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Hi dealing

It depends what you mean by bad. There's painful, uncomfortable, unsatisfying, or just not as good as you'd like it to be. I don't believe any of these are reasons to end a relationship. The first thing you should do is talk about it. Figure out why its the way it is and then work together to change it. I agree practice is a good idea but research might help to, whether its a book store, a ,ahem, toy store or a porn site. And get out if the bedroom. Get a hotel room, take a cruise, or just go camping. Anything to break up the routine.

This is an interesting topic.

Sex can be good and bad depending on what we feel is right or wrong, is a turn on and what isn't. A lot of chemistry comes with people who first meet, and sometimes the first sex encounter can be terrible.

See there was something I remember the older generation telling me about, love the person first... Too many younger generations today, have a misconception about love and sex, and lust. You can lust easily, all the time, and for the most part. I think everyone does, maybe not to the extreme as others, but if the sex is bad, like everyone else is basically saying.

Communication. That's key, is the love their? Does your partner care? These are important things to remember when having sex, and also just as much as you don't want bad sex, no one wants to be known for being bad at sex. However if the love is their, figure things out, introduce new ideas, talk about turn on's and turn offs. You can spend the rest of your life trying to figure your partner out and reading their mind, or you can just talk about it and make it work for you both.

One thing is certain though, when you do figure it out and genuinely love the person your with, you clearly know the difference between sex and making love.

If you have a selfish lover (whether male or female) when you first become intimate that lover isn't going to change. From my experience you can't change someone who is "me" oriented. Selfish doesn't go away.

Sex is good cos it renews the love between the two involved. When its bad then its not ok.
But first you got to knw what ur man or woman really wnt. Some guyz love long hairs..others dnt.
Some guyz like to try diff positions but atimes the woman do just like one.
If you r guy and you dnt knw anything about the body of a woman. How it works, where and where r sensitive and how to manage it effectively. Then you must be bad at sex. Some guyz dnt knw sex is more than to just climb up and then come down..its nobody's fault. There r' some sex educative dvds that will help. But note. A woman is good depending on how good you r.

-Hello how are you you have a lovely and wonderful profile anyway am ben by name will like to know more about you if you don't mind?

Treat your woman like a Pilot treats his kite? Climb inside her 5 times a day and take her to heaven and back!!!

but on second thought ...



Maybe I should find meself an Albannach

You buy a vibrator and become a teacher. Teach him in a round about way, what makes you feel good. Set the mood smell good, look good, sexy music. Then tell him to watch you with your vibrator, "no touching til you're ready to take over" then say when he has it. Like "yeah just like that" or say slower, faster, harder, what ever you need.

WOW, now I need a cold shower

To be an attentive man to your woman's needs, you learn about her and get to know what makes her tick, then improve on it and take her to places she's never been before? No vibrators needed in my bedroom believe me?

All for that... not keen on vibrators. Heard this expert on female sexuality say it makes you numb and she didn't recommend it. And I agree... far better to know how you can please yourself without vibrators.
The erm ... end result is far more intense!

And ... when you know how you like it, you can also tell a man
That's more difficult if all you ever do is use a buzzing thing down there
I got a PR. Not been used since I followed that expert's advice. Might as well sell it on Ebay

LOL i KNOW THATS RIGHT!!!!!!!!

I call B.S. on this so-called expert. No numbness here. lol

Cost you a small fortune in batteries though? Ha ha ha

who uses battery operated? ha ha ha

Don't tell me it's like a jackhammer and connected to a compressor, by an airpipe? Ha ha, only Joking! Don't be overusing it though, in case you cause a power cut in your neighbourhood? Ha ha

D'oh! That's what caused that??? haha