Why would a strong, empowered man who knows what he wants (and as described by the OP) be attracted to a strong empowered woman (as described by the OP)?

To me that sounds like a recipe for constant competition or games.

I can see sociopaths, gay people seeking beards, and those whose goal is on anything but having a loving relationship seeking unity of like creatures in order to make a power couple.

If the ultimate goal was politics, some kind of anti government social justice and real change movement, or some kind of family business (or compound like branch davidians) I could see a guy being attracted to that, but it would be a relationship not focused at all on the relationship except as a means to the other goal, the relationship ultimately being just another tool to fulfilling their egos.

And add in sassy and bratty? Lively, bold, spirited, and badly behaving childish behavior? That's the definition of those words.

It's like saying "I want a father figure. I want to act like a spirited child that can do anything I want, but I want daddy to see me and treat me as his equal, but still as his child...when I need it, or want it," and IME usually with the added "and he must naturally know where the divisions lie," which (IME) almost always translates to "guy must learn/know how I communicate, without requiring any real effort for me to learn how he communicates."

A guy looking for that kind of relationship would be rare indeed.
Especially online. As most "strong empowered man who knows what he wants" go out and get what they want, directly, under their own control and power, or goes after what they want from those around him, direct experience.
And if they're into being the daddy figure? Wanting bratty and spirited energetic behavior? The younger the woman the better.

Also, I don't think they would be attracted to internet dating at all, where it's mostly sitting around waiting for emails that may or may not come.

The internet is the great equalizer. It doesn't matter at all how strong or empowered you are here. It's all just black words on white background.
People that are truly strong and empowered tend to avoid situations and mediums that take away their strengths and depower them.

It's like looking online for someone that wants to spend their days swimming in the ocean, and every night looking at the stars.


At least to me it sounds no more weird than anyone else that has a recipe for their idealized mate.

There's a ton of profiles on all dating sites that are far more detailed on what they want, and what/who the other person has to be in order to give them what they want.

A lot of people come on here as though it's a restaurant, don't see what they want on the thumbnail menu, so put their order in via their profile (or the forums "where's the milfs that want a younger guy? Where's the bi dudes that want a three way? Where's the REAL men?), and then sit back waiting for someone to bring it to them.


I'd say any woman who has been using online dating for more than a year or two are in your exact position.

Magnifique! ....Vous �tes vraiment une d�esse!...

Well I can tell you all that I'm a strong confident man, I'm quite happy with myself as well. I want the exact same in a woman. I don't feel like dominating anyone. I also don't care to be dominated. I like a woman who is feminist, but not militant about it. I'm a feminist. Woman have human minds, why should a man like me be required to boss them around and make all the decisions? It should be a team effort. So put another way, if a woman believes that her role is simply to produce offspring, cook and clean, she's not for me. I need someone who thinks big, outside the box. But to each his own, I respect all of you

I can tell you what the woman I spoke to, who is into that exact thing told me. According to her, it's quite hard to find the perfect man to place the trust in, to dominate you. She said she's about to give up and stay single. Apparently it takes a special type of man to be the dominate.

Je suis vraiment une d�esse!

"La plus simple et la signification du symbole de la d�esse est la reconnaissance de la l�gitimit� du pouvoir f�minin comme un bienfaisant et pouvoir ind�pendant."

Carol P. Le Christ~

Nous sommes toutes les d�esses ma belle!!...

toutes les femmes

Whatever or whoever your looking for I hope you find it Crystal because your a sweetheart and you deserve to be happy.

Daniel Craig ain't half bad

I got dibs on Roger Moore.

I agree, I wish you good luck on your search quest

Thank you, Jack! That's really sweet!

Thanks, Shane!

.. looks around the room...hmm.. having any luck yet..?..

mmmzzz ... now that you're here ...
You sure as heck got the shoulders, the ***, the legs ...
It's just that you fancy to get spanked ... that kind of doesn't work for me

Did I mention the shoulders? Dang, I love good shoulders on a man!!

we can take turns on the spanking..lol

Mmmm ... I must admit I enjoyed using the flogger the other day
Tease with the velvety soft fingers over your back and botty .... then alternating soft and hard whacks ...
Maybe ...

May I ask, is this a lifestyle for you, or is it just on the bedroom? I know there's a very wide range of bdsm relationships and how extreme it can get