I have found that relationships are not easy to find and even harder to make them work and pass the test of time. It takes time for two people with completely different backgrounds to become one unit. A true relationship is just that...one unit...that is what I am searching for...a person willing to invest the time that is necessary to build a lasting relationship.

Life is complicated enough, but in order to truly build a relationship. Both parties must be willing to respect their partners point of view and be willing to compromise on each others decisions.

It is my belief that only a monogamous relationship between two people can withstand the pressures that exist when building the relationship. Trust and honesty are a must.

True, monogamous relationships are the only ones that will last. If it's not monogamous, it's not a relationship. It's excused cheating so the other can do the same without negative effects.

Did you say you're looking for one unit?

Thank you for your story, you must meditate on this.

Welcome and good luck with that

RELATIONSHIPS, to recycle FAVORITE FEELINGS and emotions ( like anger,sadness,happiness and glad ) and validate our BELIEF SYSTEM --- every action a person takes is for those two reasons--- thats why people use DRAMA the problem is all three parts the rescuer, perpetrator,and the victim always end up in the victim position ( most have a starting gate position and a justification ) --- the answer is SELF AWARENESS--- SEEING OUR PART-- its not not easy because when we decide to give up a negative favorite feeling it must be replaced with another--Frits Pearls called it the fertile void---good luck with your relationships---

Welcome and good luck

P.S. what really makes relationships so difficult is that we bring to the table hidden agendas about ourselves which is part of what i first talked about its hidden even to ourselves thats why i said its so important to take a look at ourselves first and discover our part in a relationship what most do is focus on the surface noise and not the real issues underneath---every person has a natural child inside its the most beautiful part of a person ( it can also be the worst )---its also where our feelings come from ( have you noticed a adult acting like a child ??? )--when a person has bad relationship problem its because the child is wounded in some way and needs to be healed by self awareness--

You have to pay for god to halp u to find the throug love

Exactly!