing a genuine person?wow i wish there was a truth meter but i believe that in this dating site there are genuine men and women and fake ones too.

I love your comment .patience wait know your match.

I agree to this. Been to many dating sites too but 94% are just perverts, gonna ask you for ur skype or whatsapp to ask you to send nude pics or ask you to strip on cam. Hard to find "genuine and sincere" guys too

I'm only sincere on Monday, Wednesday, Friday.....and on Saturday its only half a day of sincerity.

I'm always a little saddened when I see posts like this about the opposite sex, be it men or women.

I bet the A$$ holes on this site are far out weighed by the good people.

If you're a glass half empty person don't expect some Romeo or Juliet to come along and top it up.


That's my Pink Floyd moment over