I agree.
Some people just love sex, end of.
Let he who is without sin cast the first stone

Gemini in action??

If only I could put it about and let it all hang out

I believe that is what you call learning and growing in life. Comparing doesn't mean judging, it helps you establish your own values and opinions, views etc.


So comparing, asking questions and other's opinions on issues, can help you grow, if you got an open mind.


Labels themselves aren't negative. They only become negative when used as such. If applied as 'identifiers' they help make life a lot clearer. You often cannot explain things without using 'labels'. Unless you want to come up with lengthy descriptions, which will become horribly irritating.


And how did you acquire those if not by comparing?

Asking questions, comparing, listening to other's opinions, helps you to form your own and find out where you stand.

Analyzing anything in life is never ignorant.

i'm not sure about others, but i was left in a basket on the church steps shortly after birth and i'm positive that's what caused me to be the horndog i am today...any loose skirts out there lookin' for a partner ??....

I got my values from my parents, not by comparing

Hey(((Blondey)))...Naw, not for me anyhooo ...I found Mariah's question and some of the responses interesting food for thought, but it had nothing to do with applying labels, jealousy, bitterness, and, god forbid, ignorance!...I agree with Beach, I REALLY LIKE TO #@%$ !!!

Mr Argo Sir, I don't believe for one minute you're a horndog
You didn't really get left on the church steps did you

I'd post a pic of my St Trinians uniform but if they won't allow shorts, that's got no chance

I do believe for the majority this is true. I'm hoping it's not the case for all women, as i can tell you from personal wants/desires it's not been abandoned by all men. Sex these days is just to "easy" I guess is the word for it, not just prostitutes as they've been around forever so to speak. But that's all people seem to want these days, they just want it for fun. People have forgotten faithfulness and compassion. Now now again not claiming everybody. But from my own personal experience especially with my ex's that's what it seems these days. But I have hopes to find a woman that is "old fashion" so to speak. Of course wouldn't hold my breath to find a virgin in this day and age lol, but someone that honors the bed and the actions therein. Someone that believes in "making love" and not just "sex".

naah franky, just tryin' to pump a few comedy squirts into the convo...

Funny don't those sound like misinformed labels? Holy contradiction Batman! lol Joel likes to #@$% he even posted it twice to prove it!

You just had to mention squirts didn't you Sir

Ohh. this is about sexuality.
. it's about judgement.
. let us judge those who judge ourselves..hmm....
. this is just too heavy for me blondie.
.. if its alright with you I'm just going to keep spelling blondey..my.
Way.. or should I just say Kiwi girl..

Oh, gee. Psychologists use labels all the time in order to describe people.

Come to think of it, everyone uses labels to describe people, places and things.

Not many have that background. Comparing for me means sharing. Ain't nothing wrong with sharing thoughts and insights.

Yeah I don't know if you quite get the having the discussion about it part. This is kind of futile, loads of folks have words for situations, events and various circumstances. Telling someone they have no right to talk about it seems ineffective to me.

People people people please
let's all just have an orgy

Here is how Collins English Dictionary defines "promiscuous":

"indulging in casual and indiscriminate sexual relationships"

So, "promiscuous" is a label for a certain type of behavior, but the label itself makes no value-judgement on that particular behavior.