Hey Crystal! I agree with you that some people could put a little effort into their profile pics! I have seen some "doozies"! Such grumpy faces!
If I don't feel like you're "approachable", I will not contact you.(period)
And if anyone wants to argue with how I feel about MY first impression, all I can say is... this is a PUBLIC forum. DO NOT "bash" someone for giving an honest opinion.
"You can please some people some of the time, but you can't please all the people all the time".

i have to say if I see a woman put to much into her picture I move on....im not interested in seeing them at their best makeup all done, hair perfect, tons of jewelry on etc....I automatically perceive them as high maintenance and not my type. ....give me a picture of a girl in her pj pants/shirt laying on the couch with her dog...or even better yet sticking her head out of a tent bedhair, sleepy eyes, the whole bit...those are the pictures that to me are the most attractive

Crystal, you are about as subtle as a sledgehammer. Thought that I was making it pretty clear from some of my posts that you aren't really my type either but maybe I'm being too subtle or something, so let's just call it quits, okay? You may consider yourself to be wildly atractive and I'm sure that you do have some fine qualities but I haven't even looked at your pictures.

Big hug

@ Leigh, a bear hug is perfect!

@ Isaac, I can understand that totally over the top pictures, overload of make-up etc isn't appealing.

@ Twat, in order to quit, there should've been something going and there wasn't, think you have an overactive imagination.
But np, you put yourself on the spot nicely with your last comment. Least thing you could've done was show some character for a change.
You been on my case ever since I got here, trying to get to meet me etc. so don't come up with this b0ll0x now.
If your ego can't stand rejection, simply don't force yourself upon someone who's said "no" several times.
And don't bother replying, I ain't interested, not in you and not in your childish comments. Good luck with that.

I guess for my taste overloaded can happen pretty quickly, the first College i went to, I had an early class about 7am...most of the students lived in the nearby apartments, that were walking distance to campus, for that first class, there were the girls that obviously got up earlier and got ready for the class,

then the other girls that obviously rolled out of bed at 6:45, and walked into class in their pj's, their hair a mess, no-make up, and downing coffee from the school cafeteria at 6:55....many of the girls at school couldn't believe these girls would come to class like that...but for me those were the girls I was most attracted too...but that's my preference

My point is, just because a profile picture isn't your cup-o-tea doesn't mean it isn't someone else's

GTFO? Now I really am starting to go off you.

Yeah, I tried it on with you a few times. Not afraid to admit it. It's a dating site. You said yourself that you get guys doing that all the time and then deciding that they aren't really that into you. Chemistry happening or not happening is all about the feeling being mutual. Just trying to give you a bit of insight into what you posted about and don't seem to get. Didn't mean anything when I said that I didn't look at your pictures. I'm just not that bothered about them. I don't really judge people on that.

^^^Completely Unnecessary!



That being said, I kinda like my Bear pic... Keeps the riff raff away

Front doors and tow hitches doan eskeer me!

Hi Blondie!

I like guys drinking. I think it's hot.

I've had a couple guys ask md on z date ....after they get out of jail. Their profile pic was their mugshot

Down scope!!!!!...Prepare to dive!!.....

diver down?

I don't think that I insulted anyone Blondie and I didn't divulge anything about things said in PM. Just commenting on things that the lady posted and joking around because that's what we do here.

The preceding conversations Are exactly why I have stayed away from this thread.