On what ground should one divorce his wife or her husband.Am even afraid of getin married cos d rate of divorce is alarmin

If you are thinking of divorce before you are married, Then the marriage is doomed already!! Best thing is to stand back and see why you are hesitant of the marriage! If you go by statistics and not your heart something is wrong. It takes 2 for marriage and its the other person You should be talking with about your feelings and concerns from the First day to your last (breath) not on here?

Kind of reminds me of Jeff Goldblumm In Jurasic Park, saying: I'm always looking for the next ex Missus Malcolm.

You're single and yet you're thinking about getting married and divorced? How bout finding a partner first?
Reason for divorce is simple: When you're no longer happy in the relationship.
Reason for not being happy anymore can be whatever.

You got to have hope, faith, that the right one is out there for you.
And realize that every relationship has its value, including the ones that have ended.

So don't get married and you don't have to worry about divorce.... Seems pretty simple to me....

Perfect Imperfection

As painful as it may be to lose love, to end a relationship, the real pain is in holding on to a relationship too closely so it cannot grow. Both people in the relationship are harmed, both are shortchanged, for the strength and power of love is its ability to grow, to be unbounded, a wellspring never ceasing. It is, once again, balance.

A lot of what is written about love and relationships * reflected in movies, TV, novels, popular songs * does not describe love but dependency or, as the psychologists call it, codependency. You cannot live without someone, as the songs suggest? If that's true, you cannot live. Neither can you love. Sustaining love is self-sustaining, like life itself.