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Here am I. I agree that we as men should speak up when these matters arise. I guess for my part I do not in any way condone their stupid lack of respect towards ladies. Hi ((( J )))...Wow, you are being awesome here!!  ...klc is absolutely on track when she faults men for not speaking up more...For me, the sexually explicit or lewd mail can feel very threatening at times...Sometimes the writing style is so similar I can't help but wonder if it is the same person using a different profile because I have previously blocked him...Stalking is real, it is dangerous, and it is illigal...
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Here am I. I agree that we as men should speak up when these matters arise. I guess for my part I do not in any way condone their stupid lack of respect towards ladies. You won't hear that 'militant feminist' garbage from me. I like my women feminine. I have many strong-willed women in my family, I wouldn't have it any other way. Hope I've not just been a nuissance this morning. I fear if I spoke more directly I'd be banned from this site. Yes, it upsets many of our Mingle men that this happens. |
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^^I commend a lady who stands tall in the face of a storm.^^ You won't hear that 'militant feminist' garbage from me. I like my women feminine. I have many strong-willed women in my family, I wouldn't have it any other way. Hope I've not just been a nuissance this morning. I fear if I spoke more directly I'd be banned from this site. Yes, it upsets many of our Mingle men that this happens. |
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I came here from another dating site and what you are saying is just as true of that site as it is of this one.
There are folks who will write lists about what they want and what they don't want. There are folks who have had bad experiences with the other sex and think that they are all pigs or dogs. (I'm not sure why they are on dating sites.) Once in a great while you will find someone with an original profile. I'm here mainly to socialize so my profile is nowhere near as detailed as the one Back There. |
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Tue 06/03/14 09:32 AM
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Good point OP, telling and A-hole or a perv that you don't like something
is not going to stop many of them I'm sure.I am only into woman but it doesn't seem to stop gay men from propositioning me as I'm sure gay woman get hit on all the time by men.There will be plenty of idiots no matter what you write.Yes I agree to not write the negatives as that can also guide the pretenders that will tell 'you' what 'you want to hear as they may base there answers in suport of your negative pet peeves. why not just ask ones veiw on the matter opposed to leading. |
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Here am I. I agree that we as men should speak up when these matters arise. I guess for my part I do not in any way condone their stupid lack of respect towards ladies. Hi ((( J )))...Wow, you are being awesome here!! ...klc is absolutely on track when she faults men for not speaking up more...For me, the sexually explicit or lewd mail can feel very threatening at times...Sometimes the writing style is so similar I can't help but wonder if it is the same person using a different profile because I have previously blocked him...Stalking is real, it is dangerous, and it is illigal...
Thank you J  ...^That means a lot coming from you!
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Good point OP, telling and A-hole or a perv that you don't like something is not going to stop many of them I'm sure.I am only into woman but it doesn't seem to stop gay men from propositioning me as I'm sure gay woman get hit on all the time by men.There will be plenty of idiots no matter what you write.Yes I agree to not write the negatives as that can also guide the pretenders that will tell 'you' what 'you want to hear as they may base there answers in suport of your negative pet peeves. why not just ask ones veiw on the matter opposed to leading.  I bet it's your shoulders 
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I see no point in saying anything about it unless it's just to butter the ladies up. As Pony said, it won't stop them. What am I supposed to say about it when women say that they get inappropriate messages? I haven't read them and all that I can say is, "Yeah, a lot of the women say that".
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Tue 06/03/14 11:32 AM
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I see no point in saying anything about it unless it's just to butter the ladies up. As Pony said, it won't stop them. What am I supposed to say about it when women say that they get inappropriate messages? I haven't read them and all that I can say is, "Yeah, a lot of the women say that". One point might be to help make women you are interested in getting to know be more willing or open to the idea, as in less suspicious of motive...And that applies even if you have written an excellent "first contact' email...In other words, it isn't just about stopping pervs from perving, it about creating a better atmosphere in general... |
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Edited by
TawtStrat
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Tue 06/03/14 11:38 AM
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I see no point in saying anything about it unless it's just to butter the ladies up. As Pony said, it won't stop them. What am I supposed to say about it when women say that they get inappropriate messages? I haven't read them and all that I can say is, "Yeah, a lot of the women say that". One point might be to help make women you are interested in getting to know more willing or open to the idea, as in less suspicious of motive...And that applies even if you have written an excellent "first contact' email...In other words, it isn't just about stopping pervs from perving, it about creating a better atmosphere in general... Leigh, no woman that lives anywhere near me bothers with this forum. I've got it on my profile that I'm not a creep that sends pervy messages. Can't really do much better than that. As far as me saying things that will make the women reading these threads more inclined to talk to guys that do actually live near them goes, why would I care about that? I've said plenty of things about the women on here being paranoid about it though. My first post in this thread said precisely that. My opinion and people can just take it or leave it. Makes no difference to my life. |
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I see no point in saying anything about it unless it's just to butter the ladies up. As Pony said, it won't stop them. What am I supposed to say about it when women say that they get inappropriate messages? I haven't read them and all that I can say is, "Yeah, a lot of the women say that". One point might be to help make women you are interested in getting to know more willing or open to the idea, as in less suspicious of motive...And that applies even if you have written an excellent "first contact' email...In other words, it isn't just about stopping pervs from perving, it about creating a better atmosphere in general... Leigh, no woman that lives anywhere near me bothers with this forum. I've got it on my profile that I'm not a creep that sends pervy messages. Can't really do much better than that. As far as me saying things that will make the women reading these threads more inclined to talk to guys that do actually live near them goes, why would I care about that? I've said plenty of things about the women on here being paranoid about it though. My first post in this thread said precisely that. My opinion and people can just take it or leave it. Makes no difference to my life. Ok honey  ...It's all about you, I get that .....And I still like you too
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I see no point in saying anything about it unless it's just to butter the ladies up. As Pony said, it won't stop them. What am I supposed to say about it when women say that they get inappropriate messages? I haven't read them and all that I can say is, "Yeah, a lot of the women say that". One point might be to help make women you are interested in getting to know more willing or open to the idea, as in less suspicious of motive...And that applies even if you have written an excellent "first contact' email...In other words, it isn't just about stopping pervs from perving, it about creating a better atmosphere in general... Leigh, no woman that lives anywhere near me bothers with this forum. I've got it on my profile that I'm not a creep that sends pervy messages. Can't really do much better than that. As far as me saying things that will make the women reading these threads more inclined to talk to guys that do actually live near them goes, why would I care about that? I've said plenty of things about the women on here being paranoid about it though. My first post in this thread said precisely that. My opinion and people can just take it or leave it. Makes no difference to my life. Ok honey ...It's all about you, I get that .....And I still like you too
Well yeah, I'm just like that. The best friend that I ever had on here put me in a different category from her real life friends that she would actually trust or do anything for. I've just got this thing about people being real friends that are actually involved in my life or just being mere aquaintances. It's like when I've had problems and people have suggested that I talk to one of those councelors or therapists or whatever you want to call them. Not interested. Some people do that because those councelors aren't personally involved but that's no good to me. It's all just talk and yeah, if you think that I sound somewhat alienated you would be right. |
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OK so I'm extremely new to pretty much everything social online apart from Facebook - and I've gone through some girls profiles (obviously). I've noticed most people state what they are looking for(ie - prince charming, must have good manners, looking for an America n hunk etc etc). But I've also noticed every so often that some people post stuff like "all y'all dirty pigs out der - I won't send no dirty pictures so don't even bother. this is just one example I'm reciting and I know girls get asked perverse things on the internet by pigs. I guess my point is it more important for girls to highlight negative things they don't want as opposed to qualities they do? Also does it actually stop the perverts from trying their luck? And do men do the same thing? I ask because as I mentioned before I am new to this, and secondly a fair amount of the profiles with this characteristic are of pretty attractive girls - and then I think to myself "eish... Issues" -> closes tab. Also this site is awesome. :) I think it depends on how open you want to be with everything you want/are looking for online. I think having standards isn't a terrible thing and more people should have them if they want respect from people not just guys. Having an uber long list of don'ts more than dos can be annoying though. Everyone is different. |
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Wow I didn't think that this would get such a response!
Thanks everyone for the awesome answers. Its surely helped my social internet ineptness. I'll be sure to never become one of those guys no matter how lonely I get. I mean there is no excuse for a general lack of hands on approach to solve that. That's just being lazy. Haha. ;) |
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Almost makes me wish I was a NICE GUY.
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Wow I didn't think that this would get such a response! Thanks everyone for the awesome answers. Its surely helped my social internet ineptness. I'll be sure to never become one of those guys no matter how lonely I get. I mean there is no excuse for a general lack of hands on approach to solve that. That's just being lazy. Haha. ;) Hip Hip Hooray! ...Welcome to Mingle Rob!!
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So if you end up blocking all males from messaging you then doesn't this site become less valuable? In your case has your range of activity been reduced to forums started by bafoons such as myself. Haha :) No, I'm a lesbian, and that's my point, I still got messages off men whose sole purpose was nothing but shock tactics. It may be a good idea to be able to block messages from certain Countries. the idea of blocking countries or regions is great. I know of other sites where that is possible and it really reduces the spam in ones inbox....as I was going to tell the OP to be careful of the ones who say they want an American hunk |
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Wow I didn't think that this would get such a response! Thanks everyone for the awesome answers. Its surely helped my social internet ineptness. I'll be sure to never become one of those guys no matter how lonely I get. I mean there is no excuse for a general lack of hands on approach to solve that. That's just being lazy. Haha. ;) that's good, and as far as women's profiles who you do not care for....ignore them and look for the ones you like...there are all kindsa people here |
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What is love?????
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So if you end up blocking all males from messaging you then doesn't this site become less valuable? In your case has your range of activity been reduced to forums started by bafoons such as myself. Haha :) haha you get blocked if you are from a country I can't pronounce or you say you are from Ireland, England hmmm..a country within a country. |
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