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Topic: casual thing
clairetaire's photo
Wed 12/17/14 04:16 AM
why most people just want casual relationship.. what do you think guys?? i just want to know it

Leeraa's photo
Wed 12/17/14 04:55 AM
the reason why people want casual relationship its because they are scared of commitment people want all the benefits that you will find in a relationship but dont want to be in a relationship, i think thats selfis

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Wed 12/17/14 05:01 AM
Because they are insecure.. I guess..

panchovanilla's photo
Wed 12/17/14 05:44 AM
Edited by panchovanilla on Wed 12/17/14 05:47 AM
For the same reason that people will buy anything
that is touted as being instant.
Also, same reason people constantly whine for faster internet.

I personally just like the word 'casual'.
Kinda rolls off the tongue.:wink: laugh

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 12/17/14 05:51 AM

why most people just want casual relationship.. what do you think guys?? i just want to know it


I don't know about "most" people, because I have never met over half of the 6 billion Humans now living on planet Earth.

However, plenty of male Humans just want a casual relationship because they don't want to get married, and they don't want to pay for a prostitute.

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Wed 12/17/14 06:49 AM


why most people just want casual relationship.. what do you think guys?? i just want to know it


I don't know about "most" people, because I have never met over half of the 6 billion Humans now living on planet Earth.

However, plenty of male Humans just want a casual relationship because they don't want to get married, and they don't want to pay for a prostitute.


I totally agree!

mysticalview21's photo
Wed 12/17/14 10:41 AM

why most people just want casual relationship.. what do you think guys?? i just want to know it




many reasons op ... some can be selfish ... some just want the milk and not the whole cow ... fwb has come along and made it ok to not want to be tied down to one person ... these are just to name a few ...

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Wed 12/17/14 10:48 AM


why most people just want casual relationship.. what do you think guys?? i just want to know it


I don't know about "most" people, because I have never met over half of the 6 billion Humans now living on planet Earth.

However, plenty of male Humans just want a casual relationship because they don't want to get married, and they don't want to pay for a prostitute.

Fact

Duttoneer's photo
Wed 12/17/14 01:41 PM

why most people just want casual relationship.. what do you think guys?? i just want to know it


I think it is true to say most people start off a relationship in a casual way, because until you get to know someone you don't know how it's going to pan out. Either you or them could find you don't want to date anymore after only one or two dates. If you both want to continue dating then a relationship developes, and how serious it becomes is only established after some time, when you both need to be honest with each other on where you want the relationship to go. This is just my opinion.

Welcome to Mingle2.


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Wed 12/17/14 01:51 PM

why most people just want casual relationship.. what do you think guys?? i just want to know it





if i'm really into someone i would have a relationship with her and commit myself 100%....committing is not difficult.....finding a woman that committs is kinda hard i guess

mikey5360's photo
Wed 12/17/14 01:58 PM

why most people just want casual relationship.. what do you think guys?? i just want to know it
If you search here diligently you find plenty of guys that are seeking permanent.....many gems amongst the rocks.....good luck....drinker

Goofball73's photo
Wed 12/17/14 03:46 PM

why most people just want casual relationship.. what do you think guys?? i just want to know it


The other day my shrink told me that most people want the casual thing because divorce rates are high. Affairs are rampant these days. And as she got dressed after our one night a week sexcapade........noway :tongue: laugh

HoneyFly's photo
Wed 12/17/14 03:51 PM
:laughing: ^

HoneyFly's photo
Wed 12/17/14 03:53 PM
Thats so "casual" thing to say.

Awatersign's photo
Thu 12/18/14 04:01 PM
There're a couple of reasons;a guy may just be a player,a woman may just be a "gold digger",and then some people have changed after relationships went wrong, so they don't care for all that drama ECT,and you also have like ,sex freaks,(hardly any emotional feelings ECT),they just love sex and more sex,these are some the people that don't care for any commitment!!!

Ladylavs's photo
Thu 12/18/14 11:38 PM
I think people have always wanted casual relationships, its just more accepted now in society. So it's more out in the open. It's like getting samples at a food place, you get to try it, taste it, and enjoy it without purchasing. And if you don't like it spit it out and move on no lost.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 12/19/14 07:32 AM
A lot of good answers have been given...

Also, you (the OP) are still very young and men your age probably aren't ready to settle down just yet.

I also think that ppl who have been in 1 or more LTR are more afraid to commit again, and I actually think a lot of men don't really work through past relationships. (yes, there will be women who don't either, I know. But in general woman do)

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Fri 12/19/14 11:03 AM
People these days just want the whole buffet. They don't pay any notice that the meal before them is probably the best cuisine. Then when they walk out on the tasty meal, they are nearly forever trapped in the buffet line, always seeking something better that is not on the hotplate.

Dig in or savor, the choice is up to you.
I prefer to savor, cause the next meal ahead may just be dumpster leftovers.

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Fri 12/19/14 11:28 AM

I also think that ppl who have been in 1 or more LTR are more afraid to commit again, and I actually think a lot of men don't really work through past relationships. (yes, there will be women who don't either, I know. But in general woman do)


Yeah that's because we don't believe crying makes you weak.

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Fri 12/19/14 11:36 AM

the reason why people want casual relationship its because they are scared of commitment people want all the benefits that you will find in a relationship but dont want to be in a relationship, i think thats selfis
People are free to do whatever they want though? Sometimes they just work a lot and that's what suits their needs, or they can just be wary of being hurt again. If two people agree to this at the start, then one of them wants more they knew the pitfalls from the beginning!

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