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Topic: Your Date Invites you Home
Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Thu 04/30/15 03:41 PM
First thing anyone sees on the wall when they enter my house is a picture of me shooting a Barrett 50 cal. My message is you don't know where I have a gun hidden. But I've never had need to use any of them. Geez,wtf!

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Thu 04/30/15 04:39 PM
I'll definitely raid their fridge if they can cook.

tta1128 Joined Sun 12/14/14 Posts: 514	Thu 04/30/15 04:40 PM
First thing anyone sees on the wall when they enter my house is a picture of me shooting a Barrett 50 cal. My message is you don't know where I have a gun hidden. But I've never had need to use any of them. Geez,wtf! LOL. This is Tennessee hon. Everybody has guns. I know how to use them and practice. Go to the Sheriff's range and target shoot in my backyard. We take our guns rights very seriously here.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Thu 04/30/15 04:43 PM
I would hope that his home would be neat and tidy. This depends if he has pets, kids or roommates. I would have to take all of this into account.

Friendly_Woman Joined Mon 04/27/15 Posts: 728	Mon 05/04/15 07:38 AM
I also have to check whether he cleans HIMSELF. How can I make love to him, if he smells like cheese? . Ha ha. One man went to kiss me, and his breath smelt of rubbish bins. I told him to just kiss me on my cheek, as I would have felt sick if he kissed me on the mouth.

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Mon 05/04/15 07:49 AM
ive always gone for the trailer trash typ,so iam always hoping her house looks like crap,lol,,of course MOST of us care what there house looks like,you lost e on this one.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 05/04/15 08:05 AM
Well I am not going to worry to much about his home IF I am not dodging trash, or bugs. If he is clean.... I don't think I have ever been in a persons home that I was dating that fell into that category of disgusting.. I have been in a few women friends home that I have to wonder what do they do all day... Their homes were disgusting and I didn't sit down, or even have a glass of water...

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Mon 05/04/15 11:51 AM
....... I don't think I have ever been in a persons home that I was dating that fell into that category of disgusting.. ..... I have, disgusting with a capital D, font size xxxxxxxl, haha.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 05/04/15 11:56 AM
....... I don't think I have ever been in a persons home that I was dating that fell into that category of disgusting.. ..... I have, disgusting with a capital D, font size xxxxxxxl, haha. That is bad Crystal... I think the worst home I have ever been in was my sisters' I swear she has been watching hoarders. With all the crap she has in her house she has to be following the haulers that haul all the junk away.. I have told her I won't come over since I am afraid of waht is going to get me...

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Mon 05/04/15 11:57 AM
I have a sister in law that could be on that show

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/04/15 11:58 AM
a little bit of un tightness is OK.. what worries me is when their house is so clean.. I don't even want to sit on the furniture... it usually means they don't spend a lot of time at home....hmm... . that's never a good sign... 4 captain obvious..lol

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 05/04/15 12:05 PM
a little bit of un tightness is OK.. what worries me is when their house is so clean.. I don't even want to sit on the furniture... it usually means they don't spend a lot of time at home....hmm... . that's never a good sign... 4 captain obvious..lol So true gotta have a bit of smushed pillows on sofa.. a bit of dog hair on floor.. There was a time my home was too clean I even felt uncomfortable in it.. So now I relax and if someone comes to the door and god forbid there is stuff laying around a bit. no sweat... I was in a house {notice house not home} a while back they had slip covers on the furniture.. I kind of stayed in the entry way.. felt may be my socks were too dirty to get onto their carpet...

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/04/15 12:09 PM
Fyi.. dirty socks..lol.. such a turn on..lmao.... but yes there is.. apoint when a house can be to clean.. .. makes me wonder.. if we are intimate.... do I need to worry about the wet spot. . probably not... she will probably lay down.. plastic or perhaps a towel .lol.. I hope the towel plastic is just so uncomfortable...lol..

Redbutterfly098 Joined Tue 08/19/14 Posts: 2761	Mon 05/04/15 12:22 PM
Never care if not so much clean as long as his house not look like a zoo. Why i say this? I relieve to my friend's work last sunday and as i inter the house door i notice the bad smell then immediately my eyes turn around the house and they have different kind of pets and of my curiosity i go at back of there house and it was lovely because there are diff. kinds of birds.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 05/04/15 12:26 PM
Fyi.. dirty socks..lol.. such a turn on..lmao.... but yes there is.. apoint when a house can be to clean.. .. makes me wonder.. if we are intimate.... do I need to worry about the wet spot. . probably not... she will probably lay down.. plastic or perhaps a towel .lol.. I hope the towel plastic is just so uncomfortable...lol.. Hey my socks aren't dirty.. that is grass stains I tell ya....BTW got any red licorice I am out...

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/04/15 12:43 PM
. no all out of red licorice.. ok I'm not out I'm just bogarting it..lol.. going to take the boys to see the new Avenger movie this weekend...lol....

prithvii1989 Joined Mon 03/30/15 Posts: 317	Mon 05/04/15 12:47 PM
i will run and buy a pack of condom first.

prithvii1989 Joined Mon 03/30/15 Posts: 317	Mon 05/04/15 12:48 PM Edited by prithvii1989 on Mon 05/04/15 12:49 PM
i will run and buy a pack of condom first. oops sorry i did not read the first page of the topic before posting.

SassyEuro2 Joined Wed 04/29/15 Posts: 11102	Mon 05/04/15 12:57 PM
You've dated this really nice person a couple of times and he/she invites you home. Not for sex, mind you, let's say for coffee in the afternoon. - Do you care about what his/her home looks like, inside and out? Do you look at the state / type of furniture, what kind of books are in the bookshelf, how clean it is? - Or couldn't you care less, you simply focus on him / her? - Could something turn you off, and if so, what would do the trick? I notice all the above. My two WORST dates homes, (years ago) BOTH had a room with a padlock on a bedroom door. I have NO idea why? I didn't ask. I would NOT want to know. Needless to say, I was OUT of there. I made a personal inventory of MYSELF (& what those 2 guys had in common) & never encountered, that TYPE of guy again. What ever that TYPE is?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Mon 05/04/15 01:04 PM
You've dated this really nice person a couple of times and he/she invites you home. Not for sex, mind you, let's say for coffee in the afternoon. - Do you care about what his/her home looks like, inside and out? Do you look at the state / type of furniture, what kind of books are in the bookshelf, how clean it is? - Or couldn't you care less, you simply focus on him / her? - Could something turn you off, and if so, what would do the trick? I notice all the above. My two WORST dates homes, (years ago) BOTH had a room with a padlock on a bedroom door. I have NO idea why? I didn't ask. I would NOT want to know. Needless to say, I was OUT of there. I made a personal inventory of MYSELF (& what those 2 guys had in common) & never encountered, that TYPE of guy again. What ever that TYPE is? Padlocks??? Eewww... I'd be out of there too!