now many are here for their friends and forums ...that have been on a while... but why not tell everyone... if you are taken ... or only have eyes for 1 ... no names... just a I only have eyes for you ... now some have already ... and its fun in the forums ... but do you only have eyes for 1 in particular or many ... lol

It doesn't matter who I have eyes for, because they all live too far away from me.

i changed my proflie a while back

off the market for dating
but i don't mind chatting to people
making friends , etc etc etc

Ahhhhh, my secret is out.....I only have eyes for one and I think you all know who she is.....hehe.

I agree op some on here need to tell that they are taken....and why are they here then?....

I just read yours ...so cool ...
and congrats and to the others also ...

well it does make a different even if they are not near you ... you can only have eyes for one ... or many ... but then really don't believe someone will be that honest to say many cause it might wreck what they have going on in here ... called jealously...
can understand why some would not want to ... might just cause a fight between friends ...

i am just here for the forums and the cool people : )

Sooooooo.. many..
Soooooooo... little time..

I'm here for the forums and friends, I've updated my profile a while ago.

thanks... I don't go into many profiles ... and wow ...where are the women ...

Ever since joining the forums,I've really cared less about the dating ECT,but haven't ruled it out though,I'm a litter more focused on the people I can actually see,or just of site,but the forums is the $&#t,I'm happy with that for now I guess!

Ditto.

Humm why am I here? Well I came to this site only cause I wanted a place I could get into some forums and talk.... I have actually met a few from here for a meet to get to know them...But....have not found that one that holds my interest yet...

In the past I even flew to meet one of them.. But now it is local or nothing...

Of course I was soon addicted to the site... I have seen many come and go. In the long run I have been to several meets even holding one at my house... And many of those I met within the meets we all keep in touch per this site and still get together when we all can arrange a meet. Since we are spread out across Texas those meets are not as often as we would like them to be....

As of right now I'm single not really looking but up for grabs if I find the right one.... but they must have a sense of humor... And live local at least no more then 30 minutes away..

My eyes s everywhere here n the forum...my eyes s n everybody whos n here..I love mingling with the people here n the forum specially to some of my closest friends here...but my heart and attention s focused to only one person..and everybody knows it I guessed..

I was gone, from at least 2009, until a few months ago.
Up until last year, I was very taken.

I'm back, and single.

Hello all, coincidentally today I was wondering about this. Truth of the matter is that I have had ALL good experiences in my interactions on this site, So what risks of emotional self-harm do I run if I cut myself off from the positive, life-affirming 'connections' that i have made??

What about the aspects of self that take bloom in this arena. Does finding a special one dictate the stunting of these green shoots of new self-discoveries?

Aren't these questions/issues that we face "offline" anyway?

As I said these questions, in the context of the site, are newly surfaced ones for me, so the depths to which I will dive to find my own truth are yet unknown. But I sure as hell will learn a lot finding out.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Regards

dreadaye

PS: Are we actually discussing here about how 'real' we are being?

I feel like I'm really close to someone here, but I come here to giggle at the memes and jokes, too. There's a lot of funny people here, and I enjoy that. I wouldn't be here if it wasn't entertaining for me. The site is actually called Mingle, so isn't that what we do?

I signed up thinking I was looking for someone special. That seems pretty unlikely as most who contact me are far away or Catfish! So I changed my profile and now I pretty much just hang out in the forums, play a few of the games and enjoy some laughs.
Most of the guys in the forums are too young for me anyways but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy their sense of humour or shenanigans (the ladies too). It whiles away the spare hours and I hope to make a few good friends.
Plus it is always nice to hear when there is a happy ending...(You know what I mean. )

I have eyes for no one :( Wish I did though...

Oh wait..I have eyes for the guy I saw today at lunch, sitting on the bench across from me in the park! He was cute..and a bird pooped on him....so adorable.

I'm here for the free beer.

I stole the case of Reese's