I'm new here but I'm not new to the dating sight scene. I'm also married. However, I feel underappreciated in all that I do for my wife on all fronts. Genuine and sincere covers a vast array of issues. From the start I've been upfront about myself such as my life, my goals, my likes and dislikes. Recently I've learned that she has held quite a bit back about herself during the last 3 years we dated. Now that the papers have been signed, sealed and filed she has gradually given up the facade she built around herself. People tend to hide their true selves and play the part that others they are interested in want to see. Most often they know that there are some issues about themselves that make them unappealing to potentual intrests. Rather than work on themselves during the time they are single, they opt to decive the other into believing that they are compatible. Thats not being genuine at all. Many people, I'm sure, are here for reasons other than finding a mate that would love them unconditionally, respect them and appreciate them. Unfortunately they just want to get laid, find someone loaded who will pay their bills or spend money on them or to be a insta-dad. I always keep it 100% about myself and others. Not stating your true intentions only hurts yourself and makes it harder for the one you've disappointed to have a open heart and trust others more deserving of their affection.

Friend of mine suggested that I give this site a once over. I look forward to great chats, intellegent discussions, and making wonderful friends. I'm from Charlotte NC but live in Lancaster SC. So lets get it started in here. Haters, that includes y'all too.