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and then they wonder why we just .. disappear.... makes a running start for the window..lol.. 
huh... maybe some guys like to be called names and talked down too... not me, i don't like *******... 
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slips into his latex suit...
. tightens the ball gag.. ..... yes ,yes I do !and the line-up starts behind me..lmao |
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Some men are just A-holes. And there is nothing you can do about it. Period. End of story. True. No communication, basically no relationship. |
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Men .. Protect your sugar lumps .. Laughing :-) as long as i never have to take them out of a woman purse, they'll be protected... |
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Some men are just A-holes. And there is nothing you can do about it. Period. End of story. True. No communication, basically no relationship. sounds like yall would be happier being lesbians... or buy big johhny at the local sex shop, and no more worries for either of you... |
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Some men are just A-holes. And there is nothing you can do about it. Period. End of story. True. No communication, basically no relationship. sounds like yall would be happier being lesbians... or buy big johhny at the local sex shop, and no more worries for either of you... Sounds like you don't know when it's appropriate to shut your degrading mouth sometimes, eh? 
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Some men are just A-holes. And there is nothing you can do about it. Period. End of story. True. No communication, basically no relationship. sounds like yall would be happier being lesbians... or buy big johhny at the local sex shop, and no more worries for either of you... Sounds like you don't know when it's appropriate to shut your degrading mouth sometimes, eh?
umm -- yes dear? |
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WTF?
Some women are this and some of that, with an added ingredient thrown in for good measure ;) |
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Here's all you have to know about men:
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Some men are just A-holes. And there is nothing you can do about it. Period. End of story. True. No communication, basically no relationship. sounds like yall would be happier being lesbians... or buy big johhny at the local sex shop, and no more worries for either of you... 
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TEAL------ You scared them all off ;)
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Here's all you have to know about men:
While I actually laughed when I read this it's a pretty brutal attack on men. I'd say there are just as many women that this applies to as men. |
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Some potential reasons:‘Houdini Syndrome’. Basically its sufferers are men/women who don’t want to get emotionally involved and soon after realizing they are deep in emotions, they disappear like Houdini – a famous magician. They are also called ‘commitment phobes’. Another reason could be- "Don Juanism" as linked to the quest for narcissistic supply, and for proof of achievement (as seen in the number of conquests). The "Thrill of The Chase"; however once the "Prey" is bagged, the thrill is gone & so are they;}
* But-why is it even important to understand why, "The Waster" took-off? You're Fine, you're OK-& his disappearance is not about You-it's about Him[& his Issues]. Basically, He's a Creep  & unworthy of your time & thought. End Of Story.
I'm sorry that you are in pain, having made such a substantial emotional investment ["We would Skype for hours a day, sometimes 5 or 6..."]- Wow, 5-6 hours of chat per day?! That's a huge amount of time to spend with a cyber-space stranger or anyone else for that matter. Perhaps, there's a new & important lesson here for you to learn & apply to your future encounters? 
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wow,all new to this but sounds like things on line like real life,IM SHOCKED.SEEMS to me mabe best for all if one has option one should date close to home..Hard for some if from small town, but if in city should be easy and safer.Not judging anyone ,just thinking aloud.
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Thanks again to everyone for your comments and insights. They have helped me realize that he probably was just looking for someone to flirt with online with no further intent, and now he's moving on to his next prey. I had quit my job of 15 years shortly before I heard from him, and was feeling low from the way my resignation was handled, and was alone with a lot of time on my hands, hence the skyping for hours a day. At that place and time, I was vulnerable, and he was so sincere sounding, I believed him. What I don't understand is why he sent me nude pictures of himself shortly before his last departure. If I was vindictive, I could do mean things with those pictures. Luckily for him, I'm a nice person who just wants to move on.
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Well, I'm here to say it's not just guys. I was married for 7 years in quite a few long term relationships with either men or women.I've been told by people I'm dating as well as from outsiders. I JUST AM TO NICE I DON"T ***** OR NAG ENOUGH. Crazy right? so I thought I found a sure way not to get hurt or cheated on or left. OPEN RELATIONSHIPS ya right I got cheated on in even a worse way. They kept me in an on going open relationship just for me to find out no I'm a big secret and here months after meeting me. they decided to find loving,closed warm relationships. so i can't figure people out at all
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He sounds like a Cheater
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Dating someone geographically distant and not meeting up front strongly suggests a person not seeking a relationship but rather someone who enjoys emotional masturbation (toying with others hopes, needs, wants and desires)A lesson to learn in that by not meeting one is caught up in their own fantasy of a potential relationship and not a genuine one. The more time you invest in a person without a meeting the greater the hopes and desires but at the expense of ascertaining once you meet that the two are not compatible, share no chemistry or simply do not match...
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Yeah, why do mean like disappear? Like really nothing happened before disappearing
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