Hmmm....as this is a double edged question, it deserves a double answer!

Conclusion #1: So, women never ask if it's ok to cheat, they just do it on the sly
Conclusion #2: Are women more intelligent than men... if they are doing it on the sly..... definitely 100% more intelligent!!!

Not ALL WOMEN!!!
Some of us women are .... but some of us are !
I think I'm something in between

women don't ask coz they just do it without asking

Why do you always moan, about men? A good shagging session from one is what you need i think, to put the smile back on your face?

i would think so too....she needs to be tamed

To all the married people who want to know if it is "all right" to seek sexual satisfaction outside the marriage for whatever reason.

Yes: as long as both parties know about it AND can afford it monetarily: Men don't want their wives to know b/c they might get sued for divorce & lose $$ (house, alimony child support etc). Women don't want their husbands to know b/c they might get sued for divorce & lose their standard of living (even if working F/T they are generally making less than their spouse in whatever field). What the kids (if any) suffer is varied although usually their standard of living goes down if their mother's does, since they usually wind up living with her.

So the answer is yes, only if you can afford the potential $$$ loss. If you actually talk to the spouse & say I need "whatever" sexually & they decline then you've already opened up the idea in their mind that you're going to cheat. Just get a separation (no alimony) & find someone to have sex with. If your spouse refuses to let you go but won't give you what you want, divorce is the only way to go. If you are gainfully employed you can find a new place to live, replace the possessions lost via a divorce, but you can never replace wasted years spent unfulfilled & resenting your spouse. This kind of emotional upset makes you bitter, angry & ironically less likely to be satisfied sexually no matter who you're with. Not attractive to anyone.

Go outside for relief Hmmmm
Do it with your left hand, it feels like someone else is doing it

Yea filled with cheating women

Amelinng...you crack me up !!! That's a double EDGED answer...

Nope, he's still here...

Lurking.

I think he's just popped outside for some light relief

When going through my divorce I visited lots of marriage counseling sites for help. Most marriage counseling sights claim the majority of married men who cheat do so with married women (roughly 90%). So why are all married men put under the accusing spotlight but cheating married women ignored? IMO the media plays a large role in this area. Men are pictured as always on the prowl and women are always pictured as the loving mother/wife who does everything right.

If 100 married men are having affairs, 90 of these married men are having affairs with 90 married women.

So a thought arises:

Either a few married women are having affairs with boat loads of married men or married women are not as honest as society is led to believe and more married women are having affairs then we realize.

Yes I agree. Why not to go to a marriage counseling instead of thinking in committing adultery?

I going be straight up,she probably getting it some place else,yep,probably cheatin ,first to do is communicate about it,cause sex don't just "stop",may be on hold FA while,based on some understandable issues,but me personally,if I have to cheat because of that,I'm going to want to end the relationship,especially if there's no reasonable explanation and it going on to long,and there're also some small clues that the Bch may be cheating !

No, no, no - the obvious answer is that there are a lot more married women than there are married men, so percentage-wise, the numbers of married women committing adultery are much, MUCH lower.

(Please, PLEASE hear the sarcasm I'm using in this post.)

There u go!!!

Some people can be 'celibate' for years without thoughts of cheating. It could be something that triggered that feeling of loss of intimacy, and until it is triggered again, it can remain dormant.

So...... she is probably not cheating! Be respectful!

I understand what you're saying,but when I say "PROBABLY cheating",I know what I'm saying,because I actually KNOW of it happening,seen it ,and hear about,so it still boils down to "probably ",or "probably not",you know,like "half empty,half full"?

Why would somebody ask complete strangers if it's "okay to cheat"?

I mean, they made the decision to get married, why can't they make this decision on their own? Some people....

Maybe the topic may just be for discussion,and not a problem of the op,a few times I post stuff just because it came to mind,I be like like,wondering what if,or has ever happened to any here,and people think you're actually going through it, can be confusing and frustrating sometimes!