Topic: I am wondering if guys truly read any of the profiles?
generalgp's photo
Fri 02/20/15 07:00 AM
I think they do, we'll I do . but the fact it there aren't many women on here that are real. Think the majority is automated to this site. So if they get someone who really responds they want to chat.

mikey5360's photo
Fri 02/20/15 02:54 PM

Does anyone agree with me? This is crazy.
You don't go hunting down a Dating Website when you're married.

I think originally and some of the old schoolers will know this better, but this site started out as a friendship site, hence the large numbers of people here just for the forums.....
just like us....just here for the forums.....

Noa41's photo
Fri 02/20/15 09:39 PM
So, does his wife actually know of his activities?

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Sat 02/21/15 12:53 AM

So, does his wife actually know of his activities?


Yes his wife knows, she sometimes posts on here as well

Noa41's photo
Sat 02/21/15 02:23 AM
Just seems strange. If she's down with it..... No harm :)

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Sat 02/21/15 02:44 AM

Just seems strange. If she's down with it..... No harm :)
No harm? Well you seem to be doing a fair job at keeping it going? If your head thinks that way? That's your problem, as not everybody is the same as your ex? Some of us are straight up people, who value what they have in life? Tell you the truth? I think you're jealous, that 2 people can be that way? That's what it's coming across like to me?

Noa41's photo
Sat 02/21/15 03:16 AM
Just seems strange. If she's down with it..... No harm :)
No harm? Well you seem to be doing a fair job at keeping it going? If your head thinks that way? That's your problem, as not everybody is the same as your ex? Some of us are straight up people, who value what they have in life? Tell you the truth? I think you're jealous, that 2 people can be that way? That's what it's coming across like to me?

Let's keep it going then? Would you like me to pick apart every part of your posting?


Start to finish.......
1--- My head is on straight and no one gets in it unless I let them. It's a pain sometimes, but some people crack me. Do not include my EX in this.
2--- Of course there are straight up people here. Value in life? Seriously? Never concluded there weren't any. Let's just say..... You mess with me, I know how to dish it back.

3--- Jealousy? You're running with grease impregnated shoes. I'm well off, no need to be jealous of anything. I was married over 10 year and together for over 14. Never lecture if you've not a clue.

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Sat 02/21/15 03:19 AM
Edited by messi_is_a_tim_1888 on Sat 02/21/15 03:22 AM

Just seems strange. If she's down with it..... No harm :)
No harm? Well you seem to be doing a fair job at keeping it going? If your head thinks that way? That's your problem, as not everybody is the same as your ex? Some of us are straight up people, who value what they have in life? Tell you the truth? I think you're jealous, that 2 people can be that way? That's what it's coming across like to me?


Let's keep it going then? Would you like me to pick apart every part of your posting?


Start to finish.......
1--- My head is on straight and no one gets in it unless I let them. It's a pain sometimes, but some people crack me. Do not include my EX in this.
2--- Of course there are straight up people here. Value in life? Seriously? Never concluded there weren't any. Let's just say..... You mess with me, I know how to dish it back.

3--- Jealousy? You're running with grease impregnated shoes. I'm well off, no need to be jealous of anything. I was married over 10 year and together for over 14. Never lecture if you've not a clue.
Seems you don't like criticism back? Well don't know dish it out then? Simple as?

Noa41's photo
Sat 02/21/15 03:24 AM
What did you just post?

Noa41's photo
Sat 02/21/15 03:24 AM
Edited by Noa41 on Sat 02/21/15 03:26 AM
What did you just post?
Hmmmm double post with 1 click! WINNER ;)

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Sat 02/21/15 03:35 AM

What did you just post? Hmmmm double post with 1 click! WINNER ;)
Think your ex damaged your head more than you like to admit? Cos you're acting like a little kid, with these wee games of oneupmanship? Grow up eh? Cos you're making yourself look a fool with your pettiness.

Noa41's photo
Sat 02/21/15 03:41 AM
Think your ex damaged your head more than you like to admit? Cos you're acting like a little kid, with these wee games of oneupmanship? Grow up eh? Cos you're making yourself look a fool with your pettiness.


Foolishness and Pettiness, this is going to get MESSI.

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Sat 02/21/15 03:45 AM

Think your ex damaged your head more than you like to admit? Cos you're acting like a little kid, with these wee games of oneupmanship? Grow up eh? Cos you're making yourself look a fool with your pettiness.


Foolishness and Pettiness, this is going to get MESSI.
My point proven 100%

Noa41's photo
Sat 02/21/15 04:03 AM


Think your ex damaged your head more than you like to admit? Cos you're acting like a little kid, with these wee games of oneupmanship? Grow up eh? Cos you're making yourself look a fool with your pettiness.


Foolishness and Pettiness, this is going to get MESSI.
My point proven 100%



What point? That you come onto a dating chat site while married.

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Sat 02/21/15 04:23 AM



Think your ex damaged your head more than you like to admit? Cos you're acting like a little kid, with these wee games of oneupmanship? Grow up eh? Cos you're making yourself look a fool with your pettiness.


Foolishness and Pettiness, this is going to get MESSI.
My point proven 100%



What point? That you come onto a dating chat site while married.
Nope, that you act like a little kid that's thrown it's doll out of the pram, when people point out any of your faults? You swan about in these forums like you're superior to everyone else? I've seen your posts, so don't try to deny it? Put you on the spot though and your true colours rise to the surface? The difference with you and me is anything that happened in my past stays in my past, as it's the present and future I care about. Think you need to address that part of your life before you can move on and trust someone again? Also, I was brought up with the understanding that nobody was better than me and I was no better than anyone else? Just remember that, as dissing people constantly will only make you more bitter and lonely, ok?

Noa41's photo
Sat 02/21/15 04:47 AM
What point? That you come onto a dating chat site while married.
Nope, that you act like a little kid that's thrown it's doll out of the pram, when people point out any of your faults? You swan about in these forums like you're superior to everyone else? I've seen your posts, so don't try to deny it? Put you on the spot though and your true colours rise to the surface? The difference with you and me is anything that happened in my past stays in my past, as it's the present and future I care about. Think you need to address that part of your life before you can move on and trust someone again? Also, I was brought up with the understanding that nobody was better than me and I was no better than anyone else? Just remember that, as dissing people constantly will only make you more bitter and lonely, ok?


Past is always present and always lingering. Trust is always an issue when meeting someone.

I don't harp unless the person deserves it. Don't try and school or change me. Not wise.

Stop trying to mach wits with me. You will lose............. BORED!

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Sat 02/21/15 06:27 AM

What point? That you come onto a dating chat site while married.
Nope, that you act like a little kid that's thrown it's doll out of the pram, when people point out any of your faults? You swan about in these forums like you're superior to everyone else? I've seen your posts, so don't try to deny it? Put you on the spot though and your true colours rise to the surface? The difference with you and me is anything that happened in my past stays in my past, as it's the present and future I care about. Think you need to address that part of your life before you can move on and trust someone again? Also, I was brought up with the understanding that nobody was better than me and I was no better than anyone else? Just remember that, as dissing people constantly will only make you more bitter and lonely, ok?


Past is always present and always lingering. Trust is always an issue when meeting someone.

I don't harp unless the person deserves it. Don't try and school or change me. Not wise.

Stop trying to mach wits with me. You will lose............. BORED!
When you've already dug your hole, stop digging? As yours is deep enough now? My 2 month old son could outwit you!!

FishnFarm's photo
Mon 02/23/15 11:02 AM
I definitely read the profiles. I don't care how someone is, you can read the profile and tell if they are true at what they want or say or if they just think its another Facebook. Trust me guys, it pays to read them. A pretty face doesn't mean squat these days. :)

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Mon 02/23/15 03:46 PM
And I thought guys didn't like drama.

Aljaydot's photo
Fri 02/27/15 03:07 AM

And I thought guys didn't like drama.


LOL