That when you start talking to someone that people start talking about you and tryin to make you look bad to them out of jealousy? Kinda funny since I don't talk smack about others... hmmm... wonder who could be doin this.

Let them carry on...

Seems like since people realized that I was talking to one of the nicest guys on here they got all jealous and started telling him that I'm this psycho whatever... simply not true. This would be why I don't have hardly any female friends.

Jayme, if he cares for the woman you are, he will take no heed of gossip...he will be capable of thinking for himself.

If not, then who wants to develop a relationship with someone who is swayed by gossip?

I know it sucks, and it is difficult when starting something new, to have extra crap thrown into the mix, but continue being you, and blow the rest off.

Whooo-hoooo Jess, hear, hear or should that be here, here either way good advice........

maybe it should be

hear, hear, jess here, here

insert head scratching emoticon here

good evening jess

Hey Robin, Wench...

Here, where?

What are we looking at????

Jayme, who cares what others think. If you and him are friends, that's great and that's your business. Don't let ingnorant people ruin your friendship with this guy. It's up to HIM, to get to know the REAL you, isn't it???? You hang in there girl.

If he buys into what others say & doesn't make his own decision, not deserving of your attention.
Stand your ground, be yourself & the right guy will come along.

I know that he doesn't believe them, he knows me alot better than they ever could, especially since I don't talk to females very much. I'm not even worried that he'll believe them, more of that it just hurts my feelings to know that people that don't know me are making judgments based on what they know nothing about.

Too bad for them, they don't have what you got why they are jealous.....but then, the man involved might not be what you think he is.....

JAYME, I LIVE BY A COUPLE OF RULES ON THIS ONE.

1ST. IF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT ME, THAT MEANS THEY ARE LEAVING SOMEONE ELSE ALONE.
2ND. IF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT ME, THEN THEY ARE LIVING A VERY BORING LIFE, BECAUSE I'M NOT THAT INTERESTING TO TALK ABOUT.

SO LET THEM TALK, STAND TALL AND PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE.

DITTO to Tigerman, try to let it go all it is is stupid talk. Obviously they have nothing better to do with their time.

I trust that he's honest about who he is and all that, and even with that I'm getting to know him at a retarded snail's pace... so no threat of gettin blindsided this time. It just bugged me alot that people were bein so shady. I am NOT the kind of girl to try to c0ck block another girl...lol, so when someone else does it to me, I don't quite get it. I've never been the catty talk behind your back kind of girl... I'm straight and to the point. Part of my reasoning for this thread was to let those women know that I KNOW what they've said and its hurtful, but they cannot stand in my way with words.

that stuff happens all day everyday..people like that are lame,and just want what u have,i wouldnt dwell on it,like u said he knows u better than they do

HAHA, what I find REALLY hilarious is that all women want an honest and loyal guy, but when someone else has one they seem to want the guy to lie and cheat on the woman that they are with or talking to. They don't realize that if they did that then they'd be the kind of man that they keep finding in the first place.

y do u women luv the **** heads

I know I don't...lol, had my share of those. What I don't get is why women feel the need to bring each other down like that. That then makes them the type of woman that men DON'T like.

it's 1 of life mysteries,we will never no