I want to be big and strong like Arnold Scharzenegger. But there seems to be a lot of uncertainty about whether or not women really do like big strong powerful men. Because there are women that like to confuse the issue by going with Woody Allen types. I think they just get a kick out of throwing a spanner in the works.

Woody Allen.
YuckX10.

Medium build.
Don't like "overdone", "spend ALL my time at the gym".... Loll!

I don't mind them. It just worries me that some could end up taking Steroids, and getting into a vicious circle.

If getting big and strong enables you to become more of your true self and a better person then go for it.

It's not so much that women like the big muscles and body it's usually what goes with it from the guy's point of view.

The confidence is a big thing that comes with developing your physique in such a way for many guys.

That is what women pick up on the vibe that you give off but men confuse it with ohhh she likes me for my body.



No... she likes you and because your big body is part of you then she finds it attractive.

Some women seem to think they find a big body attractive but if the guy turns around and is a complete meat head then the attraction will wear off rather sharpish.

I think having a good body is a great thing but highly overrated in terms of does it make women feel very attracted to you... not really is my answer generally speaking.


I will be honest without sounding big headed I do have a really good body but even when I was younger girls would just go errrrrrrrrrr your arms are gross or too big and they were not even that big.

Older women seem to be or at least some like a young man with a good body perhaps for an intimate encounter but I mean it's not really a big thing from a woman's point of view I feel.

i'd say yes, especially when flanked by two ears.

but i'm not a woman, so what do i know?

As long as he can hold me and put his arms around me in good

I like a man who takes care of himself, but huge muscles is not necessary and "might" come across as someone with a huge ego, which is very unattractive to me. Depends on the man ultimately and I won't make a judgement until after getting to know the person. Well built MIND is more important to me. JMHO

It's a shame you feel the need to do this to attract women. You look toned enough in your pic. I would say you already look physically fit. Or have you just become a gym addict?

Here's some hot muscle.

It's probably like asking if men like big boobs. I honestly thought that we all did until my cousin said that he didn't and that to him, they look freakish. The most successful glamour models do have big knockers though and your Chippendale strippers are body builders. Anything inbetween is somewhat androgenous.

Personally, I like a woman to look like a woman and have curves. It's possible that guys that like girls with boyish figures are latent homosexuals. Women that like pretty boys over hunky men could be bisexuals or lesbians.

I don;t particularly care for overly ripped physiques but if I met a wonderful man with that hobby, the person he is would matter more than his physique

obssession is not good tho, and I certainly would not be willing to share in that hobby to an obsessive extent, if at all.

Different strokes for different folks.

I'll take the small dude..easier for him to climb into my head

#Muscles don't make the man.

You got nothing to worry about Shy emo chick, I think modern bodybuilders look disgusting. They all admit to taking steroids, even Arnold. But he looked incredible. I guess he only needed them for a fine tune.

i think they only care about 1 big muscle...

The love muscle and damn you cannot really train it like you can biceps! DAMMIT

No I'm not a gym addict. I only go there because I'm single. I'm so randy that if I don't burn myself out I become sex crazed. Mind you the amount of women there makes it very hard for me to concentrate. Some of the things they do... On all fours, skin tight leggings on, doing leg raises. There's no escape!