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Topic: In Same Sex "Marriage" What Determines Who Is To Be The "Wif
uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Tue 05/12/15 12:16 AM Edited by uche9aa on Tue 05/12/15 12:18 AM
In same sex marriage,what determines who is to be the "husband" or the "wife" Just curious and sincerely want to know, Article 4, section 6, paragraph 2 of Obamacare. Purely for insurance purposes. Other than that you should really define what you mean by "husband" and what you mean by "wife." You sure know what I meant by "husband" and "wife" in same sex marriage. You want me to be graphic? Ok, who got laid? You want more? How do they "consummate" their "marriage"? etc etc Lol!!

Fshee121 Joined Sat 04/25/15 Posts: 21	Tue 05/12/15 01:43 AM
I'm signal Frendsheep

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 05/12/15 04:31 PM
I'm signal Frendsheep Are you saying you want a "sheep"for friendship?

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Wed 05/27/15 05:43 AM
The dood with the trampstamp would be the wife.

Happiness2U Joined Thu 06/19/14 Posts: 2504	Wed 05/27/15 12:42 PM
Rather insensitive and insulting...imho...

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Wed 05/27/15 01:26 PM
Everyone has right of choice on how to live his or her life. Meanwhile, I am busy with my chicken soup preparation. The taste is great. Devildog, you are invited. Live chicken soup!!!!

devildog123 Joined Mon 09/08/14 Posts: 3902	Wed 05/27/15 01:34 PM
Everyone has right of choice on how to live his or her life. Meanwhile, I am busy with my chicken soup preparation. The taste is great. Devildog, you are invited. Live chicken soup!!!! thanks Uche, but I will pass this time.... that guy is licking his palm.. and I can only imagine where that tongue has been ;)

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Wed 05/27/15 01:44 PM Edited by uche9aa on Wed 05/27/15 01:46 PM
Everyone has right of choice on how to live his or her life. Meanwhile, I am busy with my chicken soup preparation. The taste is great. Devildog, you are invited. Live chicken soup!!!! thanks Uche, but I will pass this time.... that guy is licking his palm.. and I can only imagine where that tongue has been ;) Hahahahahahahahaha. Nothing to worry about, sterlized hands are safe

Rana248070 Joined Thu 05/14/15 Posts: 33	Thu 05/28/15 07:08 PM
Nice comment.. tnx

mikeybgood1 Joined Sun 03/16/14 Posts: 495	Fri 05/29/15 08:56 AM
Based on my life experience to date the 'hubby' in gay relationships are as follows; For Lesbians...The one who wears the plaid lumberjack shirts/jackets, has a close cropped haircut, and lines up for sales on power tools at Home Depot. For Gay Men...The one who is the picky perfectionist. He's constantly correcting/berating his partner and is usually the less 'flamboyant' of the two. Tends to be into art and wine, while the 'wife' tends to be more the decorator/fashionista. Just my opinion however. I'm sure there are couples who flip that paradigm out there, and that the 'hubby' is simply 'fah-bu-lous'.

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Fri 05/29/15 12:08 PM
Based on my life experience to date the 'hubby' in gay relationships are as follows; For Lesbians...The one who wears the plaid lumberjack shirts/jackets, has a close cropped haircut, and lines up for sales on power tools at Home Depot. For Gay Men...The one who is the picky perfectionist. He's constantly correcting/berating his partner and is usually the less 'flamboyant' of the two. Tends to be into art and wine, while the 'wife' tends to be more the decorator/fashionista. Just my opinion however. I'm sure there are couples who flip that paradigm out there, and that the 'hubby' is simply 'fah-bu-lous'. Good attempt.

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Fri 05/29/15 03:01 PM
If they had husbands and wives wouldn't they be more than just gay as in a gay with a transsexual or something , I don't know if that's even possible because why would a gay man want to be with a man who wanted to be a woman or vice versa? I don't believe in gay marriage and I think it must be a sexual perversion to be gay.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Fri 05/29/15 03:27 PM
.. the wife is usually the one doing the laundry... and dictating what the other one should be doing..lol..ok

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sat 05/30/15 07:36 PM
One of the nicest people on Mingle is gay, she dedicates her life to the fight against cancer, might be worth bearing in mind before you make your comments. Agree.

liljay34 Joined Thu 05/01/14 Posts: 8	Tue 06/02/15 06:40 AM
Edited for homophobic comments, there is no place here for that. soufie Site Moderator

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Fri 06/26/15 09:31 PM
.. the wife is usually the one doing the laundry... and dictating what the other one should be doing..lol..ok

mom333 Joined Sun 06/15/14 Posts: 1238	Sat 06/27/15 03:12 AM
The one who is naturally submissive will take on a non leader role and the one that is more dominant will lead the relationship just like a straight marriage.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sat 06/27/15 03:33 AM
Edited for homophobic comments, there is no place here for that. soufie Site Moderator Agree

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Sat 06/27/15 03:38 AM
The one who is naturally submissive will take on a non leader role and the one that is more dominant will lead the relationship just like a straight marriage.

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Sat 06/27/15 08:31 AM
If they had husbands and wives wouldn't they be more than just gay as in a gay with a transsexual or something , I don't know if that's even possible because why would a gay man want to be with a man who wanted to be a woman or vice versa? I don't believe in gay marriage and I think it must be a sexual perversion to be gay.