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| Topic: ARE YOU A GIVER OR A TAKER? WHY? | |
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I have had many things taken from me but I do think I am a giver. Would offer more than I had to help people out.
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Giver.
Never occurs to me to take. From anyone. |
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Giver.
Don't take. Not even good at accepting gifts. |
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Giver.
I have a hard time asking for favors but can be counted on if I'm needed |
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I give freely of what I have, I also graciously accept or 'take' when others give I do have a hard time asking for anything though, just appreciating what Im given,,,, |
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Thu 05/22/14 12:19 PM
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A Giver!!!!because Giving IS Recieving...
See it gives me pleasure to see his eyes roll back and.. wait what?? 
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well now..with all these givers I guess I'll be a taker..so give ....  jk
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I only take what is mine.... And don't like being used by anyone...would help anyone if I can...But have been known to take when it was given to me...
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I'm a taker. I took time out for the wife and kids. I take every opportunity to help others. I just take and take.
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I'm a giver mostly due to the fact that I was raised around parents who were always helping others and got great joy from doing so.
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I'm a taker. I took time out for the wife and kids. I take every opportunity to help others. I just take and take.
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 Always a Giver!! Here is the shirt off my back type! There goes my pants and shoes? Now where is the Nudity section on mingle? Got my hat left and if anyone takes where its hung- Surprise Surprise surprise.Glad to meet you(embarrassed) but still a   !!
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Thu 05/22/14 12:57 PM
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Used to be a giver, a pleaser, eternal helper, mostly at my own expense.
Now I got healthier borders so if I give, it's okay, I don't overdo anymore. I've also learnt to receive when given, whether it's material or a compliment. Just like MsHarmony I feel that asking for things is somewhat more difficult still, although I do do it at times. Depends on what it's about I guess. Must say I find it typical that everyone says he/she's a giver, as if there's something wrong with taking? Both giving and taking can be wrong and hurtful to yourself (and others) if there is no inner balance. Seems to me that ppl think it looks better to say they're a giver and saying you're a taker means you're selfish. 
@ TXSgal, what a nice piccie you got up! |
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Cause I'm a Giver
And I'm a Taker I'm a lover earth mover and shaker I play my music in the sun I'm a joker An ex-smoker I'm a midnight toker I sure don't want to hurt no one Changed some words to protect the innocent... |
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A giver. I aim to please.
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Used to be a giver, a pleaser, eternal helper, mostly at my own expense. Now I got healthier borders so if I give, it's okay, I don't overdo anymore. I've also learnt to receive when given, whether it's material or a compliment. Just like MsHarmony I feel that asking for things is somewhat more difficult still, although I do do it at times. Depends on what it's about I guess. Must say I find it typical that everyone says he/she's a giver, as if there's something wrong with taking? Both giving and taking can be wrong and hurtful to yourself (and others) if there is no inner balance. Seems to me that ppl think it looks better to say they're a giver and saying you're a taker means you're selfish.
@ TXSgal, what a nice piccie you got up! My own Daughter scold me for this(giver) but its just me i guess? I'm really working to bring a balance to this,but its really hard ! People throughout life had that option, "Taking Advantage"of my good Nature. But i always tell her" if it puts them in Heaven with it , Then it may keep me out of Hell-o without it. It always comes back!!
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Cause I'm a Giver And I'm a Taker I'm a lover earth mover and shaker I play my music in the sun I'm a joker An ex-smoker I'm a midnight toker I sure don't want to hurt no one Changed some words to protect the innocent...  My grandad is called Maurice. So whenever I hear the line 'Some people call me Maurice. Woo woo', I end up laughing to myself.
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Cause I'm a Giver And I'm a Taker I'm a lover earth mover and shaker I play my music in the sun I'm a joker An ex-smoker I'm a midnight toker I sure don't want to hurt no one Changed some words to protect the innocent... My grandad is called Maurice. So whenever I hear the line 'Some people call me Maurice. Woo woo', I end up laughing to myself.
Which got me thinking, what's this Maurice stuff about??? |
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Cause I'm a Giver And I'm a Taker I'm a lover earth mover and shaker I play my music in the sun I'm a joker An ex-smoker I'm a midnight toker I sure don't want to hurt no one Changed some words to protect the innocent... My grandad is called Maurice. So whenever I hear the line 'Some people call me Maurice. Woo woo', I end up laughing to myself.
Which got me thinking, what's this Maurice stuff about??? This originally came from a song, "the Joker" by Steve Miller Band It has a line about people call him Maurice, cause he speaks of the Pompatus of Love or Pompitous of Love. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zua9RlosehI |
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Cause I'm a Giver And I'm a Taker I'm a lover earth mover and shaker I play my music in the sun I'm a joker An ex-smoker I'm a midnight toker I sure don't want to hurt no one Changed some words to protect the innocent... My grandad is called Maurice. So whenever I hear the line 'Some people call me Maurice. Woo woo', I end up laughing to myself.
Your Grandad, must have been a hoot.... 
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