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Topic: Why love hurts??
prithvii1989 Joined Mon 03/30/15 Posts: 317	Tue 04/21/15 10:03 AM
At some point we are so madly in love with each other, and suddenly every thing becomes a dream. we start fighting at smaller things, why we dnt sit back and listen to each other and try to understand each other. it hurts a lot when i imagine my life without her. she was and she is the one i truly loved ever but why we are falling apart??

stan_147 Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 3442	Tue 04/21/15 12:28 PM
The simple answer is that people change and grow, and the direction is never certain. Nothing lasts forever.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Tue 04/21/15 12:35 PM
The simple answer is that people change and grow, and the direction is never certain. Nothing lasts forever. I have to disagree with you a bit.. It can last forever if two people want it bad enough enough to take the time. To lay down the swords of anger and just stop To remember this is a person that they care about To stop and just listen to the other ones feelings. To love your partner as you want to be loved. To always remember to respect each other and their space. To let your partner fly and soar with the birds. To believe in each other and your commitment... just saying

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Tue 04/21/15 12:37 PM
The simple answer is that people change and grow, and the direction is never certain. Nothing lasts forever. I have to disagree with you a bit.. It can last forever if two people want it bad enough enough to take the time. To lay down the swords of anger and just stop To remember this is a person that they care about To stop and just listen to the other ones feelings. To love your partner as you want to be loved. To always remember to respect each other and their space. To let your partner fly and soar with the birds. To believe in each other and your commitment... just saying Where can I find a man like you......lol

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Tue 04/21/15 12:41 PM
The simple answer is that people change and grow, and the direction is never certain. Nothing lasts forever. I have to disagree with you a bit.. It can last forever if two people want it bad enough enough to take the time. To lay down the swords of anger and just stop To remember this is a person that they care about To stop and just listen to the other ones feelings. To love your partner as you want to be loved. To always remember to respect each other and their space. To let your partner fly and soar with the birds. To believe in each other and your commitment... just saying Where can I find a man like you......lol Well.... I am not sure and since I am sure Pancho would get a bit ticked if I decided to get a sex change at this late date.. I guess you are back to pervin profiles

stan_147 Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 3442	Tue 04/21/15 12:42 PM
Sitka, are you immortal?

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Tue 04/21/15 12:43 PM
Sitka, are you immortal? No why???

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Tue 04/21/15 01:03 PM
hold up OP pretty sure Nazareth knows the answer to this one... hahaha now he has to go google who that might just be

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Tue 04/21/15 01:04 PM
Sitka, are you immortal? No why??? You said it could last 'forever'.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Tue 04/21/15 01:12 PM
Sitka, are you immortal? No why??? You said it could last 'forever'. Oh Ok now I get it Well I do believe in Mortality.. does that count

JustScribbles Joined Thu 04/02/15 Posts: 1091	Tue 04/21/15 02:13 PM
The simple answer is that people change and grow, and the direction is never certain. Nothing lasts forever. I have to disagree with you a bit.. It can last forever if two people want it bad enough enough to take the time. To lay down the swords of anger and just stop To remember this is a person that they care about To stop and just listen to the other ones feelings. To love your partner as you want to be loved. To always remember to respect each other and their space. To let your partner fly and soar with the birds. To believe in each other and your commitment... just saying That was good. Really good, Ms. AK.

JustScribbles Joined Thu 04/02/15 Posts: 1091	Tue 04/21/15 02:26 PM
In another thread, TMommy had another good observation (I've looked for it but can't find the critter), the gist of which was, 'Just because we lock horns doesn't mean the sky is falling.' Riffing on that thought just a bit, I'd add that sometimes we assume that our partners were cruel/inconsiderate/just plain wrong and that is exactly the time to step back, to rein in the horses for a second and ask them (or maybe, just yourself), 'Is this what you meant? Do I understand what just happened?' So much stuff blows up into deal-breaking drama over things that were misinterpreted.

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Tue 04/21/15 02:43 PM
I don't believe true love falls apart, it's not mutual that's all. One is using the other and the other doesn't know because they are feeling different. But if we are objective we can see one not loving the other is the cause of falling apart.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Tue 04/21/15 02:50 PM
I don't believe true love falls apart, it's not mutual that's all. One is using the other and the other doesn't know because they are feeling different. But if we are objective we can see one not loving the other is the cause of falling apart. This is so true & i agree 100%

Biscuit85 Joined Sun 03/22/15 Posts: 142	Tue 04/21/15 02:58 PM
If you think love hurts, try stepping on a lego. Now that hurts!

stan_147 Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 3442	Tue 04/21/15 03:07 PM
Oh, gees.... Nazareth. I think Lzzy has a different take... Love Bites - Halestorm

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Tue 04/21/15 03:46 PM
In another thread, TMommy had another good observation (I've looked for it but can't find the critter), the gist of which was, 'Just because we lock horns doesn't mean the sky is falling.' Riffing on that thought just a bit, I'd add that sometimes we assume that our partners were cruel/inconsiderate/just plain wrong and that is exactly the time to step back, to rein in the horses for a second and ask them (or maybe, just yourself), 'Is this what you meant? Do I understand what just happened?' So much stuff blows up into deal-breaking drama over things that were misinterpreted. oh ya that..I erased it..whew dat woman got long winded and it turned into quite the shopping list of what she was looking for in a relationship ain't nobody got time for that

Foursure Joined Fri 01/09/15 Posts: 3231	Tue 04/21/15 03:47 PM
It always hurts when you lose...............

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 04/21/15 04:27 PM
because she took the Lincoln Navigator... and tryed to park it between two posts.. that were a little too close together.... because when I'm in the mood... she's not.. not because she's not in the mood.. it's just because I'm in the mood... ... because the gold Visa Card.. in her mind really has no limit.. ..lol

IgorFrankensteen Joined Thu 10/01/09 Posts: 5444	Thu 04/23/15 10:35 PM
Sometimes the problem is, that you really weren't in love with each other, so much as you were in love with your idea of each other. The little fights all come from each time that you realize in some small way that your "true love" isn't walking the path that you fantasize for them, and you try to push them back on to it, instead of adjusting your own to match who they really are.