Topic: LOVE is EVOL
RockGawd's photo
Sun 09/28/14 12:16 PM
What is a person supose to do when they begin to lose faith in the whole LOVE game?? Im startin to believe that love is a myth, love is a fairy tale thats only found in the childrens books of lore. I thought i had a grasp of what the whole concept of love really was until i found that one person that twisted my thoughts around. Now im on my own tryna do my own thing n tryna make life better for myself and my daughter. Im always workin hard n gonna start school here soon n thats all for the future n a better life for us all lol

mrld_ii's photo
Sun 09/28/14 12:27 PM
"LOVE is EVOL"ving?!?


I like that!!! How true!!!


drinker

Datwasntme's photo
Sun 09/28/14 12:28 PM
well maybe instead of poor me
you could look at it in more of a possative setting
as least since you found the other person was a waist of your time you can now put your time in to school and your daughter
<shrug>
just saying




best wishes on your hunt

soufiehere's photo
Sun 09/28/14 12:29 PM
Easy peasy..you learn from it.
You use what you have learned as a guide.
Bitterness is a killer.
It will diminish you eventually.

You are wiser now, take the time to allow
yourself to mourn, adjust and move on.

What is out there waiting for you may be the
best thing in your life.
Ever.

metalwing's photo
Sun 09/28/14 12:34 PM
Be patient. Make the right moves (it won't happen while you are watching TV). Be active, some meet on Mingle2 forums, some walking dogs at the park. You never know. Join a club, people know people.


Goofball73's photo
Sun 09/28/14 12:40 PM
When you lose faith in love then turn to hookers. They love you long time.

dreamerana's photo
Sun 09/28/14 01:05 PM

What is a person supose to do when they begin to lose faith in the whole LOVE game?? Im startin to believe that love is a myth, love is a fairy tale thats only found in the childrens books of lore. I thought i had a grasp of what the whole concept of love really was until i found that one person that twisted my thoughts around. Now im on my own tryna do my own thing n tryna make life better for myself and my daughter. Im always workin hard n gonna start school here soon n thats all for the future n a better life for us all lol

it could be that I'm confused. your profile and this post seem to contradict each other a bit.
in either case, many of us have learned what it is to lose in love. what you learn from it makes you stronger. good for you that you are going to school and focusing on a better future for you and your daughter.
it shows you have your priorities straight.
love will come when it's meant to be. just don't close yourself off to the possibility.

Rock's photo
Sun 09/28/14 01:22 PM
I never suspected that a "gawd" would thrive in self pity.

Counseling, and therapy may be beneficial for you.

Best of luck.

RockGawd's photo
Sun 09/28/14 01:28 PM
Truu

stan_147's photo
Sun 09/28/14 01:40 PM

I never suspected that a "gawd" would thrive in self pity.

Counseling, and therapy may be beneficial for you.

Best of luck.


I'm going with this ^^^

OP, after seeing your just deleted "Nice Guy" thread, seriously, Sierra Tango Foxtrot Union!! You're not doing yourself any favors putting it out there on the global stage. Seek some counseling, a family friend, older mentor or a professional, talk to someone that you trust. The first step to getting help is asking for it. Talking about what is bothering you to someone else (not internet strangers) is a good way for you to see it from another perspective, listen to the advice and work on yourself. Remember, all problems are temporary in nature, you just haven't figured out the solution, yet.

Best of luck.

no photo
Sun 09/28/14 02:04 PM
You just listen to Sonic Youth until a girl starts dancing with you.