Im sick of always putting my heart out there and just getting my heart broken....any advice? Ive always been the home maker of my family.. i cook i clean and every guy ive ever known tells me that ill make the perfect lil wife and mother.. i have 2 steady jobs....i just dont get it

oh believe me, i know exactly how you feel. I was at the point of giving up myself until just yesterday when out of the blue a friend of mine told me he had a crush on someone..he kinda beat around the bush after i asked him if he needed help with this lady..he told me no. Finally i got it out of him that it was me all along

i don't get it either.
the only explanation i can come with, it's that sometimes we give our hearts too fast.
we need to be cautious, and friendship it's great because it allows you to know the person in every detail before engaging the heart.

you'll be fine

Sexy...

Do you ever think you try toooo hard? It shouldn't be that hard....believe me. You will find someone who loves you for YOU. You should never have to convince him to be with you. It won't ever work that way.

Hi there!
I'm glad I don't live where you do, I might still be in the second grade if we had to be able to spell the name of our home town before we ciund graduate!
Obviously I'm quite a few years older than you, maybe a bit more experience with your kinda situation. I'll try NOT to sound like your daddy, so here goes.
Be a bit more cautious, keep things in perspective, don't give into his wants, maintain your morals and your dignity until the time's right. Then don't just assume because he got in your pants that he's the man you've been looking for, maybe he is, maybe he's not! Just slow down, be careful, be cautious. It was good reading your info, see ya!

Gary

yeah you don't seem like you would be too hard to love. let it flow it will come. good women rarely grow old alone

Good advice from everyone here....always remember to be true to yourself. If it doesn't feel right from the very beginning, move on...follow your gut instinct. Hang in there....there is someone for everyone

take your time, as Diana Ross said in song, " You can't hurry love"

that's right it comes when your not looking
for it, good luck to you.

Don't get in a rush. Where I work we all have lockers in the nurse's station. I finally go one that wasn't on the floor. I was so happy. So I took a piece of cardboard and wrote my name in big letters so that everyone would know that it was my locker and I put a lock on it. The next day someone had wrote on my cardboard, "I touched your locker." So I wrote, "I dare you touch it again". The next day I come in and on it was wrote, "I touched it again" with a big mouth and a tongue sticking out. I was thinking how dare who ever was defacing my little piece of cardboard. By the next day there were all these, "I touched your locker" all over it and in big print, "We all love you, Roy." Really made my day.

You should invest physically, emotionally and financially in a person in relation to the amount of time you know them. The more time you know them the better you will know them. The better you know them the more you can invest in them.

Are you doing all this 'domestic bliss stuff' as a catch?

Wanting to hook yourself a husband by being a good cook with two jobs?

In your post you shared what you do, like in a resume, but nothing of who you are...the woman..

The tidiest house and the freshest baked muffins does not maketh the woman.

You're not alone. I have had my heart broken over and over and over again too. Not fun.

I think we've been beating the same dead horse Sexysari.
It really sucks when you give that 110% just to be slighted, regardless of the reason that the other person may give.
It's really easy to feel like just giving up and throwing in the towel, but hang in there, someone is bound to see you for the good person that you are and fall for you head over heels.

Honey, when you find the answer let me know.

jess - you tidy house an i'll bake yer muffins.

Love hurts! ..but you have to keep loving like you have never been hurt. (yea, I know easier said than done!!)

S1ow- my muffins bake themselves..

the best thing to do is not go searching for it as it will come along when you least expect it