... Baby don't hurt me. Don't hurt me. No more'. :P

Thank Leigh. :D

Wow I didn't think that this would get such a response!

Thanks everyone for the awesome answers. Its surely helped my social internet ineptness.

I'll be sure to never become one of those guys no matter how lonely I get. I mean there is no excuse for a general lack of hands on approach to solve that. That's just being lazy. Haha. ;)

So if you end up blocking all males from messaging you then doesn't this site become less valuable? In your case has your range of activity been reduced to forums started by bafoons such as myself. Haha :)

OK so I'm extremely new to pretty much everything social online apart from Facebook - and I've gone through some girls profiles (obviously). I've noticed most people state what they are looking for(ie - prince charming, must have good manners, looking for an America n hunk etc etc).
But I've also noticed every so often that some people post stuff like "all y'all dirty pigs out der - I won't send no dirty pictures so don't even bother. this is just one example I'm reciting and I know girls get asked perverse things on the internet by pigs.

I guess my point is it more important for girls to highlight negative things they don't want as opposed to qualities they do?
Also does it actually stop the perverts from trying their luck? And do men do the same thing?

I ask because as I mentioned before I am new to this, and secondly a fair amount of the profiles with this characteristic are of pretty attractive girls - and then I think to myself "eish... Issues" -> closes tab.

Also this site is awesome. :)