Good Day my friends of M2, your boy is back on top with his hot tea again with a another topic of interest. Now before I start, let me shot out my "Opinion Minions' for posting all kinds of opinions...keep it going its my fuel to post. Okay, this goes out to anybody that may be facing this or we just going to have fun with this & its just coffee house conversation. Scenario!, Okay lets say you dating someone , the chemistry seems to be wonderful. you head over heels( ladies) or Nikes ( us fellas) for your partner. One day, you mate tells you " baby, I'm going out with the girls tonight?" " Hey Baby , me & the boys want to paint the town red tonight". So you okayed it , not thing anything insecure about it or your mate never gave you any reason to think otherwise. Now people, out of every weekend posse there's always one out the bunch that will tell the other party for example" Hey $%^&, your girlfriend or wife going to the club with male strippers, how do you feel about that?" vice versa for us guys. Now you found out your mate is going to a strip club with men Or women putting it all in there face, dry freaking them & more! What would make matters worst, the image in your head showing you things you may not wish to see or vision. You tell yourself I trust my lover , I know they wouldn't do anything to jeopardize our relationship. But once again , how secure are you ? Better Yet let me ask you this my friends, for those who may be curious on how much fun your lover having you decide to call Him or Her) I don't know just see if they okay. You can't help but to hear all the enjoyment among her girls or fellas somebody just holla out something crazy...and now your blood is boiling & depends who you are you may be pissed or maybe you have a "2 can play that game" attitude. Or do you flat out dump them thinking " Oh he /she not for me! that Hoe!" or maybe you new aged, you figure its just entertainment, he/she will be sexually worked up , so by the time she/he gets to you the sex will be " Out The Water" good...So my M2 friends what's your thinking about allowing your mate to go to strip clubs? Is it a taboo in a relationship to attend this type of entertainment? Is It a sex enhancement among consenting adults? or Is a home wrecking, nasty, I have no business at this club , if my mate was to ever found out I was here he/she will get angry & i loose them activity? so spill it.....I 'm dying to hear your response to this one.

P.S. all who respond will defiantly get a response back , don't believe in leaving you hanging...okay!
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Yes...this exactly

Why would my man want to even entertain such an idea? Aren't strip clubs for bachelors and cheaters?

No, you'd be surprised

Entertainment value.
If we had one near, we would both go :-)

unknown _romeo

okay I can see you a man of virtue you won't allow your woman to go to these clubs!

I have no interest in this anymore... Although I have been to a few as well as whore houses in Nevada where its legal.... As a youth.. About 30 years ago

to my brand-new Opinion Minion favorite "Lamwholam1,

well some people don't think anything wrong with adult entertainment like strip clubs & porn is wrong. I found people sometimes watch together. Me , well I would be bothered, I don't think I'm strong enough to stomach my lady going to those events.

I guess you aren't going for that either...lol

to soufiehere

you would share the entertainment?

wow, where were you when I was dating?...lol

If a woman has a problem with their man going to a strip club then she is not secure within herself, and vice versa.

to "mrjallenbrown,

you know homie I feel you on that.I always believe if your mate being token care of in every way at home, then it won't be no reason for her look at no other men especially " putting it her face" ...lol

I wouldn't be keen on the idea of it, but as long as he has fun, why worry? At the end of the day, it's me who makes love to him, and that's the ultimate. I'm the one who gets all of him. He can't kick up a fuss if I want to see male strippers. It has to be mutual fairness.

That's right. I am not secure in myself when I don't want my man to be surrounded by a bunch of whores and strippers. Yes, it's me. *note sarcasm*

Why would you want to go to them and pay when you have it free at home?

Personally, I haven't been to one since I was a teenager. We have a few in my area and there always seems to be some commotion going on there. Never good.

In my opinion, your looking for trouble in those places. But maybe I'm wrong... just not my thing.

Never had any strip clubs around here.....Used to go over in Mississppi to one for the occasional bachelor party or a buddy's birthday. It was a club in the middle of nowhere, on a road that dead ended at a nuclear power plant. The running joke was that the strippers had 3 boobs....never saw more than a pair at a time though
That was in my younger days....really couldnt care less now. But if I was in a relationship and she wanted to go for $hits and giggles, sure, why not?

Personally in my younger days I have been and my husband had been...
No biggie either way..

Today nah most that I have seen are kind of sleazy and I am not sure what I would find in them...

And I am positive I could hear what my canuck would say if I told him to go..

Oh Jaysus why would I want to...

I think this is each to their own..
No big deal if someone does it but both must be on the same page..

A man who is loyal to his woman won't go to a strip club.

After about the age of 21, I don't think it's about insecurities so much as stupidity.

Some behaviors denote a level of intelligence.

You expect the kid to go explore, try new things, and be led by hormones.

By 40, you should have come to the realization that strippers are pretty much what people rail against on online dating.
You read "no players! No golddiggers! No one night stands! No games! Be honest, don't say one thing and do another!"

And that's what strip clubs/strippers are.
Golddigging players performing a game that's offering the illusion
of sexual titillation, of you feeling desired, the idea of sex, immediate sexual gratification, solely for the sake of money.

Really, little different than the many dating site scams where they send you an email telling you they love you, try to build a false bond, and then ask you for money.
Instead of telling you they love you, strippers just pretend they "want" you.

If someone I just started dating believes going to strip clubs is "fun" then I know they are a moron.

So, I would dump them...before I'm pulled into something stupid, completely unrelated to strip clubs.


Some people send nigerian princes with money problems thousands of dollars.



I'm not their keeper.
It's not up to me to "allow" them to do anything.
At best, I can only interpret what it "means" when they do something.

Hey....some nice strip clubs have buffets with good food. You get the best of both worlds......beer, food and boobs and butts.