The computers calling at least say "Okay, I understand your hesitance. But, if you just listen to the deal -"

To which I say, "Please, don't call me anymore."

And then "Alright, you got it. Have a nice day!"

But if it's a scammer, I doubt it will play out that way!

In a message, you have the freedom to write as much as you'd like, without blowing up a phone, or at any hour of the day without distraction. When they log in or check their email, they'll get it. My worry is that with text messaging, you only limit yourself. So, why unless you have gotten to know the person already?

Date all the time on other sites, even taken some with me to Alaska for the Summer, just not many that "Fish" or love the Outdoors on Mingle. Definitely a different breed of Lady on this site.....most here think the Holiday Inn is "Camping", and the "Fish Market" is where you get seafood

No I wouldn't.

I have given my number out really quickly since I know I can block their number for .25 it will never show up on my phone after that no biggie....

First contact that is a little fast for even me.

good on you, I think people are too 'connected' to too many things besides other people,,,

i wouldnt

Hope you keep a bottle of antibacterial spray available..

I honestly would not contact someone by cell phone, nor give mine out. At least not until I get to know them. Some people feel safe hearing a voice, but its false security. There are apps for phones that can change your voice to sound either female or male. Just as a streaming camera can be made to send videos of people other than the person with the account.

I trust my own ability to determine men from women. I have been hit on by both sexes since I "bloomed" when I was 12. Men are easy, if they are posers, they try to harm to act like women. It is easy to spot if you give them the chance to fail.

I get stalked by more women than men. Middle aged women tend to fall in love with me after a couple conversations, and think I should give out my number. But those type women will call me incessantly night or day, especially if I don't reply immediately.

Want to be with me? Then chat with me. If you are a poser, I will know, and if you are not, I am a great conversationalist, and an exotic writer. Be patient any we can advance to the next stage, be impatient, and I am gone.

I love that answer, lol

Oh, you Humans are talking about cell phone numbers.
That's a relief. I thought someone wanted the number of the cell that I was loc...err... Never mind.

GENDA: male.
ANSWER: no.
But what do you think about the ladies who keep on sending their cell phone numbers, and the email addresses to me without me demanding from them?

just do nothing, and say you stay on this site until you get to know her better.


even if they wouldn't give it you, you shouldn't ''demand'' that information anyway.

If they are on the site, report them... They could be a scammer...

No. I wouldnt do it...

Ive been here off and on for a while... Some still do not know my first name much less have my number... Just sayin...

Seems to me that most who offer their cell or there Yahoo address. are scammers trying to draw you offsite.. People trying to steal from the poor..

Yep, I've got 51 more of them in match, hot after my wallet. I did away with three today. I've got 4 more sitting in my mail waiting for me to answer them. It's a shame really that this site is eat up this bad with them.

Give out my mobile number to a complete stranger

1-800-yougottabekidding

I'm careful. Usually I find it a bit desperate when a guy offers it too soon not to mention obvious of his intentions. It feels right to me after a few days of convo on the site. I say that because some nut started messaging me out of nowhere claiming we'd had this deep connection and conversations. He would not accept my reply of not remembering and kept texting to keep the contact going clearly. I ultimately had to tell him I was reporting his number and that scared him off lol. Just feel them out first