Topic: board in love
timt4169's photo
Sat 11/15/14 12:47 PM
Do you love somebody and it seems like over time you still love this person but some things in the relationship are so repeetive and tedious that you just want to see whats on the other side of the fence ? I know the grass in green over here but sometimes I just want a sandy beach, or a nice garden, you know something different! Sne dont want or even care to change it up, be spontaneous because she say she aint a teenager anymore but im not 80 either! Does anybody feel this way? :smile:

dreamerana's photo
Sat 11/15/14 12:53 PM
nope. not at all.
when I am in a relationship I value the person, the love and the relationship itself.

if the person in my life wants change, that means im not what he needs or wants.

therefore, he is free to leave and find what makes him happy.

no photo
Sat 11/15/14 12:59 PM
Nope. Sounds like you are wavering opie. Make a choice before you cheat. Commitment with love is not about looking for green grass before you get out. It does take work.

Rock's photo
Sat 11/15/14 01:00 PM
Only boring people get bored.
Don't blame your partner for how boring you are. Blame yourself.

Sounds like you're making excuses to justify cheating.

no photo
Sat 11/15/14 01:14 PM

Do you love somebody and it seems like over time you still love this person but some things in the relationship are so repeetive and tedious that you just want to see whats on the other side of the fence ? I know the grass in green over here but sometimes I just want a sandy beach, or a nice garden, you know something different! Sne dont want or even care to change it up, be spontaneous because she say she aint a teenager anymore but im not 80 either! Does anybody feel this way? :smile:






No I have never felt that way and never will.....why get into a relationship If you know you want other things?

soufiehere's photo
Sat 11/15/14 01:46 PM

Do you love somebody and it seems like over time you still love this person but some things in the relationship are so repeetive and tedious that you just want to see whats on the other side of the fence ? I know the grass in green over here but sometimes I just want a sandy beach, or a nice garden, you know something different! Sne dont want or even care to change it up, be spontaneous because she say she aint a teenager anymore but im not 80 either! Does anybody feel this way? :smile:

No.
Take a vacation.
Without her..so she can enjoy it too.

Angeltripping17's photo
Sat 11/15/14 02:44 PM
Sounds like you need to have a chat with your lady and tell her how you feel. It might not be pretty but you will let it all out. Good luck

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 11/15/14 04:54 PM
Yeah, and treat her like she's special, not only when you want sex. If you change how you treat her and behave around her, she might feel better about it all as well. I mean... as if a woman doesn't feel her man has a wandering eye .. and desire .. Does NOT help your case.