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Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Fri 01/30/15 04:11 AM
You knew a couple and he was talking to her in a demeaning way. Would you say something or mind your business?

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Fri 01/30/15 04:14 AM Edited by unknown_romeo on Fri 01/30/15 04:11 AM
I would mind my own business & move away from their personal talks..... .

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Fri 01/30/15 04:21 AM
You knew a couple and he was talking to her in a demeaning way. Would you say something or mind your business? Not unless he lifted his hands to her, then i would get involved, anything else, it's their business. Last time i got involved in a couple arguing i had the two of them gang up on me and i left her boyfriend sparked out in the street, but got my head split from one of her stiletto heels! Not worth it!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 01/30/15 08:31 AM
I would mind my own business & move away from their personal talks..... . Straight up!

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Fri 01/30/15 08:37 AM
You knew a couple and he was talking to her in a demeaning way. Would you say something or mind your business? when that was happening with a friend of mine, i took her aside and talked to her... then i took her away from him... then she went back, and neither were friends anymore... so i would say leave it alone....

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Fri 01/30/15 08:41 AM
Definitly LEAVE IT ALONE ...We are not talking about children here...Adults need to be responsible for themselves...Especially in matters of the heart....If your man is demeaning you in public, pull out your silver tongue and strike back!!

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 01/30/15 08:50 AM
You knew a couple and he was talking to her in a demeaning way. Would you say something or mind your business? I would and have talked to him. Emotional and mental abuse is just as bad as physical, sometimes it can be worse. A black eye will heal much faster than a broken spirit. Not to meddle in others affairs, but if we see someone harming another, we ought to look out for one another.

mikeyspace4691 Joined Tue 02/04/14 Posts: 1862	Fri 01/30/15 08:55 AM
I would team up with him and help him bash that slut..

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Fri 01/30/15 09:34 AM
I would team up with him and help him bash that slut.. HEY! Leave me out of this... and

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Fri 01/30/15 09:36 AM
One evening I was visiting with a married couple. We had known each other for a long time. They got to bickering like a couple of 12 year olds. I finally had enough, and said "Hey...dumb and dumber"! When they looked over toward me, they were greeted by the biggest, spread cheeked, white moon azz I could muster. She scurried out of the room and he laughed. Then there was peace in the valley.

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Fri 01/30/15 09:38 AM
it really depends on the situation. but i do have a couple of guy friends that i do call on the carpet for it when it gets out of hand

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 01/30/15 09:56 AM
You knew a couple and he was talking to her in a demeaning way. Would you say something or mind your business? I would mind my own business, so long as it was 'just' words BUT, if it was someone I was close with, I would speak about it to them later in our own private conversation,,,,

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Fri 01/30/15 10:01 AM
One evening I was visiting with a married couple. We had known each other for a long time. They got to bickering like a couple of 12 year olds. I finally had enough, and said "Hey...dumb and dumber"! When they looked over toward me, they were greeted by the biggest, spread cheeked, white moon azz I could muster. She scurried out of the room and he laughed. Then there was peace in the valley. You're lucky you didn't get raped....

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 01/30/15 11:02 AM
I would team up with him and help him bash that slut.. WTF Mikey?!

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Fri 01/30/15 12:33 PM
I think the world is messed up the way men are allowed to treat women. It would help if the law would reward those who intervene, not just punish those who commit crimes. A guy demeaning a woman in public is committing a crime, in many places it's against the law to harass anyone. I think minding your own business is turning a blind eye to a crime being committed. So, what if you saw a woman being hacked up by her boyfriend, would you also mind your own business?

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Fri 01/30/15 12:47 PM Edited by unknown_romeo on Fri 01/30/15 12:45 PM
So, what if you saw a woman being hacked up by her boyfriend, would you also mind your own business? The question is....in a situation like that what would you do? .

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 01/30/15 12:50 PM
I think the world is messed up the way men are allowed to treat women. It would help if the law would reward those who intervene, not just punish those who commit crimes. A guy demeaning a woman in public is committing a crime, in many places it's against the law to harass anyone. I think minding your own business is turning a blind eye to a crime being committed. So, what if you saw a woman being hacked up by her boyfriend, would you also mind your own business? That was not the question,and yes,it's STILL,nobody's business but theirs,if it really serious then starting to get"physically",out of hand,then yeah,but just lip service?Seriously?For some people,it's just an excuse for sticking their nose in what doesn't concern then,period!

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Fri 01/30/15 01:32 PM
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winterrain333 Joined Sat 11/07/09 Posts: 28	Fri 01/30/15 02:45 PM
I would mind my own business unless I knew the person well. Then I would pull them over to the side and ask them why they're taking that crap.