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Never Judge a Book by its cover, unless you have read Frankenstine then judge all you want....
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Never Judge a Book by its cover, unless you have read Frankenstine then judge all you want.... exactly :) |
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Edited by
graywolf55
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Never Judge a Book by its cover, unless you have read Frankenstine then judge all you want....  I've been on here for over 2 years and it just makes laugh at the stupidity that "most" members in the forums put there to impress the opposite sex to them! Like- name brand expensive clothing,shoes,cars,boats, etc,etc,brag,brag brag!! Really who cares i don't!! And if that is what it takes i'm happy not to be dating anyone on here! Who are you or who the hell am i anyhow? Just another person searching to possibly find a partner with values as ourselves other than where we live by utilizing the internet and a dating site!! If a person does not see you or who you are they are materialistic anyway and is looking for Gold "not you"!! Even Frankenstine could be dressed in gold- wear diamonds and be a selfcentered A- hole and attract most on here!! Point is just be yourself and have "one less lie" to live down! Without another problem to get rid of later!Alone isn't so bad as long as you can tolerate yourself!! Good luck!  One thing i have found out is if you put the Truth on here either you will be ignored or criticized by most ,very little complimenting going on? Or it will rub a member the wrong way and taken out of context of original meaning?
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Never Judge a Book by its cover, unless you have read Frankenstine then judge all you want.... I've been on here for over 2 years and it just makes laugh at the stupidity that "most" members in the forums put there to impress the opposite sex to them!
Like- name brand expensive clothing,shoes,cars,boats, etc, etc, brag, brag brag!! Really who cares i don't!! And if that is what it takes i'm happy not to be dating anyone on here! Who are you or who the hell am i anyhow? Just another person searching to possibly find a partner with values as ourselves other than where we live by utilizing the internet and a dating site!! If a person does not see you or who you are they are materialistic anyway and is looking for Gold "not you"!! Even Frankenstine could be dressed in gold- wear diamonds and be a selfcentered A- hole and attract most on here!! Point is just be yourself and have "one less lie" to live down! Without another problem to get rid of later! Alone isn't so bad as long as you can tolerate yourself!! Good luck!
One thing i have found out is if you put the Truth on here either you will be ignored or criticized by most ,very little complimenting going on? Or it will rub a member the wrong way and taken out of context of original meeting?
WOW! OUCH! Wolf, what are you howling about this early in the morning? 
What seems like bragging to one is advertising to another. How we interpret things depends on our maturity, don't you think? 
As for revealing truths as apposed to lying to get what we're here for... we all know there are risks to each play we make, just enjoy the game and luck might finally swing your way with a winning hand. And don't bet more than you can afford to lose. 
With that said, if other members twist our words and intentions or they like us or not what does that really matter in the bigger scope of things? We're not here to attract people that don't like us, are we? NO! So don't stress over their opinions, just take note on who you should avoid. And be happy.
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Its only in chat rooms where pple can live their fantacies...I call chatrooms..*be who u can never b*...get quotes frm various sources n try 2 show us how intellegent ua...upload pics frm big companies n show us how u successful..trying2show how serious u can b a love doll yet u r hidding in the bathroom chatting while ua miserable galfriend is sleeping...
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Never Judge a Book by its cover, unless you have read Frankenstine then judge all you want.... I've been on here for over 2 years and it just makes laugh at the stupidity that "most" members in the forums put there to impress the opposite sex to them!
Like- name brand expensive clothing,shoes,cars,boats, etc, etc, brag, brag brag!! Really who cares i don't!! And if that is what it takes i'm happy not to be dating anyone on here! Who are you or who the hell am i anyhow? Just another person searching to possibly find a partner with values as ourselves other than where we live by utilizing the internet and a dating site!! If a person does not see you or who you are they are materialistic anyway and is looking for Gold "not you"!! Even Frankenstine could be dressed in gold- wear diamonds and be a selfcentered A- hole and attract most on here!! Point is just be yourself and have "one less lie" to live down! Without another problem to get rid of later! Alone isn't so bad as long as you can tolerate yourself!! Good luck!
One thing i have found out is if you put the Truth on here either you will be ignored or criticized by most ,very little complimenting going on? Or it will rub a member the wrong way and taken out of context of original meeting?
WOW! OUCH! Wolf, what are you howling about this early in the morning?
What seems like bragging to one is advertising to another. How we interpret things depends on our maturity, don't you think?
As for revealing truths as apposed to lying to get what we're here for... we all know there are risks to each play we make, just enjoy the game and luck might finally swing your way with a winning hand. And don't bet more than you can afford to lose.
With that said, if other members twist our words and intentions or they like us or not what does that really matter in the bigger scope of things? We're not here to attract people that don't like us, are we? NO! So don't stress over their opinions, just take note on who you should avoid. And be happy.
No offence your way,there are the (select few) exempt from my statement!! The hair isn't standing on the back of my neck (yet). Maby my statement isn't as broad as i figured,only time will tell? But as for me if i need to dress in some monkey suit flashing gold,money or vehicles to impress anyone that's that type of attention i avoid! But if its your thing do what you want!(as the song goes) Better to be honest now or suffer the consequences later! Again no offence your or anyone else this may rub the wrong way!
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Never Judge a Book by its cover, unless you have read Frankenstine then judge all you want.... I've been on here for over 2 years and it just makes laugh at the stupidity that "most" members in the forums put there to impress the opposite sex to them!
Like- name brand expensive clothing,shoes,cars,boats, etc, etc, brag, brag brag!! Really who cares i don't!! And if that is what it takes i'm happy not to be dating anyone on here! Who are you or who the hell am i anyhow? Just another person searching to possibly find a partner with values as ourselves other than where we live by utilizing the internet and a dating site!! If a person does not see you or who you are they are materialistic anyway and is looking for Gold "not you"!! Even Frankenstine could be dressed in gold- wear diamonds and be a selfcentered A- hole and attract most on here!! Point is just be yourself and have "one less lie" to live down! Without another problem to get rid of later! Alone isn't so bad as long as you can tolerate yourself!! Good luck!
One thing i have found out is if you put the Truth on here either you will be ignored or criticized by most ,very little complimenting going on? Or it will rub a member the wrong way and taken out of context of original meeting?
WOW! OUCH! Wolf, what are you howling about this early in the morning?
What seems like bragging to one is advertising to another. How we interpret things depends on our maturity, don't you think?
As for revealing truths as apposed to lying to get what we're here for... we all know there are risks to each play we make, just enjoy the game and luck might finally swing your way with a winning hand. And don't bet more than you can afford to lose.
With that said, if other members twist our words and intentions or they like us or not what does that really matter in the bigger scope of things? We're not here to attract people that don't like us, are we? NO! So don't stress over their opinions, just take note on who you should avoid. And be happy.
No offence your way,there are the (select few) exempt from my statement!! The hair isn't standing on the back of my neck (yet). Maby my statement isn't as broad as i figured,only time will tell? But as for me if i need to dress in some monkey suit flashing gold,money or vehicles to impress anyone that's that type of attention i avoid! But if its your thing do what you want!(as the song goes) Better to be honest now or suffer the consequences later! Again no offence your or anyone else this may rub the wrong way!
I know dear wolf, she says while smoothing with the palm of her extended hand the ruffled hair on the back of his neck to lull him into a gentle calmness... ... and no offense is taken... I've just never experienced your energy before quite the same way this post was emanating and my knee jerk reaction was to try and make you feel better. Didn't mean to overstep if I did...
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WOW.when ppl joke about there car or were thay like to eat etc. there joking around.I dont see anybody saying i have money or i have the best of the best.but i do see some ppl say look at me.iam gods gift to men/weman.thats the part i dont get.if thats so.what the hell are you doing on here.REALLY?
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Well, I'm an open book and I dare say that I put a lot of people off by giving them too much information and honesty but f**k them. I don't really care. There was some woman on here with nothing on her profile apart from some claim about being a very talkative person and a request that people that contact her choose the subject. I picked music and asked her what she was into. She said that she liked anything apart from rock and I replied that I like rock and that I don't really like rap or hip hop. That was the end of that and I didn't try to twist it by downplaying the fact that I like what she hates.
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Never Judge a Book by its cover, unless you have read Frankenstine then judge all you want.... I've been on here for over 2 years and it just makes laugh at the stupidity that "most" members in the forums put there to impress the opposite sex to them!
Like- name brand expensive clothing,shoes,cars,boats, etc, etc, brag, brag brag!! Really who cares i don't!! And if that is what it takes i'm happy not to be dating anyone on here! Who are you or who the hell am i anyhow? Just another person searching to possibly find a partner with values as ourselves other than where we live by utilizing the internet and a dating site!! If a person does not see you or who you are they are materialistic anyway and is looking for Gold "not you"!! Even Frankenstine could be dressed in gold- wear diamonds and be a selfcentered A- hole and attract most on here!! Point is just be yourself and have "one less lie" to live down! Without another problem to get rid of later! Alone isn't so bad as long as you can tolerate yourself!! Good luck!
One thing i have found out is if you put the Truth on here either you will be ignored or criticized by most ,very little complimenting going on? Or it will rub a member the wrong way and taken out of context of original meeting?
WOW! OUCH! Wolf, what are you howling about this early in the morning?
What seems like bragging to one is advertising to another. How we interpret things depends on our maturity, don't you think?
As for revealing truths as apposed to lying to get what we're here for... we all know there are risks to each play we make, just enjoy the game and luck might finally swing your way with a winning hand. And don't bet more than you can afford to lose.
With that said, if other members twist our words and intentions or they like us or not what does that really matter in the bigger scope of things? We're not here to attract people that don't like us, are we? NO! So don't stress over their opinions, just take note on who you should avoid. And be happy.
No offence your way,there are the (select few) exempt from my statement!! The hair isn't standing on the back of my neck (yet). Maby my statement isn't as broad as i figured,only time will tell? But as for me if i need to dress in some monkey suit flashing gold,money or vehicles to impress anyone that's that type of attention i avoid! But if its your thing do what you want!(as the song goes) Better to be honest now or suffer the consequences later! Again no offence your or anyone else this may rub the wrong way!
I know dear wolf, she says while smoothing with the palm of her extended hand the ruffled hair on the back of his neck to lull him into a gentle calmness... ... and no offense is taken... I've just never experienced your energy before quite the same way this post was emanating and my knee jerk reaction was to try and make you feel better. Didn't mean to overstep if I did...
No everything is good. Just had a lot on my table this morning! I will leave it at that. Smarter one are answering already!
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WOW.when ppl joke about there car or were thay like to eat etc. there joking around.I dont see anybody saying i have money or i have the best of the best.but i do see some ppl say look at me.iam gods gift to men/weman.thats the part i dont get.if thats so.what the hell are you doing on here.REALLY? Lol.. yep I have only been on here a few days and I can sense a lot of folk on here that act as if they are gods gift, but like you said .. what the hell they doing on here then.. Best to just be who you are drop all the fake acts.. don't impress nobody only the kiss A** crew who hang on every word some say on here as if it were gospel.. haha .. Good to rant now and then.. ok I'm done..
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Don't care much about first impression...its what you're made of in the long run that gets me...regardless of those material insecurities you sorround yourself with..
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Don't care much about first impression...its what you're made of in the long run that gets me...regardless of those material insecurities you sorround yourself with.. |
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Never Judge a Book by its cover, unless you have read Frankenstine then judge all you want.... First impressions count, as they say you never get a second chance to make a first impression. However the Forums allow us to see others beyond that first impression which can only be a good thing in my opinion. There are so many people on here with a good sense of humour it's good to be able to read the posts and comments and to add a few of my own. |
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I think first impressions can be misleading. I'm a straightforward person but like Graywolf said, there are a lot of people who spruce up and try to impress. In the physical appearance sense that's not so bad. But in the character sense, a wolf dressed in sheep clothing can be devastating because by the time you see them for what they are they've already gotten into your heart.
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No one can learn all about a person by a first impression. Sadly, not everyone turns out to be who we think they are and sometimes we don't find out soon enough and get hurt, thankfully not everyone is like that. A first impression should not be a deception but a promotion of you at your best.
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Edited by
graywolf55
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Sun 04/27/14 04:22 AM
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I believe as i have found out in the past, never put your best foot fowards(there may be a bear trap to cut it off) and if you present yourself with all the ribbons and bows( then what will you surprise them with later?) One day at a time! I like my jeans,nice shirt,western boots or moccisins,leather vest,buckskin coat,of course hat(baseball or western)! I think i was born in the wrong century because long ago a truckdriver was known as a muleskinner! Seriously at 59 my old butt still looks good in jeans! First impressions are good if honesty is involved to go along with it! I will just be myself nothing more! If the only thing i steal is your (Heart) then it will be safe and Cherished! Besides what is it you want? A Man-or a whatever in a Monkeysuit? 
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I for one know exactly who I am and don't wish to upscale myself, otherwise anyone I end up with will be extremely disappointed
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I for one know exactly who I am and don't wish to upscale myself, otherwise anyone I end up with will be extremely disappointed Same here!! I saw the other post (extremely sorry)!! Better wishes to You!! Be he was stupid!!
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Atleast I found out he's an alcoholic now rather than later
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