Why don't men find excitement in love? They only get excited about sex with the latest thing?

How do you define "love"?

I may or may not find excitement through it depending on your personal definition.

I think you're talking through your own experiences with men? We're all different though, so it would be nice to stop tarring us all with the same brush?

To me theres nothing more exciting then love, for when oneself finds its better half and true love, life can be so beautiful and worth living each second

I think you might be right...Both men and women experience excitement in finding and falling in love and EVERYONE expresses it in their own unique way...

I believe thatmen do find excitement in love, some women don't realize that men just have a different way of expressing love and they tend to be selfish whenit comes to love,women are the nuturers men are the protector and provider, for a woman to give a man the love and respect for being the man then yes the man will become excited . We all need to be adored ,men need it more

Sunday morning coffee with a side of broad sweeping generalization.

I'll show my excitement...next time.

Why don't men find excitement in love? They only get excited about sex with the latest thing?


Wow!!! That is such a sad comment. It has not been my experience at all. You must be choosing the wrong men. Changing your belief system is a good idea and perhaps not viewing males as the enemy could be the first step...

The thing is...we aren't always real demonstrative
of our emotions.

For example, women are looking for a serious relationship with men here and they have complained that they can't find it.

the words '' Drama queens'' come to mind





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A song from long ago! "Looking For Love in all the Wrong Places" May explain some! Then a old saying, You only get what you are willing to give in return!! Most (women & men) go into a relationship only to be sure there is an excusable easy way out! A safety net? Hurt before you get hurt? Never Give that extra emotions! Just some!! Then only one goes in a relationship only to be shot down by the other? If this is what they want then why involve anothers emotions? Just Saying? Just my opinion anyhow!

A one sided coin gives you the same answers every time!!Especially if that's the only answer you want anyway?

I was just wondering. It seems like men don't want love they talk here about wanting sex and a sandwich. I'm not being a drama queen just noticed something.

Why? Can't you have sex and a sandwich at the same time? A panini on the job,suits me fine!!

oops double post!