i understand what your saying, however i have known since almost birth that the things a womans body is for is not always up to her. and this lesson seems to be an on going lesson that somehow makes it easy to believe that physically sharing touches in any way is no different then a hand shake. can a single hand shake make you sick , make you feel dirty. I believe that one day a single person will win what is most important, My heart, respect, love, honesty,and who knows what all else the will win. i just don't know if i believe any more that i want others telling what to do with my body when so far even they have not always treated my body right

Well, I'm here to say it's not just guys. I was married for 7 years in quite a few long term relationships with either men or women.I've been told by people I'm dating as well as from outsiders. I JUST AM TO NICE I DON"T ***** OR NAG ENOUGH. Crazy right? so I thought I found a sure way not to get hurt or cheated on or left. OPEN RELATIONSHIPS ya right I got cheated on in even a worse way. They kept me in an on going open relationship just for me to find out no I'm a big secret and here months after meeting me. they decided to find loving,closed warm relationships. so i can't figure people out at all

i was married at 17 divorced at24 been in a few long term relationships 1 on 1 or so I thought. Well then this past 10 years I've tried 2 different open relationships and you'd think ( no way can I get cheated on this way ) WRONG. is there anyone who wants the best of both worlds the person thats your true one and only plus a life were with rule and guidelines the two of you can share sexual passion together/w others or am I forever going to be confused