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Topic: Men and Pressure
MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 04/06/15 09:55 AM


SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 04/06/15 10:01 AM
Ladies, do you ever begin talking to a guy but as you're talking with him it becomes obvious as phuck he's more interested than you are and lays it down pretty thick? Telling someone no is no big deal, but it's the smell of desperation that's a turn off for me. Pressuring someone into revealing your life story doesn't work on the first date or conversation. I wish more people would understand that it's a mutual growth for both parties. A green light because we're both chatting doesn't mean spill everything. It also doesn't mean stalk me and actually admit it. Is taking it slow overlooked these days? Methinks it's more the truth anything else. I have no clue if slow is overlooked these days. I believe that two people set the pace between themselves. What one person may believe as a 50 yd dash another will think it is a marathon. So it is up to the people involved to set the pace between themselves on what works. If it isn't working then cut bait and move on... Stalkers well block their happy butts on the internet, Don't give out phone numbers or other personal info til you know if you want it to move to the next level.Easy Peasy Oh yeah one more thing smell of desperation comes in many scents...Amazing how it can smell on different people..

TyphoonMk1b Joined Sun 04/05/15 Posts: 290	Mon 04/06/15 10:29 AM
oooh come on, nothing wrong with a stalker, love it when a crazy azz woman shows up at my house with out calling first,,can you say NEEDY???? would love to withness such a scene!

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45409	Mon 04/06/15 10:32 AM
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33364	Mon 04/06/15 11:14 AM
oooh come on, nothing wrong with a stalker, love it when a crazy azz woman shows up at my house with out calling first,,can you say NEEDY???? So that's not the done thing then?? * Changes plans for tonight *

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Mon 04/06/15 12:16 PM
If you feel pressured tell him your going to the bathroom and sneak out the window that's if he doesn't get the message. Be straight with him. . A stalker? I say run.

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Mon 04/06/15 12:21 PM
oooh come on, nothing wrong with a stalker, love it when a crazy azz woman shows up at my house with out calling first,,can you say NEEDY???? would love to withness such a scene! trust me dude, no you would'nt, this gal was crazy *** bad sheet,

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Mon 04/06/15 12:25 PM
oooh come on, nothing wrong with a stalker, love it when a crazy azz woman shows up at my house with out calling first,,can you say NEEDY???? So that's not the done thing then?? * Changes plans for tonight * oh crystal i would so stalk you,,,but in a good way, look out in your drive, IAM HERE,,LOL

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 04/06/15 12:29 PM
Ladies, do you ever begin talking to a guy but as you're talking with him it becomes obvious as phuck he's more interested than you are and lays it down pretty thick? Telling someone no is no big deal, but it's the smell of desperation that's a turn off for me. Pressuring someone into revealing your life story doesn't work on the first date or conversation. I wish more people would understand that it's a mutual growth for both parties. A green light because we're both chatting doesn't mean spill everything. It also doesn't mean stalk me and actually admit it. Is taking it slow overlooked these days? Methinks it's more the truth anything else. I understand where you're coming from,I use to be like that if I'm feeling someone alot,and for me it's more me being straight forward,take it or leave it kinda attitude,as oppose to desperate,which was why I actually post a topic a couple of months ago about how people take somethings for desperation that really aren't,and I feel if two people feeling each other,I don't see why waste time playing games,but I'm not saying to lay EVERYTHING out lol,especially if you don't know each other that well,I'm the type of person that is kinda secretive,but also don't have anything to hide,so If I feel comfortable saying whatever, I'll just say it!!

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Mon 04/06/15 01:03 PM
Okay... These two women I love together.. Does the scenario involve a wading pool full of lime jello?

Valeris Joined Wed 01/21/15 Posts: 453	Mon 04/06/15 09:55 PM