You look through profiles, single out the ones that meet your criteria and also meet their requirements and what they are looking for, write them a message and wait, you either get no reply, or a message saying they previewed your profile! Then nothing....later on you find them saying they cant find no good men! I can only conclude that women dont actually have a clue what they want and what they describe they want is not what they want at all! Some of them set their standards way too high cos some of the men are far to good for them to begin with yet natural selection is still left to the woman regardless of looks? Do you think nature is choosing or social conditioning is at play here!

I don't know about all that "nature / social conditioning stuff.

I just think they don't like what they see.. so they don't respond..

Uh, try creating an actual profile first, one that others will want to respond to.

Yaaaaa....hard to figure.
I don't understand why women aren't interested, when a guy says nothing about himself,
except that he's looking to get laid.
I guess women aren't into mysterious, horny men, any more.
World is going to hell in a hand basket.

Hmmm.. you may be right?.. plus you throw in that " come and get it" pose and bingo... no dice

You know I don't usually get involved in topics like this but this time I couldn't refrain, for two reasons.
One is I totally agree with you Mr Pancho.
The very fact that he has 69 in his name say's it all.

Come on, Give it a chance!! 3 posts ? There are Good People here! To have a Friend you need to be One!! Join in more (Positively)!! Negative we have all heard! Hearts are Open and Minds!

I agree Joe,it's embarrassing

you have to put yourself out there IF you want serious women to respond.. I totally agree with the other posters here.. in that, tell a girl something about yourself to actually be attracted to, as "Hi" just won't cut it.. personally, the "intimate encounter" is a turn off.. many GOOD women are looking for someone for a relationship.. not a one night stand!

welcome to mingle2.. good luck!

Well, Mr. Pompey69, who was born - NOT in 1969 - but in 1980, I cannot for the life of me fathom why you are not getting positive responses.


I hope the women snap out of it soon, climb down off their high-horses and develop some sort of clue as to what it is they want AND learn to recognize A Good Man when one arrives.


Hope your online luck changes, soon!

it all boils down to puberty.

smiles

welcome

I met my Partner here at Mingle. We live happily for 4,5 years. Despite of his sickness I took good care of him until his last breath. I believe you can find your ideal partner here. I am single since May this year. Still lonely knowing he passed away as terminal cancer patient. He is still in my heart until now. I have to move on but time can only tell, Goodluck everyone to find your lifetime partner at Mingle. Just be serious when you really find one.

Not all are looking to get laid like you and by the way you have nothing about yourself on your profile except you want an intimate encounter! Good luck on that one!

I agree. Thats what i do.

yes fakekes are like virus.sometime we are badly discouraged because of fake ones

I know so many fake people.. I can hardly tell the real ones from the fake ones....hmm.. I am starting to believe.. I'm a fake person.. wait a minute!!!.. I am real right...omg...
I'm starting to freak out a little bit..
am I fake or am i real...ohhhh.noooooo....lol

it has nothing to do with looks it is what is in the heart that matters and you are not showing anything that a woman is interested in, fix your profile and don't lie.

I can't believe the complaints about what someone is catching when they are fishing with no bait!

Aren't there any low standard hookers in your part of the country OP?

If not, he should visit my area, there's plenty to choose from here. He might want to wait until it warms up a little, as he may have to thaw them out before he can do anything with them right now.