I can now see why so many people leave these boards. FAR too much judgment from people who don't even know me.

This is a place to discuse our opinions.
All of us have different opinions and have a right to
voice them. Sometimes we do not allways like what others
say- but that is life...

Stay or take a brake and come back...

JaymeStephens84a0lc

i understand and am on the verge of leaving as well

put it matters not

things will go on regardless

MzTeddy said it right..I suggest taking a break, we all do from time to time

this place is awful hard to leave jayme trust me

i have had people tell me i was wrong when i have posted before--i do not consider them mean, just giving their opinions and i asked for it. if i wanted to hear that i was right i would have asked only the people i knew would tell me what i wanted to hear, but i wanted the truth. does not make me wrong or them either.

i have found this place absolutley wonderful so many people have helped me out and i keep meeting wonderful people

tho a lil boring at times,i think its a great site to meet new people and share thoughts and ideas

dont let a few ppl drag you down

theres mean people everywhere

you cant run everytime someone makes you upset

Honestly, everyone posts their own opinion. Some people are rude, inconsiderate, and hostile in the sharing, but the JSH community does a pretty good job of getting rid of them!
I agree. Take a break. Think things over a little. If you want to leave, leave. If not, ignore the negatives and focus on the positives! It really helps... in everything!

okay-- i think she is classifing me as mean, however everyone that knows me--knows that is not me...i am the first to say i am sorry and to be as sweet as i can, but i am going to tell someone that i think is making a mistake just that and allow them to think it through!!

every body has their own views and thats what makes each person differant they and you are allowedsuch but do not get upset because somebodys views differ from your owni read things here i do not like i respone not attacking no one just freely expressing my view and they can agree or disagree i do not really care,as long as its not my personal problem smile relax we,re all just friends and god loves me just as he does you no more no less

Im new to these boards, but I do know, if you let what people say about you or how they judge you, bother you, then you really arent ready for life. I used to worry about what others thought, but I realized, that usually the people that have the most to say about others are the people that are screwed up worse than anyone else. They are sometimes jealous or they just dont want any attention brought to them because they know they have it worse than you. I dont know if I am wording this right, but the point im making is: Be yourself, dont let anyone change that. You are unique in your own way. If you have made mistakes in your life, Oh ******* well. If people cant accept you for who you are, then you dont need them in your life. If someone on here is making you feel bad, stop talking to them, ignore them, do whatever it takes to make the hurt go away. I dont know any of you, but I can tell from just reading the boards that you all have a bond that is rare to find alot. But you have to be able to take the critizism, or everything that you have become will be for nothing. And its not like you can just stop and start over. Ive tried it. Ive moved away, made ew friends and so on. Once I was settled and made new friends and co workers, my TRUE SELF once again resurfaced and it was exactly the same as it was before when I was misserable. Life is like a game. Remember, Dont hate the player...Hate the game. Dont be upset with yourself and dont be upset with others for speaking their minds. Its all part of life. If you are having a problem and you want to talk to someone about it, just to vent or just talk, Im here and im sure that you have made yourself some friends here that would be willing to talk to you. Smile, its a new day...be thankful that you are here and not somewhere else.

Well, I tried, but jaymiestephens left...All we can do is try

Everyone is entitled to their opinions whether right or wrong...

look at it this....everybody lays it out on the table, then you can take what advise is offered and leave the rest....or leave it all on the table. That is up to you.

i mean wut is she gonna do run away from everyone with a different opinion from her?

eh f*ck it... I'm addicted to this crap.

((((((JAYME)))))))))) I came back because I missed my friends on here, they help me get through the down times. That is what friends do, take a break like I did, just don't do like I did an deactivate...........

HAHA, I did deactivate for like... 12 hours or so....lmao. I HAD to come back to tell all the really great people that my boyfriend and I are officially trying to conceive!! Wish me luck and lots of baby dust!!