Who's interested in serious dating here?

I like you

gee ,you are right , this is like a lottery , you can be one in a million :)

you are right :)

sad to say ,(sorry for the word ) wants to have s.. conversation after 1 minute chatting

wtf! my moms gonna kill me if she see here in this website :(((

Because the first 20...literally 20 emails I got were from girls who wanted my email so they can solicit other porn/sex sites. In my experience the nice girls won't reply. So why should we put ourselves out there only to be crushed some more. My advice to women- if you like him pursue him. Make the first move. That way we know you are interested and will be more likely to respond.

I would say that 99% of the problem of finding someone is the fact that most of the people complaining have written really BAD profiles and post the most unflattering photos.

And that is really sad because there are so many help topics and people who will give you feed back on how you are putting yourself out there. I dare say maybe one percent will even remotely try to learn the skills or change anything to get what they want.

NO ONE has to be anything they are not but if you don't put out the effort; and others do, you can NOT compete and you will most assuredly be ignored so you are losing out by your own choices.

Online dating is not some great mystery or even that complicated. And it is tailor made for individuals and ordinary people. A profile is easy to edit and the process could not be simpler. The site is great at walking you through any technical questions.

But you can't treat the process like you can't be bothered or the people who see you are going to have to put up with a litany of whines, and gripes, and excuses.

Sorry buddy if you think desirable women who get literally hundreds of emails are going to pursue you then you are dreaming.

If you can't man up then you have given up. That is not inspiring at all.

I hate to say it, but I see his point. I also see yours. I came from a dating site much larger than this one. And it doesn't have the problems this one has as far as the amount of scammers go. Right now I have over 200 on my block list. And it grows more every day.

But the main thing I wanted to say, and it's from experience. Dating sites are a woman's playground. Dating sites do not cater to men at all. But here is the problem I see with men. Men tend to try to run after every woman they see. They don't sit back and take their time. Most don't even try to be just a little bit picky.

I've noticed that most don't try to set themselves apart from the crowd. They post pictures with no shirt on. They post pictures with the camera pointed up their nose. Some look like they haven't shaved or bathed in months. They don't seem to know how to start a conversation with a woman they just met without calling her, darling or sweetheart or some other pet name. Before they even have a chance to get to know the woman.

But in all honesty, I have to also say what I've seen in women on dating sites. Because so many men think with their penis. They write as many women as they can. Women get bunches of emails. Some women get so many emails that they let it go to their head. They start to believe that they can pick any man they want. Anytime they want. Men feed into this. And I think a lot of them are too dumb to know it.

A lot of women on dating sites expect too much. They have their heads in the clouds. A lot of them are too picky. So picky that they screw themselves. They wind up on a dating site for years and never get anywhere. They have turned down a lot of creepy guys. But they have also turned down a lot of good guys. They never gave them a chance. For whatever reason he didn't fit into her little box of what she thinks she wants.

And speaking of "wants." I can't even begin to tell the amount of women I've come across that are in their 40's and older. Been married a few times. Has kids. And still has no idea what they want. To me, that's sad. To be that age. And have been through so much and still have no idea what they want. This just scrapes the surface of what I've seen out of both genders.

Where's all the young people at on this site all full of you old timers

Where's all the young people at on this site all full of you old timers

Wow, well done!

Well Said! I too have been on several sites and my profile is honest and I can carry on a conversation to try to get to know each other a bit, but The women usually have a very short attention span due to always expecting the "bigger, better deal" in the next e-mail, from the next guy. Yet they are on line for years. A decent guy can't get a break. I have no intention on lying or using photo's with beautiful automobiles or home or cottage that I don't own just to get their attention. The women I write usually can't bother to return my letter, and those who write me are usually on another continent.

Why is it?! ):

hi

Look in the right direction

hahaha it is not only for the women, for us men, to find this girl is much more complicated