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mistyscott Joined Wed 09/24/14 Posts: 7	Sat 11/08/14 12:41 AM
why cant peoplee be bothered to reply to introduction messages it dosnt take much to say sorry not interested

Argo Joined Mon 11/11/13 Posts: 12416	Sat 11/08/14 12:45 AM
translation helper..............no reply = sorry, not interested....

1860Susan Joined Wed 10/29/14 Posts: 29	Sat 11/08/14 07:14 AM
You know I do reply to most all mail. Not to all nudges, but to all mail. The only time I don't is if they seem rude or crude. I hope more do respond than not for you. But it is true no response does = no thanks. Best of luck to you.

mrld_ii Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 1410	Sat 11/08/14 07:21 AM
Personally, I don't reply - or even read - private introductory messages that I receive. I figure if they can't be bothered to read my profile, why should I bother to read their private message? It's a goose/gander thing, with me...so if it's rude for ME not to reply, then I'm just kinda following their lead.

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Sat 11/08/14 07:23 AM
i think you need to put yourself in a ladies shoes and think about how many messages they must get. especially from our ethnic cousins, no wonder they don't answer them all. i wouldn't take it too personally

MK2 Joined Sat 07/05/14 Posts: 1540	Sat 11/08/14 07:30 AM
<----------------- meet the man who never message mrld_ii

mrld_ii Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 1410	Sat 11/08/14 07:37 AM
<----------------- meet the man who never message mrld_ii You should start a movement for similarly-minded chaps and make all of 'em pinky-swear to follow your stellar lead.

MK2 Joined Sat 07/05/14 Posts: 1540	Sat 11/08/14 07:41 AM
<----------------- meet the man who never message mrld_ii You should start a movement for similarly-minded chaps and make all of 'em pinky-swear to follow your stellar lead. I heard you are burning everyone is approaching you. TO HOT TO HANDLE

mrld_ii Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 1410	Sat 11/08/14 07:47 AM
I heard you are burning everyone is approaching you. TO HOT TO HANDLE Oh, gosh...if that's the ONLY thing you've heard about me, then they don't like you enough to fill you in on the whole EGADs Truth about me. But, since it MUST be true because you saw it on the internet, why - exactly - are people "approaching" me? It's almost like they want to get "burned", no? A tad bit masochistic, if you ask me.

fleta_n_mach Joined Tue 06/24/14 Posts: 3509	Sat 11/08/14 07:52 AM
^^^It's her job. It has specific outlined rules of engagement.

mrld_ii Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 1410	Sat 11/08/14 07:56 AM
^^^It's her job. It has specific outlined rules of engagement. It MUST be my job. They keep giving me raises whenever I do it.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Sat 11/08/14 08:06 AM
why cant peoplee be bothered to reply to introduction messages it dosnt take much to say sorry not interested when people say sorry not interested, the other person wants an explanation. or tries to convince me about why I should consider them instead of the person im already talking to. there are some that get downright obnoxious. besides I figure most guys are at least smart enough to figure out that no reply means no interest.

MK2 Joined Sat 07/05/14 Posts: 1540	Sat 11/08/14 08:12 AM
I heard you are burning everyone is approaching you. TO HOT TO HANDLE Oh, gosh...if that's the ONLY thing you've heard about me, then they don't like you enough to fill you in on the whole EGADs Truth about me. But, since it MUST be true because you saw it on the internet, why - exactly - are people "approaching" me? It's almost like they want to get "burned", no? A tad bit masochistic, if you ask me. mmmm. dominate too now I know why? we both are, wondering who is going to submissive

mrld_ii Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 1410	Sat 11/08/14 08:17 AM
I heard you are burning everyone is approaching you. TO HOT TO HANDLE Oh, gosh...if that's the ONLY thing you've heard about me, then they don't like you enough to fill you in on the whole EGADs Truth about me. But, since it MUST be true because you saw it on the internet, why - exactly - are people "approaching" me? It's almost like they want to get "burned", no? A tad bit masochistic, if you ask me. mmmm. dominate too now I know why? we both are, wondering who is going to submissive Oh. I win, then. I haven't even spent even a nanosecond wondering who between us would be the submissive one.

MK2 Joined Sat 07/05/14 Posts: 1540	Sat 11/08/14 08:19 AM
I know you always a winner I'm staying out of trouble

mrld_ii Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 1410	Sat 11/08/14 08:22 AM
... I'm staying out of trouble It's a little late for a public change in course now, doncha think?

MK2 Joined Sat 07/05/14 Posts: 1540	Sat 11/08/14 08:23 AM
ouch what a very excited way to die

mrld_ii Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 1410	Sat 11/08/14 08:41 AM
ouch what a very excited way to die It's posts like this that lead me to the conclusion you're not half as "dominate" as you believe yourself to be. Best of luck in your search for the sub you deserve.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45426	Sat 11/08/14 10:51 AM
translation helper..............no reply = sorry, not interested.... Indeed. OP should get 200 emails a day and try to reply to them all.

stan_147 Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 3444	Sat 11/08/14 11:25 AM
Awe c'mon, y'all are ruining OP's chances to get a 10,000 word essay on just why he is not someone's type.