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Edited by
fleta_n_mach
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Sun 01/18/15 07:40 AM
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Doesn't matter why. The word, "no.", is pretty useful. No as in......? But im still wondering why shes doing it. Is it boredom? Why do women do that in such a situation People. Why do People do that. It's not a women issue. I finally gave up on a similar situation. I loved him dearly, but he would periodically go silent. wouldn't talk to me for weeks and then dump me, for reasons I couldn't understand. The confusion of our on-again, off-again relationship was torture. Nearly over him from our last break up, he pulled me back in during the fall of last year, just before I moved overseas. By new years, he was ignoring me again. I gave up. It is not appropriate for me to feel like I have to be confused and just 'handle' the way he treats me. It's finally over, and after being depressed most of the day yesterday, I'm actually feeling pretty free today. I feel ok... optimistic, even. Let go of the bad relationship. You'll find someone better. Hopefully you won't waste as long as I did with the wrong one (almost 13 years between two bad relationships). Why? Oh why? Oh why? Three year olds repeat that question incessantly. Boundaries. Greatest thing invented, they go along with personal spaces. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. 
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Thank you
Mikey i cant change a business email just like that, its too much of a hassle here doing that as its a paid email with a lot of business contacts using it Thanks though i value the input he can also go into his email options and block her email address and/or ignore - delete the emails. blocking sends a stronger message because she will get a message telling her that her message could not be sent. I'm not necessarily saying he wants to do this but it is an option |
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Romeo .. You once talked about regret and a chance to do things differently . Only you know your feelings for her . You have mentioned her a few times in the forums .. And it always seems with sadness . If you love her still then this sounds like your chance . It is true it seldom works to go back to an ex but there are exceptions . Perhaps time apart has shown her what really matters . I know I would not contact an ex .. So if I did .. It would not be because of mind games it would because I wanted to be with him :-) Finally a sensible answer .. Saves me from typing the same thing Maybe time to talk about things, what went wrong, why it went wrong, what both you and her feared and so on and so forth. I think very open and honest communication is called for. Even if it wouldn't work out, you may (finally) get the clarity you (both) need for closure |
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Edited by
mysticalview21
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Sun 01/18/15 08:19 AM
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I am with Bash a little is there no way to just caller id ...black her ... its over as u said and does not matter what she may want from you now ... stop letting her open old wounds ... I know how hard that can be... but its better not to hurt so much anymore about it and move on ... Good luck to you ...
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I am with Bash a little... is there no way to just caller id ...block her ... its over as u said and does not matter what she may want from you now ... stop letting her open old wounds ... I know how hard that can be... but its better not to hurt so much anymore about it and move on ... Good luck to you ... ... |
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