It also says " sercetcy & confidentiality expected & required " on the profile.
& with the " age is just a number " thing, & " playing ".... How YOUNG are you talking about Poppy ?

* Thread from December 15, 2014*

I'm an older guy and finding fewer guys answering my messages i'v been looking for new friends for chatting and what ever else might occur looking for guys local Harrisburg, Carlisle and dillsburg areas also nearby areas

Another words
Your "playing" on your wife.
Are there any takers for this Medical Profess-ional?

Been there done that....been married twice in my life not looking for a third been on my own for the last ten years...absolutely not a problem...certainly don't need a woman to look after me...yet a woman to walk by my side and share some interesting conversation with and just be really good friends would be awesome!!

What was the question? Oh yes, age is normally represented numerically. Should it be an important number? How does one rate the number of years of age? With a number? Personally i just go with the color green

What was the question? Oh yes, age is normally represented numerically. Should it be an important number? How does one rate the number of years of age? With a number? Personally i just go with the color green

I've been annoyed with the "age is just a number" chant/bumper sticker since the first time I started hearing it.

Sorry to all you folks trying to cheer yourselves and each other up.

What annoys me about the TALK about this, is that 95% of the time, it comes from people in denial, or people on the make, trying to excuse themselves chasing children.

No, just because in times past, Hollywood and other story tellers promoted the idea that everyone over forty becomes a right wing stick in the mud, and loses all ability to even appear to have a gender, doesn't mean our generation has to go into some kind of drug-supported mania.

Don't misunderstand, I'm not trying to throw old dishwater on anyone's positive- thinking. I'm trying to pound the table in favor of REALITY.

Age is meaningful. Every moment of my life has brought me to right now. Every experience I've been through have been a great cost to me, and have enriched me even when they injured my soul.

There are things I can do at 62 that I couldn't do before. There are things which are entirely inappropriate for me to attempt, just as there are things which a younger person has no call to try, and which they can't understand are actually insults or attacks on the people who they want to pretend are "just a number" older than they are. And there are things I can't do anymore, because my body wont repair itself as well as it used to.

More than anything else, there are shades and ideas and insights on the world that I have gained only because I am this old, and which make me a different enough person from those who haven't experienced what I have, too different for us to be more than friends.

So no, age is NOT just a number, not in any way shape or form. For me, pretending otherwise means denying myself, and I wont do that again.

I for some reason can not be a cougar ... I am looking for a mature man with humor ... but as they say... to each their own ...

I believe on the saying that age is a number because you as old as your mind.

I agree with you, age is not just a number. With me though each year that passes mortality becomes more intimate; not so much how much time has passed but what can i do with the time that's left? I may never be able to now accomplish all the things I've desired to do, but if it's in my capacity/ capability i'm gonna do it, age appropriate or not. It just sucks to do it alone

I'm 61 she is 34 I'm happy she happy we are having the time of our lives most peaceful fun relationship I've ever had

Since I won't date anyone that are the same age as my kids I only date women older than 41...............




and younger than 37.

my brain thinks iam 45, but my body reminds me iam 66.

Sorry, I disagree. Age is more than a number. For me, I prefer being with someone around my own age. That's because of our shared historical experiences such as the Beatles coming to America or the first moon landing. Our generation enjoyed the same music, expressions, and often the same POV. At times, when I'm with younger people, they'll say something and I won't have a clue what they're talking about. It's that generational gap. It has nothing to do with how active one is or how "young" one feels. I'll take a sexy woman around my own age any day.

I don't have any issue with being late 50's the problem is, I literally still feel 35, still race cars, still ride a sport bike, still in good shape, I need a 50 y.o. women that still feels 35!!!!

Age is just a number? 21 is an adult but no way would I date a guy who is 21. To me, that is a kid. For me, I feel like I'm in my 20's. but I'm not going there. I have mostly been dating guys in their 50's and 60's. I'd like to date closer to my age.

Attitude does matter a lot, but age is not just a number. I find it insulting that people can easily minimize the experiences and knowledge that only comes with age.

Late forty but I won't mind

Hello and how are you doing?