It's rather a complicated story and I realise that you don't know the people in question but I'll try to describe the chain of events as best I can. I will(in this OP, at least, omit certain details.

I was seeing a girl last year and when that finished I happened to meet a friend of hers on here. We chatted briefly.

Then, months later, I decided to contact her on Facebook. No reply there but by some weird coincidence she contacted me on here the same day.

I met her a few times and then I met a friend of hers, who claimed to not know that I had been seeing the original one that I met.

I had been checking her Facebook since it ended with her because I never got a proper dumping and she had problems and I was worried about her. So, she posted that she was now in a relationship with someone that has the same first name as the one that I've become friendly with now.

I thought that it was just a coincidence but the other day she was quite upset because she ran over a dog and she told me that she had run over a swan last year. Thing is, there was a post about hitting a swan in "our car" on that facebook.

It gets even weirder. Her telling me about the swan made me check the original girl's Facebook again and now she's saying that she's engaged to someone that apparently doesn't have the same first name as before but it's the same name as her dog And the dog has an unusual name.

if i were the guy, (with the unusual dog name) i would never come out of the house as long as she was behind the wheel.

OOOOkay, I'm confused, but dam glad I'm not a swan.

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So, she married her dead dog named Swan? I wonder if she had an insurance policy out on him. hhhmmm...

I thought 'mystery' as in like supernatural. Seems like your 'mystery girl' is a psycho. Or you just cant get enough of her.

Humm not sure if I got this right, you have been stalking the ex on facebook to see what she is doing out of concern? First she post that she is in a relationship with someone then shortly after she post she is engaged but now to a different guy?

Hummm could be for attention only and none of it true.. Or she moves on from bf to bf really quick...

But then I would have to question why are you checking out her facebook unless you oblivious have a bit of attraction to her still..

Well, I was checking her Facebook for a while after she stopped calling me but hadn't done that for months and am honestly over her.

It's not another guy. When she posted on Facebook about being in a relationship she said that she's with someone that has a girl's name and it's the same name as the one that is friendly with me now.

I asked her about it but she denied that it's her and told me that she's a hundred percent straight.

So, I'm not bothered about the ex but was only looking at her Facebook again because of the swan story.

It's the girl that I've been getting to know recently that I'm interested in and I'm not bothered if the one from last year has moved on. I'm just a bit confused about the weird coincidences and now the Facebook one is declaring on there that she's engaged to a female that has the same name as the girl that I likes dog. It's Facebook and for all I know the dog name could be a nickname or alius or something but it is a weird coincidence.

And yes, the Facebook one has a habit of going from relationship to relationship and may be a bit of a fantasist or nutcase but the Facebook engagement anouncement looks genuine and the post got a bunch of replies.

Seems to me, the facebook girl has a crush on your current gf and posting all sorts of fantasy stuff from her discussions with your current gf. I don't know if I'd advise your current gf to stay away from her, but it definitely sounds like everyone involved should do that. I see trouble brewing there.

Ohh okay well was a bit confused the way you worded it or maybe just I did not understand it... Humm but I would wonder as you what she is posting... But if the one you are with now has no problem with her friend posting that... humm that would make me wonder what was up... I mean if it was me and someone I called a friend posted false stuff about me even if joking. They most likely would no longer be a friend and I would be furious.. If I had to explain something of that nature...

Facebook = virtual...digital...online...are you getting what I'm saying? NONE of this is IRL. If you are attracted to this 2nd woman then pursue whatever with her. If she is not correct you'll find out soon enough based on her REAL LIFE behaviors. Good luck.

That's possible. I don't even know if my current lady friend goes on Facebook but it is weird that the new fiance has the same name as her dog. Also, in one of the congratulatory posts for the engagement a guy said something about how she was keeping that quiet and apparently called her by the first three letters of my current lady friends name, which, as I said, was the name of the person that she had previously posted about being with and is the name of my new friend.

But anyway, yes, I was thinking about talking to her about it and saying that the Facebook girl had been saying on Facebook that they were in a relationship and broach it that way but I just haven't really been able to know what to believe, even though until she told me about hitting that swan I wasn't suspicious and she really doesn't seem like a liar.

That's what separates the good liars from the bad. Have you actually met the others? They could all be the same person, which is what it sounds like to me.

Oh wait, maybe both the original and her friend are in on it! Since you dated them both they're playing some sort of psych game on you.

The plot sickens...

I've met the original girl that I met on here last year and also a friend of hers that was also on here. The second girl introduced me to the one that I'm friendly with now and I've also met another woman that's a friend of hers. That's when it gets even weirder because this other friend also has a dog and there's someone on that Facebook that has the same first name as the friend and also someone else that has the same surname but the first name is the same as the friend's dog.

I'm honestly not making this up.

How many hits of acid did you lick prior to this encounter?

hi TS,
when I first read your post I did wonder if you were asking yourself if the girls swing both ways.
but I do have to say I agree with mini1x.
women (and guys on here) do talk to each other. I can tell you, from my early interactions here on only the forums, I found out that some women feel proprietary about men. I would respond to something in the forums and get inboxed by some woman (one in particular) who said in case you don't know, that man is taken.

I can tell you for a while my best friend had her own account on here. there were guys who were trying to sweet talk her and me at the same time. so far as to set up a date with her one weekend and me the next weekend. we decided we were both going to show up for hers and act like we got our days mixed up.
the guy never showed so we enjoyed our 'date' with each other.
so I do think that someone could be trying to mess with you.

None.

Thanks folks for all of your responses to this thread and I apologise for not responding to them more promptly when I will give a bit more thought to what you're saying than I had to do with this post. So, please don't think that my replying to this particular epistle has anything to do with favouritism.

I'm glad, cause I just cut some...

I think I watched too many american soapies back in the 70s because all I read was something like you married the girl you didn't really like who was secretly your cousin but later it turned out she was your mother just before it was finally revealed at the season cliffhanger that you had a sex change prior to a car crash which left you in a coma with no memory of your past and in fact, you are your mother's sister.